getting her to be my girl

• oldkid

  18 Mar 08, 12:05

  Originally posted by eagle:

  simple la. She's almost yours, just that she don't want to rush into it.

  Respect her, continue with what you are doing with her, and ask again in one month.

  And... don't ask via sms. Do it face to face.

  
  Agree. Be more sincere and ask her face to face. Although you maybe nervous but it is also fun. Ask her out over a nice dinner, a stroll at esplanade or something similar. Whether its fast or slow, its dependent on you and her. Hehehe, my fastest was approx 6 hours since 1st meeting up. lol

• de_middle

  18 Mar 08, 12:11

  woot

• Ferguson

  18 Mar 08, 12:25

  bed her and she is yours!!

• Karma88

  18 Mar 08, 13:08

  Just give her some more time lar duh.

• IamDavid

  18 Mar 08, 17:00

  Go slow don't rush :)

• Chyeo1979

  18 Mar 08, 23:44

  Thought holding hands is already a confirmation to a relationship... no?

• thehappybunny

  18 Mar 08, 23:45

  Originally posted by Chyeo1979:

  Thought holding hands is already a confirmation to a relationship... no?

  thats not always the case.

• val.

  19 Mar 08, 00:07

  thanks for all the advices.. im bringing her out to east coast park soon. probably next week. havent contacted her for a few days already haha..
• Alucard101

  19 Mar 08, 05:34

  Slow and steady wins the race.

• FBI

  19 Mar 08, 07:12

  since u 2 both held hands, i think its easier from now on.

• _Justice_

  19 Mar 08, 12:28

  hais...i experienced this exact same thing before...its very "arggh!!!!"...when u tot u r almost there she leaves u...

  i also less than a mth n waited for a yr n asked..but was said tat she nt prepared yet..then 2yrs then i asked again..she rejected me...hais...

• thehappybunny

  19 Mar 08, 12:31

  sometimes i feel really envious of couples who get together within mere days or a week of knowing each other.

  some people do not have that kind of luck.

• Xerxas

  19 Mar 08, 14:50

  its better if both of u spend more time knowing and understanding each other better. afterall shes someone u picked up at your workplace, and who will reveal their ugly side within the first month of courtship? just like you, did you tell her about your bad points/habits etc? the same goes for her.. dont hurry into a courtship, find out shes actually not what you think she is.. and break up. by then the damage would already have been done.

• j_dsowner

  22 Mar 08, 23:02

  Listen to s.h.e Chu Dian song and u'll get what she means. it will truely be a very sweet experience for both of you.

• Maith

  23 Mar 08, 02:06

  i've been with my gf for 4 months before asking her to be my gf,and we also held hands before that. U're on the right track buddy,just dont rush. Haha and i asked her through sms..i shy la..but she agreed anyway :D

• stellazio

  23 Mar 08, 02:18

  you already holding her hands, just wait ahwile more la.. you too eager to kiss her is it? both of you like each otehr already so take it naturally la.

• onlooker123

  23 Mar 08, 16:46

  terribly terribly unromantic to ask over sms. 

  buy her flowers, ask her face to face.

• Muackiex

  24 Mar 08, 14:11

  yeah.. dont so fast.. no point rushing.. she has already let u hold her hands, so just wait for afew more weeks or so. =D

• Muackiex

  24 Mar 08, 14:20

  Oh.. another thing is that try not to ask through sms or msn.. asking through phone is also not a very good choice. not very successful i think.. out of 10 times, 7 times failed.. (I think so).. you can bring her out for a dinner or go to the beach and ask her to be your gf.. isn't it much better? since you know she likes you already, i guess she wont reject u too straight right. You can also see her expression and how she reacts... how nice, fun also right.. you can see how she blush..

   

  my bf asked me to be his gf in the cinema.. not a very romantic place but i think its much more better than msn or sms..

• magical_wen

  24 Mar 08, 16:53

  i oso ask by sms...

  haha...scared being rejected mah...

  so TS, hows the situation liao?

• lpx88

  24 Mar 08, 17:03

  Originally posted by Alucard101:

  Slow and steady wins the race.

  
  If there's no competitor?

• val.

  24 Mar 08, 20:29

  going out with her this week probably on wed to the beach.. go for a stroll hold hands etc. then maybe pop the question. but then like a bit weird to ask her to be my girlfriend. are these things better left unspoken? but then i concur with you all about the taking things slow part. the ride would be more enjoyable if we take things slow. I plan to look hold her hands, look deep in her eyes, fang some dian then ask her while sitting down on a bench or sth. woohoo

• magical_wen

  25 Mar 08, 10:11

  Originally posted by val.:

  going out with her this week probably on wed to the beach.. go for a stroll hold hands etc. then maybe pop the question. but then like a bit weird to ask her to be my girlfriend. are these things better left unspoken? but then i concur with you all about the taking things slow part. the ride would be more enjoyable if we take things slow. I plan to look hold her hands, look deep in her eyes, fang some dian then ask her while sitting down on a bench or sth. woohoo

  but dun take things too slow kkz..

  sometimes, it will backfire

• Miss Tiny

  25 Mar 08, 16:08

  Do things that will make her feel so touched until she cannot resist you! Good luck~

• lpx88

  27 Mar 08, 20:36

  Originally posted by val.:

  going out with her this week probably on wed to the beach.. go for a stroll hold hands etc. then maybe pop the question. but then like a bit weird to ask her to be my girlfriend. are these things better left unspoken? but then i concur with you all about the taking things slow part. the ride would be more enjoyable if we take things slow. I plan to look hold her hands, look deep in her eyes, fang some dian then ask her while sitting down on a bench or sth. woohoo

  eh update leh!