My lovelife is damn!
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3 years 5months with her.. 2years plus based on overseas relationship......
now that it comes to a day where i cant stand her attitude and she finds me picking on her even though i did not, tried toking but communication also failed......
It finally comes true since the day i let her join SQ even my heart is not willing to and i knew this day will come...from that gal with ridiculous unmatured thinking, she became a woman who i trained her to be, but it fades and the fire starts to die........
Having her, without her when she's flying, i feel i am all alone the last 1 year..all alone...seems as though i am single.
havent called her., and she also havent called me for weeks...
am i to let it go here?
"if u reallie love her, let her go"
shld i, shld i not.......
sighzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz -
after so long i think it's pretty clear whether u both are in for the long haul.
i feel most pple can't get out of unsatisfactory relationships that have lasted many years out of fear (ur life totally changes from wat u've beed used to) and out of habit.
seems many pple ask the question : should i break up or carry on and try to work things out?
let me be direct, even naive here: if such a question has to be asked and an answer considered, the reln is already fucked. move on. both of u. -
i guess u will have to learn to adapt to it.....and have to try to be more independent....i noe its hard...it definitely isn't when u seldom get to see ur partner... i have a cousin..who is married to a pilot from sq...but well...they get along very well..main mode of communication thru phone..global sms..and stuff like that....they met last time when they were working in sq....my cousin as a stewardness..and him a pilot.....i guess..u just have to try to slowly adapt..and cope with it...if they can survive for so long....( for the past decade )... u can do it tooo..have faith in urself..and also the ger.....Originally posted by mugen27:
3 years 5months with her.. 2years plus based on overseas relationship......
now that it comes to a day where i cant stand her attitude and she finds me picking on her even though i did not, tried toking but communication also failed......
It finally comes true since the day i let her join SQ even my heart is not willing to and i knew this day will come...from that gal with ridiculous unmatured thinking, she became a woman who i trained her to be, but it fades and the fire starts to die........
Having her, without her when she's flying, i feel i am all alone the last 1 year..all alone...seems as though i am single.
havent called her., and she also havent called me for weeks...
am i to let it go here?
"if u reallie love her, let her go"
shld i, shld i not.......
sighzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz -
Relation is like crops... you have to nuture it properly before you can gain any of its havest. If situations is preventing you from exercising this part... you need to consider and plan whether it is really still worth it to go the extra-extra mile. You said this two years, it was an overseas relation - long distance relationship is not impossible, it is difficult. Based on your post that says about your partner and the actual character difference - it may seemed that you need to be serious reflections.Originally posted by mugen27:
3 years 5months with her.. 2years plus based on overseas relationship......
now that it comes to a day where i cant stand her attitude and she finds me picking on her even though i did not, tried toking but communication also failed......
It finally comes true since the day i let her join SQ even my heart is not willing to and i knew this day will come...from that gal with ridiculous unmatured thinking, she became a woman who i trained her to be, but it fades and the fire starts to die........
Having her, without her when she's flying, i feel i am all alone the last 1 year..all alone...seems as though i am single.
havent called her., and she also havent called me for weeks...
am i to let it go here?
"if u reallie love her, let her go"
shld i, shld i not.......
sighzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
Whatever your decision is... find one day, go out and communicate with her. If separate ways, then let heaven decide the fate of the relations between you both. If not, seek solutions and ways to work out to achieve a win-win plan. It useless trying to ponder over this question and unable to speak a shit to her. Don't make decision without proper communication with her - quite unfair right?
Cheers -
Thanks.... just officallie "piangz" last nite after i posted this...Originally posted by jOhO:after so long i think it's pretty clear whether u both are in for the long haul.
i feel most pple can't get out of unsatisfactory relationships that have lasted many years out of fear (ur life totally changes from wat u've beed used to) and out of habit.
seems many pple ask the question : should i break up or carry on and try to work things out?
let me be direct, even naive here: if such a question has to be asked and an answer considered, the reln is already fucked. move on. both of u.
its ok...thanks...i know its "F" liao....
just suddenly feel so tired.... -
Thanks bro, "piangz" last nite liao....doesnt matter anymore.Originally posted by Yunhaier:Relation is like crops... you have to nuture it properly before you can gain any of its havest. If situations is preventing you from exercising this part... you need to consider and plan whether it is really still worth it to go the extra-extra mile. You said this two years, it was an overseas relation - long distance relationship is not impossible, it is difficult. Based on your post that says about your partner and the actual character difference - it may seemed that you need to be serious reflections.
Whatever your decision is... find one day, go out and communicate with her. If separate ways, then let heaven decide the fate of the relations between you both. If not, seek solutions and ways to work out to achieve a win-win plan. It useless trying to ponder over this question and unable to speak a shit to her. Don't make decision without proper communication with her - quite unfair right?
Cheers -
well if there's gonna be a shit ending, my as well do it ASAP. of course no one knows how it'll end if u do carry on, but i guess we have to make informed and calculated decisions.Originally posted by mugen27:Thanks.... just officallie "piangz" last nite after i posted this...
its ok...thanks...i know its "F" liao....
just suddenly feel so tired....
love cannot feed us. we have to be practical. u end fast, and soon u'll find someone that u'll be so happee with u will be beside urself! i keep telling myself that everyday!!
take care dude! -
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damn damn damn
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I am , same same.Originally posted by jOhO:well if there's gonna be a shit ending, my as well do it ASAP. of course no one knows how it'll end if u do carry on, but i guess we have to make informed and calculated decisions.
love cannot feed us. we have to be practical. u end fast, and soon u'll find someone that u'll be so happee with u will be beside urself! i keep telling myself that everyday!!
take care dude!
i never even bother to think i will find someone soon... just sianz...