advice needed. SO CONFUSED
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so here's the story.
i've been frequenting a certain club for the past 2 months now and without fail, i always see this guy there too. I was really drawn/attracted to him at first sight. he's not THAT handsome nor attractive (according to my friends) but i have no idea why i find him ultra appealing and cute. after 2 weeks, i just cant stop thinking about him. i plucked up some non-existent courage to approach this guy who know him by acquintance only and i found out his name. I searched for him on friendster/facebook and found his msn. but he havent logged into msn yet up till now. i found out that he knows some of my friends but sadly, they're not close to me :( but i managed to dig out some infos about him and he's the kind of guy that i'll like/go crazy over.
my friends told me im freaky and sound like a stalker :/
i really like him but it cant be love at first sight as i barely know him personally. but just at the thought of him never fails to light up my day and bring smile to my face :)
what is wrong with me? can i be in love with someone whom i barely know? plus i didnt talk to him at all yet and alrdy im on cloud 9. should i just talk to him when i see him? im sooo damn scared that he'll think im freaky or a stalker.
god i sound like a totally lost teen (which im not that young)
your thoughts and advice is really really appreciated! my friends refuse to hear another word about him :(((
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I think you're infatuated over him.
It dies down after a while.
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If you like him so much, then ask him out...
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yeah prob infatuation, with your expectations of him and imagination. sounds familiar and normal ba..
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wanna talk then go get a drink and sit by his side.. no harm of knowing ppl.. but i dont think u love him, its just infatuation at the moment.. Go get to know him and also be safe..
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This type of "love" die out sooner or later .. Sometimes i go club got girls i will remember for a few days.. Their face and so but somehow it will be disappear from my mind..
Anyway for your case .. If u realli do wanna make friends with him.. Give him some eye contact .. If he get the signal he will come over. There's this very funny thinking guys have .. Some guys will think like "wah a girl come over like that .. must hang up and sell" so i guess u dun take the first step bah
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thats wht i think so too. merely infatuation. but if it last for like let's say, a few months? is it still infatuation?
okay i shall buy him a drink this week :P hope it works! haha. a girl buying a guy some drinks. hopefully he wont think it's freaky.
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When I went clubbing with my friend last time, my friend met his previous gf there.
The girl remembered us cos we were regulars at the club then.Sadly, due to character difference, my friend chose to let go of the relationship.
If this can happen, I guess anything's possible.
Good luck!
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The next time you see him again, before talkin/approaching him, make some eye contact and smile. Let him know you exist. Then talk to him, like "Hello, i always see you here.. bla bla bla" some normal conversation.
dont sound/appear to be desperate. you know fishin.... sometimes you pull and also let go.. do this.... dont pull all the way
im not sure if you have added him on msn.. but i suggest not to add him on everything - msn, friendster at one go because he might be thinkin, "how do you get my msn etc? you went to search for them? wow you are one hardworkin girl" Although you know his msn/friendster/whatever already, dont let him know that you know a lot bout him. Back to the conversation part, you can ask him (for number) from there. You can say sth like.. "i love to club here too with my buddies, perhaps we could all club together some day...."
theres nothin wrong with you as this is pretty common.. i get this a lot too but usually i will forget bout the faces maybe because hangover or somethin then i cant rem already. Very few stay in my head.
.... this thread makes me think of this guy whom i always see in clubs.. i can rem him already
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Originally posted by Hellopanda99:
so here's the story.
i've been frequenting a certain club for the past 2 months now and without fail, i always see this guy there too. I was really drawn/attracted to him at first sight. he's not THAT handsome nor attractive (according to my friends) but i have no idea why i find him ultra appealing and cute. after 2 weeks, i just cant stop thinking about him. i plucked up some non-existent courage to approach this guy who know him by acquintance only and i found out his name. I searched for him on friendster/facebook and found his msn. but he havent logged into msn yet up till now. i found out that he knows some of my friends but sadly, they're not close to me :( but i managed to dig out some infos about him and he's the kind of guy that i'll like/go crazy over.
my friends told me im freaky and sound like a stalker :/
i really like him but it cant be love at first sight as i barely know him personally. but just at the thought of him never fails to light up my day and bring smile to my face :)
what is wrong with me? can i be in love with someone whom i barely know? plus i didnt talk to him at all yet and alrdy im on cloud 9. should i just talk to him when i see him? im sooo damn scared that he'll think im freaky or a stalker.
god i sound like a totally lost teen (which im not that young)
your thoughts and advice is really really appreciated! my friends refuse to hear another word about him :(((
Damn...homo relationship has no ending....many tried...few made it....give it up.
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Originally posted by nehpyh:
Damn...homo relationship has no ending....many tried...few made it....give it up.
what homo r/s?
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Lorry, stop encouraging him to live in denial!
