Should u treat your good frens or girlfren/boyfren better??

• NeverSayGoodBye

  6 May 08, 16:46

  .....say you're attached, who come first? Friends or your partner? I've seen guys and girls treat their partner rather badly but not their friends. I don't think this is proper, you should treat your partner with respect and make him/her feels important...

• cuddles

  6 May 08, 16:58

  Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:

  .....say you're attached, who come first? Friends or your partner? I've seen guys and girls treat their partner rather badly but not their friends. I don't think this is proper, you should treat your partner with respect and make him/her feels important...

  
  balance. treat gf too important also not good. treat friends too important makes the gf looks redundant. so best is balance.

• the Bear

  6 May 08, 17:02

  what is obvious need not be said...

• NeverSayGoodBye

  6 May 08, 17:11

  Originally posted by cuddles:

  
  balance. treat gf too important also not good. treat friends too important makes the gf looks redundant. so best is balance.

  
  .....why you said treat gf too important not good?

• NeverSayGoodBye

  6 May 08, 17:14

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  what is obvious need not be said...

  
  .....well, if I know the "obvious" I wouldn't be asking here. so your "obvious" is..?

• eagle

  6 May 08, 17:16

  It's the friends you can call up at four a.m. that matter. — Marlene Dietrich

   

• seotiblizzard

  6 May 08, 17:19

  Some of my friends will ans at 4 am cos they are not sleeping yet.

• cuddles

  6 May 08, 17:19

  Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:

  
  .....why you said treat gf too important not good?

  
  well, you treat them too important, neglect all the good friends you have had. good meh?

• extra one

  6 May 08, 17:36

  Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:

  
  .....well, if I know the "obvious" I wouldn't be asking here. so your "obvious" is..?

  
  ignore him he's braindead
• rainee

  6 May 08, 22:49

  There is a need to balance both...it's not easy of course...

• the Bear

  6 May 08, 22:51

  Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:

  
  .....well, if I know the "obvious" I wouldn't be asking here. so your "obvious" is..?

  sheesh.. you have a girlfriend and you don't treat her better than your normal friends then what the hell kind of boyfriend are you?

  wah lau eh... if you have a girlfriend in the future, i would pity her...

• Lorry`

  6 May 08, 23:31

  balance.

  have time for both parties, dont neglect your gf for friends and vice versa.
  
  by 'treating' here, i would assume companionship.
  

  im with cuddles.

• cuddles

  6 May 08, 23:36

  Originally posted by Lorry`:

  balance.

  have time for both parties, dont neglect your gf for friends and vice versa.
  
  by 'treating' here, i would assume companionship.

  im with cuddles.

  I didn't balance well in the past. thus it dragged for quite a while. in the end when I try to balance, it's already too late. not only I'm not myself anymore, I'm also nowhere.

• bryanw

  6 May 08, 23:38

  Originally posted by Lorry`:

  balance.

  have time for both parties, dont neglect your gf for friends and vice versa.
  
  by 'treating' here, i would assume companionship.

  im with cuddles.

  
  how yr psle preparations

• Lorry`

  6 May 08, 23:46

  Originally posted by bryanw:

  
  how yr psle preparations

  

  i.... i need you to teach me.. my science not good 1

• bryanw

  6 May 08, 23:48

  Originally posted by Lorry`:

  

  i.... i need you to teach me.. my science not good 1

  
  then u shld b posting more often in hmwork forum.  how come sci not gd? i thought u good at the birds and the bees

• Midlusionz

  6 May 08, 23:55

  Obivously balance and wat i learn is.. If u are mixing with your friend then just go out with them unless your gf wanna tag along.. if not dun bah

• Lorry`

  7 May 08, 00:15

  Originally posted by bryanw:

  
  then u shld b posting more often in hmwork forum.  how come sci not gd? i thought u good at the birds and the bees

  

  birds and bees.... you're sho cute

  all along my science is not good de ma.. my best subject is Bar.... and i look up to gunner korkor

   

• bryanw

  7 May 08, 00:31

  Originally posted by Lorry`:

  

  birds and bees.... you're sho cute

  all along my science is not good de ma.. my best subject is Bar.... and i look up to gunner korkor

   

  
  he only good at sex.

• caleb_chiang

  7 May 08, 00:32

  Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:

  
  .....why you said treat gf too important not good?

  
  Well, that will make her think that you can't live without her.

• jojobeach

  7 May 08, 05:50

  There's no need to choose.

  If you are a nice person, you can treat both your friends AND your bf/gf well.

  If you can only be nice to one and nasty to the other.. you're just a hypocrite.

   

• escadaraindrops

  7 May 08, 15:28

  i think need to treat family best then comes partner then friends. but after your married, is treat wife/husband best then family than friends.

• rokkie

  7 May 08, 15:43

  love is better that friendship

• av98m

  7 May 08, 16:23

  Originally posted by jojobeach:

  There's no need to choose.

  If you are a nice person, you can treat both your friends AND your bf/gf well.

  If you can only be nice to one and nasty to the other.. you're just a hypocrite.

   

  
  This I agree........

   

  and friends are the ones who will be by your side through breakups.

• NeverSayGoodBye

  8 May 08, 14:51

  Originally posted by rainee:

  There is a need to balance both...it's not easy of course...

  .....you face this kind of situation before? Don't mind share your experience? I ever read a book, it said should treat your partner better..