Originally posted by Yunhaier:
You felt disturbed by the environment which includes her presence.
But then actually, it is your thoughts that are disturbing you, rather than your environment. You are probably disturbed by the myriad of thoughts, which consists of her imagery and selective emotional events.
Then again, since you can't change your environment, you might want to work on that thought processing.
If you failed to learn acceptance, then you will always be affected; with or without her physical presence.
Cheers
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