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how would you know TS is a guy, i thought is a girl
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Lorry....go to Changi V and train up a bit, my fren!
heh heh heh.....
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Originally posted by Lorry`:
how would you know TS is a guy, i thought is a girl
ya she's a ger falling head over toe in love with this guy
every1 do experienced that, just take it as part & parcel of life
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which club? mayb the guy is me.
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Originally posted by Hellopanda99:
so here's the story.
i've been frequenting a certain club for the past 2 months now and without fail, i always see this guy there too. I was really drawn/attracted to him at first sight. he's not THAT handsome nor attractive (according to my friends) but i have no idea why i find him ultra appealing and cute. after 2 weeks, i just cant stop thinking about him. i plucked up some non-existent courage to approach this guy who know him by acquintance only and i found out his name. I searched for him on friendster/facebook and found his msn. but he havent logged into msn yet up till now. i found out that he knows some of my friends but sadly, they're not close to me :( but i managed to dig out some infos about him and he's the kind of guy that i'll like/go crazy over.
my friends told me im freaky and sound like a stalker :/
i really like him but it cant be love at first sight as i barely know him personally. but just at the thought of him never fails to light up my day and bring smile to my face :)
what is wrong with me? can i be in love with someone whom i barely know? plus i didnt talk to him at all yet and alrdy im on cloud 9. should i just talk to him when i see him? im sooo damn scared that he'll think im freaky or a stalker.
god i sound like a totally lost teen (which im not that young)
your thoughts and advice is really really appreciated! my friends refuse to hear another word about him :(((
Hello Panda panda sakura, you are in a pub. If you dun cho cho him there and then, then when? When you meet him in temple meh?!!!!
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huh. who's homo? HAHA im confused.
and panda panda sakura? so cheesy man. you think so easy to jio GUYS?! maybe it's easy if im a hot supermodel or smth. too bad im not, LOL
monoslayer: i surely hope it's not you cos it'll be ultra embarrassing. lol. it's zouk btw.
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Wah...zouk!!!! my fav !!!! Then let tiko weird uncle cho cho you la....!!!!
Btw, if you super hot model he will cho cho you la....
Just do it.
If not, ask your babe chummy cho cho him, and then ditch him, and then you follow up to comfort him.....sure works one! I have seen it in many Qiong Yao dramas!
Rgds,
Tiko Weird Peh Peh
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Originally posted by Hellopanda99:
huh. who's homo? HAHA im confused.
and panda panda sakura? so cheesy man. you think so easy to jio GUYS?! maybe it's easy if im a hot supermodel or smth. too bad im not, LOL
monoslayer: i surely hope it's not you cos it'll be ultra embarrassing. lol. it's zouk btw.
chey... dun worry... i havent been to jouk for quite sometime liao.. lol
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Originally posted by nehpyh:
Wah...zouk!!!! my fav !!!! Then let tiko weird uncle cho cho you la....!!!!
Btw, if you super hot model he will cho cho you la....
Just do it.
If not, ask your babe chummy cho cho him, and then ditch him, and then you follow up to comfort him.....sure works one! I have seen it in many Qiong Yao dramas!
Rgds,
Tiko Weird Peh Peh
siao lang.
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tiko weird peh peh?! HAHAA that's kinda freaky.
jouk jouk mambo mambo worss. panda panda sakura's fwenss wont do these kindaa badd cho cho thingys. it only werks in taiwanese lurvey dovey chummy dramas nehh.
:D
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Torrid Infautuation la.
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Just ten words: go go go go go go go!
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Originally posted by Hellopanda99:
so here's the story.
i've been frequenting a certain club for the past 2 months now and without fail, i always see this guy there too. I was really drawn/attracted to him at first sight. he's not THAT handsome nor attractive (according to my friends) but i have no idea why i find him ultra appealing and cute. after 2 weeks, i just cant stop thinking about him. i plucked up some non-existent courage to approach this guy who know him by acquintance only and i found out his name. I searched for him on friendster/facebook and found his msn. but he havent logged into msn yet up till now. i found out that he knows some of my friends but sadly, they're not close to me :( but i managed to dig out some infos about him and he's the kind of guy that i'll like/go crazy over.
my friends told me im freaky and sound like a stalker :/
i really like him but it cant be love at first sight as i barely know him personally. but just at the thought of him never fails to light up my day and bring smile to my face :)
what is wrong with me? can i be in love with someone whom i barely know? plus i didnt talk to him at all yet and alrdy im on cloud 9. should i just talk to him when i see him? im sooo damn scared that he'll think im freaky or a stalker.
god i sound like a totally lost teen (which im not that young)
your thoughts and advice is really really appreciated! my friends refuse to hear another word about him :(((
hey, mei mei, sounds like you have a crush or infatuated with him. Sometimes I don't understand why ppl can be such when there is no communication or relationship with the other party.