i can't find my fitting ground.

• ghast.

  5 Mar 08, 00:29

  i have just transferred to another school. this schol is a methodist school and the people there naturally lean towards english speaking and upbringing. perhaps it's just me, but i just can't seem to fit in. especially when there are so many girls coming from girls school. the way they carry themselves just isn't frendly, just plain snobbish. why do they like to say "....LIKE TOTALLY" in that super fake angmoh accent and then roll their eyes. why some girls from girls school tend to be more bitchy and gossip about others in front of them. even the people i used to know who absolutely didnt carry that behaviour, have come to learn to act like them as well.

  is it just my school? how the fruck do i even fit in when i don't even like the people there. i don't wanna be like those girls.

  wad shld i do. schooling is getting so miserable. i end up having to hang out by myself.

• gLc

  5 Mar 08, 00:32

  if u cant win them, join them!!

• rlsh07

  5 Mar 08, 00:34

  Originally posted by ghast.:

  i have just transferred to another school. this schol is a methodist school and the people there naturally lean towards english speaking and upbringing. perhaps it's just me, but i just can't seem to fit in. especially when there are so many girls coming from girls school. the way they carry themselves just isn't frendly, just plain snobbish. why do they like to say "....LIKE TOTALLY" in that super fake angmoh accent and then roll their eyes. why some girls from girls school tend to be more bitchy and gossip about others in front of them. even the people i used to know who absolutely didnt carry that behaviour, have come to learn to act like them as well.

  is it just my school? how the fruck do i even fit in when i don't even like the people there. i don't wanna be like those girls.

  wad shld i do. schooling is getting so miserable. i end up having to hang out by myself.

  There are all kinds of ppl in the school. you will find ur clinque one

• alwaysdisturbed

  5 Mar 08, 00:36

  well if you don't know....its the process of americanisation.
• ghast.

  5 Mar 08, 00:39

  if they arent the way americans are, why try so hard.

• BrUtUs

  5 Mar 08, 00:40

  its the culture in those type of schools... but then dun worry.... sure will hv some other gals whp dun dig those angmo crap...

• rlsh07

  5 Mar 08, 00:41

  yeah lo still got some gals are very chinese pie one.

• skeujin

  5 Mar 08, 00:41

  wana find people u like?

  join a cca u really have interest in. the people there will have similar interest in the cca and it will get the ball rolling for u in making more frens.

• xavier1979

  5 Mar 08, 08:12

  Seek your own identity. Look around. There's bound to be loners in your school who are also seeking friendship & camaraderie.

• Ed11790

  5 Mar 08, 08:15

  act like u are one of them.....laugh with them...talk with them...
• magical_wen

  5 Mar 08, 12:00

  learn to be independend.

  not all people are like wad u had described.

  find those rare few u can relate to.

  GDLUCK

• fairlady_xoxo

  5 Mar 08, 12:03

  Hey...人在�,天在看...

• Alucard101

  5 Mar 08, 12:26

  Ther shud be somewhere there who thinks like you do.Wait till you find them.

   

  If you despise them,dnt mind them.There isn't much you can do about changing other's character.

   

• cApitaland

  5 Mar 08, 12:36

  are you just not comfortable with english speaking ple?

• soleachip

  5 Mar 08, 12:52

  Originally posted by ghast.:

  i have just transferred to another school. this schol is a methodist school and the people there naturally lean towards english speaking and upbringing. perhaps it's just me, but i just can't seem to fit in. especially when there are so many girls coming from girls school. the way they carry themselves just isn't frendly, just plain snobbish. why do they like to say "....LIKE TOTALLY" in that super fake angmoh accent and then roll their eyes. why some girls from girls school tend to be more bitchy and gossip about others in front of them. even the people i used to know who absolutely didnt carry that behaviour, have come to learn to act like them as well.

  is it just my school? how the fruck do i even fit in when i don't even like the people there. i don't wanna be like those girls.

  wad shld i do. schooling is getting so miserable. i end up having to hang out by myself.

  Life in secondary school and college/poly always sucks for anyone who's the least bit different.

  Hang in there.

  You'll be rid of them in no time (I was).

• xavier1979

  5 Mar 08, 12:55

  Don't bring a gun into the school and start shooting though.

• soleachip

  5 Mar 08, 12:57

  Chapel time = nap time

  When the girls scream and yell = Bring ear plugs

  Hang out with the boys = They usually don't yak as much as girls

• aremeis

  5 Mar 08, 18:08

  As you had just been transferred, so just give yourself sometime to get use to the surrounding environment and people. Girls are by nature carefree especially when they are still young and in a protected environment like the school. Besides, they have already known each other for quite sometime compared to your arrival.

  Getting along with people takes time and making acquaintance also requires some chemistry here. Just try and be open minded and not to let familarity get the better of you.

• ghast.

  5 Mar 08, 18:48

  i am not uncomfortable with english speaking people. just hat those around me seem really unkind and unfriendly. went to find a cca today in hope of finding somewhere i belong, as suggested by skeujin. thanks anyway.