looking my ex gal fren at BSS
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Memories are called memories for a reason.
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Originally posted by S271008:
It has been like more than 20years during my secondary 4 days and i am still thinking about my ex-gal fren. Our relationship was very short. Lets call her Hana A. Last I heard she is married and have a daughter. 4-5 years ago, we met at Tampines MRT and I am able to email her and talked to her at her office. Somehow all is now gone. It stopped just like that. I remembered giving her 2 books for her to study on EXCEL. I really am looking for her to see and talk to her. I just could not help it, day and night been thinking of her. The feeling is not to start a relationship but to just to see her face and hear her sweet voice.
I am married now with kids but my mind is very disturbed and cannot forget her. I tried to tell myself that she is somebody else but my mind refused to accept it. Hope Hana will happen to read this.
did u fuk wit her?
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helo i am the one looking for ex-gf here ... not PM! Anyway yesterday, saw someone resembles like my ex at Tampines Interchange. Rushed closer and damn! wrong person! Time is running out liao, Monday going to Perth. To stay with sister and see how can I talk to her into renting a room and working for her company. Wanna be away from all this memories that is contaminating my mind ... What if I cannot forget it once I'm there?
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Originally posted by Poolman:
Those objection vote from those forumites , all very naive , all from the book , until u people got married , then u all will know . Now never married , can talk like real , wait til u all kena same fate , u will remember what u wrote here is all like movies script .
Sometimes life is jus like a movie script, perhaps minus out the dramatic effects.
U may b married, but seems like it still doesnt make u any wiser. If our advices here are like movie script, then urs is like a bad comedy show. Shallow & nothing constructive but it's laugh-able.
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Originally posted by 798:
chu lian is the most unforgetable experience. i can understand TS's feeling.
True to the statement, I can't forget my first-love even though I have already gotten a definitely all-round better girl-friend.Refrain from flaming each other, everyone has their own POVs and neither is wrong.
TS feels what he feels and it is only deemed socially wrong, some people can accept it, some people can't, some people accept it only when they have dealt with it.
TS has pm'd me with appreciation and I believe that anyone who can appreciate, deserves advice, not flame.
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Originally posted by S271008:
helo i am the one looking for ex-gf here ... not PM! Anyway yesterday, saw someone resembles like my ex at Tampines Interchange. Rushed closer and damn! wrong person! Time is running out liao, Monday going to Perth. To stay with sister and see how can I talk to her into renting a room and working for her company. Wanna be away from all this memories that is contaminating my mind ... What if I cannot forget it once I'm there?
I'd like to think otherwise, once you're there, take it as a chance to start anew, you might unavoidably bring up those memories, probably stings, but you have to move on.Though I'm supportive of your case, the reason why my advise is sound is because I've been there and I know feelings like these are not rewarded and bring about more negative results than positive,
but yet, something seems unfinished. Just remember, you gain something, you lose something. While I hope you are able to find her, I hope you don't; though in that case you have to live with that feeling of voidness for quite awhile.
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Originally posted by S271008:
helo i am the one looking for ex-gf here ... not PM! Anyway yesterday, saw someone resembles like my ex at Tampines Interchange. Rushed closer and damn! wrong person! Time is running out liao, Monday going to Perth. To stay with sister and see how can I talk to her into renting a room and working for her company. Wanna be away from all this memories that is contaminating my mind ... What if I cannot forget it once I'm there?
i was in the same situation as u when i arived in melbourne 3 years ago and i found an all rounder better Gf as well, who is financially secure and in looks resembles my old flame very closely as well....
But if u keep yrself busy and mixing around, u will not much feel it. Going overseas in yr case is the medicine for u.U have to take it even though its bitter but it helps u recover, right?
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Originally posted by S271008:
helo i am the one looking for ex-gf here ... not PM! Anyway yesterday, saw someone resembles like my ex at Tampines Interchange. Rushed closer and damn! wrong person! Time is running out liao, Monday going to Perth. To stay with sister and see how can I talk to her into renting a room and working for her company. Wanna be away from all this memories that is contaminating my mind ... What if I cannot forget it once I'm there?
only u have the answer.
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haha .. go geylang ... they all look like ur ex gf ..
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Originally posted by SquarePants:
haha .. go geylang ... they all look like ur ex gf ..
look like ex gf better than future wife -
Originally posted by S271008:
It has been like more than 20years during my secondary 4 days and i am still thinking about my ex-gal fren. Our relationship was very short. Lets call her Hana A. Last I heard she is married and have a daughter. 4-5 years ago, we met at Tampines MRT and I am able to email her and talked to her at her office. Somehow all is now gone. It stopped just like that. I remembered giving her 2 books for her to study on EXCEL. I really am looking for her to see and talk to her. I just could not help it, day and night been thinking of her. The feeling is not to start a relationship but to just to see her face and hear her sweet voice.
I am married now with kids but my mind is very disturbed and cannot forget her. I tried to tell myself that she is somebody else but my mind refused to accept it. Hope Hana will happen to read this.
i hope your wife won't happen to read this