Hi everyone. okay, heres my story. I knew this gal for like 4 mths. Shes a good fren of my classmate. She took the initiative to get to know me. (always wave to me in sch) Then she added me on frenster, msn. Then we began chatting.(Sometimes she initiates convos too. )After 2 months i began to develop feelings for her. Then on the 3rd month, i got her no from my classmate, we began smsing each other. We sms each other like about 40-50 msgs per day. Sometimes i will call her too. But i asked her out thrice, she had excuses. I thought she was playing hard to get. But last wk, i dno why, i went to confess to her via sms during our usual chats. She thought i was kidding, but eventually she say we would be better as good frens. I ask her isit she dont feel the same way, she say yea& tell me maybe i shld give up. Because from my past basic experience, i thought it might work out. But even after my failed confession, we still chatted as good as last time. Finally, i thought maybe because all the while i did not take effort to approach her more when face to face. ( at most hi & 5 min chat) And I didnt make the effort to make her gan dong. Can anyone give me opinions on this situation?
She see you as a friend all along. It's only a few months - just get over her and look for someone else.
Yup, get to know her well first.. This is the diff between girls and guys lol
Enjoying her company as a good buddy? Keep her la.
Why must she die die be your girlfriend?
One thing is for sure - The feeling isn't mutual.
You can peservere to win her heart. But without chemistry, the relationship won't last long.
seems like she just add u bcuz u cute, not becuz you're the man she wanted lor. aiya, sometimes gals like to add guys but the action that she never go out with u proved alot.
40-50sms, really alot.. kinda wasting time, dont u think u better use that time to ask her for a drink , that if she wanted to go out with u for simple drink than movie
Sometimes being friends is better ... When u are in a r/s either u or the other party tend to expect something..
GG for you...
you can sv_restartround 1 liaos...
Hana u always use "game terms" =.="
Originally posted by Midlusionz:Hana u always use "game terms" =.="
simple and easy...
But even couples, their chemistry might burn out also wad. Anything u guys can suggest I do, if i wanna go all out to woo her? thanks.
Originally posted by ah koh:But even couples, their chemistry might burn out also wad. Anything u guys can suggest I do, if i wanna go all out to woo her? thanks.
Gain a partner or lose a friend .. It's all up to u.. And yes u are right.. chemistry burn out .. And if it dun? Getting into a r/s is easy.. Maintaining is not easy..