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i have a un answered doubt lingering in me 
i like this gal frm work and almost all the staff know tht i am tryin to woo her 
she should know it 2 cos like i said every1 is talkin bout it 
now here comes a prob on christmas eve i asked her out,but she said she was goin to attend a party at a frens place, when i went home at ard 2 am tht day i msg her again and asked where she was, she replied i am at my bf place the nxt day i saw her at work she came over to me and said , "yesterday tht bf in the msg meant best fren ah 
" then walked off b4 i said anyting.yet she told some other colleauges she was at her boy frenz place!Y would she tell me best fren and tell the others boy fren....Y..Y???
today after we knocked off i walked her to the mrt station, she was in a hurry but i had to wait 4 my other colleauges so she went off 1st.upon reachin home i sms her askin her if she would like to go clubbin, this is her repply ,"sorry i cant , cos i stayin over at my bf place, you go n find the rest lah " this time is the bf in the msg Boy fren or best fren..... -
For your information, if others come across such insincere girls, many would have forget about it and move on with their lives. Either she is trying to give people the impression that she *HAS* a boyfriend... OR trying to send mix signal to you - likely, BOTH. Think about this, if she is staying at her boyfriend house, its has nothing to do with you right? Even if she is staying at her best friend's house, still nothing to do with you right?Originally posted by k3av: i have a un answered doubt lingering in me i like this gal frm work and almost all the staff know tht i am tryin to woo her she should know it 2 cos like i said every1 is talkin bout it now here comes a prob on christmas eve i asked her out,but she said she was goin to attend a party at a frens place, when i went home at ard 2 am tht day i msg her again and asked where she was, she replied i am at my bf place the nxt day i saw her at work she came over to me and said , "yesterday tht bf in the msg meant best fren ah " then walked off b4 i said anyting.yet she told some other colleauges she was at her boy frenz place!Y would she tell me best fren and tell the others boy fren....Y..Y???
today after we knocked off i walked her to the mrt station, she was in a hurry but i had to wait 4 my other colleauges so she went off 1st.upon reachin home i sms her askin her if she would like to go clubbin, this is her repply ,"sorry i cant , cos i stayin over at my bf place, you go n find the rest lah " this time is the bf in the msg Boy fren or best fren.....
Let me teach you one unorthodox method to get the answer you want - counter her moves. If she wants you to be confused - be firm and sensible. When she msg you, oh, I staying over my bf house - reply as the msg back as if you don't even give a damn. 'Alright baby, enjoy yourself, but today sure too be happening one. Hehez.' kind of msg. Remember this: Who are you to her right? And who is she to you.
Do not ever get xin ruan - soft-hearted, because if you do, you never know whats her intention. If you know you sure won't be able to make it through that way, commuication and settle once and for all. Talk to her, make things clear. After you do that and before you post it here to update the situation, give me a private message saying that you communicated already: wait for my reply and see if my prediction of that outcome is correct anot.
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this ger seems to be sending u mixed signals..... she herself could be confused too...hmmmmm..Originally posted by k3av: i have a un answered doubt lingering in me i like this gal frm work and almost all the staff know tht i am tryin to woo her she should know it 2 cos like i said every1 is talkin bout it now here comes a prob on christmas eve i asked her out,but she said she was goin to attend a party at a frens place, when i went home at ard 2 am tht day i msg her again and asked where she was, she replied i am at my bf place the nxt day i saw her at work she came over to me and said , "yesterday tht bf in the msg meant best fren ah " then walked off b4 i said anyting.yet she told some other colleauges she was at her boy frenz place!Y would she tell me best fren and tell the others boy fren....Y..Y???
today after we knocked off i walked her to the mrt station, she was in a hurry but i had to wait 4 my other colleauges so she went off 1st.upon reachin home i sms her askin her if she would like to go clubbin, this is her repply ,"sorry i cant , cos i stayin over at my bf place, you go n find the rest lah " this time is the bf in the msg Boy fren or best fren.....
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Good post. This is the very first one i agreeOriginally posted by Yunhaier:For your information, if others come across such insincere girls, many would have forget about it and move on with their lives. Either she is trying to give people the impression that she *HAS* a boyfriend... OR trying to send mix signal to you - likely, BOTH. Think about this, if she is staying at her boyfriend house, its has nothing to do with you right? Even if she is staying at her best friend's house, still nothing to do with you right?
Let me teach you one unorthodox method to get the answer you want - counter her moves. If she wants you to be confused - be firm and sensible. When she msg you, oh, I staying over my bf house - reply as the msg back as if you don't even give a damn. 'Alright baby, enjoy yourself, but today sure too be happening one. Hehez.' kind of msg. Remember this: Who are you to her right? And who is she to you.
Do not ever get xin ruan - soft-hearted, because if you do, you never know whats her intention. If you know you sure won't be able to make it through that way, commuication and settle once and for all. Talk to her, make things clear. After you do that and before you post it here to update the situation, give me a private message saying that you communicated already: wait for my reply and see if my prediction of that outcome is correct anot.
Cheers.
Well Done yunhaier