they in luv meh?
Dont worry. You are not the only girl in singapore who regretted not treating their parents well before they die. In fact, most girls think their dad is so healthy and will live for many many years and they will continue to be want to be pampered by their dad. So dont worry, you are not alone.

Why am I cast down
And despondently sad
When I long to be happy
And joyous and glad?
Why is my heart heavy
With unfathomable weight
As I try to escape
This soul-saddened state?
I ask myself often ...
"What makes life this way,
Why is the song silenced
In the heart that was gay?"
And then, with God's help
It all becomes clear,
The "Soul" has its "Seasons"
Just the same as the year.
I, too, must pass through
Life's autumn of dying,
A desolate period
Of heart-hurt and crying.
Followed by winter
In whose frostbitten hand
My heart is as frozen
As the snow-covered land.
Yes, man too must pass
Through the seasons God sends,
Content in the knowledge
That everything ends.
And, Oh! What a blessing
To know there are reasons
And to find that our soul
Must, too, have it's seasons.
"Bounteous Seasons"
And "Barren Ones," too.
Times for rejoicing
And times to be blue.
But meeting these seasons
Of dark desolation
With strength that is born
Of anticipation
That comes from knowing
That "autumn-time sadness"
Will surely be followed
by a "Springtime of Gladness."
~ Helen Steiner Rice ~
Condolences for your loss and hope you will recover with time.
last nite me & hubby guided dad's place from 1.30am-8.30am, came back slept for 3 hrs, rest a while then go back there for walking ceremony with the monks till late tonite ![]()
Originally posted by Hello Kitty:they in luv meh?
pls la with hubby & dotter around how to ![]()
hubby & elder bro also talk alot with pm *I treat him as a younger bro* lol ![]()
take care jerry!
thanks jerry for letting me to be there ... bless jerry and family ...
jerry will be a very nice elder sister ... ![]()
a 70+ yrs old neighbour thought I'm hubby's daughter ![]()
she chat with him whole morning & call from market to buy lunch for hubby ![]()
hubby kept praising her for being such friendly & nice neighbour ![]()
finally dad has settled down with mum in mandai columbarium ![]()
fulfilling his wish of meeting mum again ![]()
I think I'm late in this, but my condolences go to you.
I understand the pain of losing someone as dear as your parents, especially when you think you've neglected him or her.
I've lost once, and it taught me that I should love to live each moment, and treasure everyone around me. :