Feeling Guilty
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Originally posted by LoV3LoRn:
i noe her too well
and i dont wanna lose her
why neber think of this when u go for the ma sa ji? -
Originally posted by cuddles:
the queen is quite sassy hor..
dun worry, i wun puke on ur head in the mrt. -
Ah screw. You are weak, you succumbed to your desire and did her wrong. Now you said you don't want to confess because you fear losing her, that is not love, that stems from selfishness. Love is not posession, but that's not the point here. The point is that you did someone a wrong despite how you "love" her, and you got no guts to confess your wrongs for fear of losing her because you are SELFISH. Weakling, just kill yourself and spare everyone in AA the trouble please.
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Originally posted by Detached:
Ah screw.
You are weak, you succumbed to your desire and did her wrong. Now you said you don’t want to lose her, that is not love, that stems from selfishness.
You’re f-ing weak.
Go kill youself.
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Originally posted by 798:
is dat how u advice pple on AA?
Some times you gotta whack some senses into a person.
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798: Yes. Thanks for your concern, I'm entitled to my opinion. But if you decide to be the nice guy, coax and pamper him... You can go tell him "everything's gonna be alright" and pat him on his back.. That is your entitlement too :D
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why isnt there room for compassion here.. aunt agony become like flame fuckers..
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simi lame excuse..
tsk tsk... if my bf like that, i sure break with him.
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No wonder ppl say that guys think with their private parts, not with their brains.
Anyway, what's done cannot be undone. Do u wanna continue living in this guilt forever by keeping mum or tell her the truth so that it will make u feel a bit better?
I know it'd be hard for u to confess face to face with her, but since u alr did it without thinking about the consequences of her breaking up with u, be prepared to lose her then. I just hope you would be honest with your actions. Be the man, do the right thing.
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i add abit of crap
if she knows u're treating her alot better becuz of ur lil incident.
i think she'll be more hurt.
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TS,Dinky and 798, My harsh views for your considerations: 1) Inability to resist temptations; weak 2) Inability to right a wrong; weak 3) For TS to come and confess his guilt, there must be some conscience in him - so work on it 4) If there were a God, He would certainly forgive TS; but the eartly consequences TS must face To be dishonorable like this... Is that what being a man is about?
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And compassion is only for the deserving. Quoting someone: "If you're committing a crime you jolly well be prepared for the worst"
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detached no worries respected ur views.. but just not too agreeable on the harshness.. i mean the fact that he is feeling guilty and asking for advice shows a stance towards regret.. everyone deserves a second chance i guess.. hahas =)
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i am sorry
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tell her la then u can go back find the china girl what..since u like tht PRC so much
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if u r not prepared to face the consequences y do it in the 1st place. since it has already been done, move on n learn frm this. no pt crying over spilt milk or thinking what if or should i have done that.
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maybe she's cheating on you too ...
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Second chance? Yes, dinky. I agree on the second chance part, we can't give it to him :P He has to give himself a chance and then pray hard that his girl would give them a chance. I hope TS has the wisdom and courage to take the leap. However harsh I was, it was for him to see. You wouldn't want an AA that pats his back :lol:
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anyway..TS really self-pwnage..if he really loves his gf he wouldnt think of fucking other girls( a PRC somemore) except for his gf right..
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Originally posted by LoV3LoRn:
i am sorry
I think u should say that to ur gf instead.. -
so how was the sex? saucy?
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theres a mistake here, first
i dont like PRC at all , and the sex is disgusting
2nd ITS men's temptation.. i am tempted into it
i onli want a massage seriously..
3rd i am really sorri -
i think sometimes its very difficult for some people.. i mean lets be open minded.. in this world there are so many people with different patience levels, different discipline levels, different tolerance levels.. As such, that's why humans make mistakes all the time. In fact, how do we even learn if not a single mistake has been done before? With that, I'm not also saying that such acts should be condone. But just to accept that we make mistakes too and we do would want to be forgived and move on. I don't think he deserves any more salt into his wounds. His greatest punishment will be dealt by his conscience and his gf reactions. And no i wouldn't give him a pat on the back nor say its ok and consoling him and all but i dont think he deserves to be asked to die and other negative comments to such extent either..
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prc nvr give proper sex. they just want the money. like that how to get iso certification?
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lovelorn, no pt saying sorry here.. it doesnt change things.. its really easy for us to say what to do whats right now but its very difficult for you to actually do it out.. it happens.. easier said than done.. but ultimately, you know it is the most appropriate thing to do and just brace yourself for the repercussions.. dont try to push entire blame to nature, take some responsibility and come clean. if meant to be, she will forgive you eventually and you should treasure her more than ever.. learn from the mistake.. but be prepared for "relationship karma"..