To what extent will these qualities help one in life?
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You are a loser. I can imagine you to be one with no life, no friends and no love. You take pride in PHILOSOPHY, SCIENCE, CLASSICAL music, running fast... all these "brainy" and "classy" stuff which makes you feel superior. pls wake up, yr *elitist* mindset will never help you escape from loneliness. (u are probably thinking this post is written by some _beng_ who doesn't know better. for yr info, I was a student of singapore's top JC, and have met friends in the same situation as you are) go find a part-time job, it's the best way to meet ppl from all walks of life, and remember to shed that elitist mindset of yours!!!!!
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Originally posted by Scape_Goat_Token:
So as stated in topic title.
I don't feel contended with these qualities, a lot people tell me that it's already fortunate. Sometimes, I feel exclusive, sometimes, I feel out of place. Sometimes, I feel like a loser. I don't know.According to people, (and after some introspection)
I have high IQ. To the extent where I can don't study much and achieve not bad results. I'm taking Alevels, but never really studied in my life before.
Highly philosophical and deep. I think too much, sometimes. I always define this define that and I'm always thinking about sometime.
I'm the type that will go online to read on random articles (wiki and some others) about history, science and stuff like that. I read these for pure pleasure and knowledge
I have almost near photographic memory. (though not exactly very evidently).
I listen to classical music. I read up a lot on music history and periods and I learn music theory. plays advanced repertoire on the piano and I don't listen to pop or "normal" music. I play 4 hours of piano/day, and will still do okay in school work eventually and have a decent social life.
I'm considered fit. Last year my 2.4km run was almost 9 flat.
Not exactly part of me, but I was born in a relatively rich family. Landed house, got car to drive me whereever I want to go. I only spend like 10% of my pocket money as I have nothing much to buy.I know many are going to ask why is this even in aunt agony. But the fact is
I don't seem to be happy at all. I use to believe money can't buy important stuff and the world's most important things can't be bought with money. And so I set out to gather all the stuff that is more than superficial. Knowledge, skills. I've been trying my best to accquire them, I am an anti-materialististic person. But right now I'm at a lost, these skills, these abilities, do not exactly make me happy.
I don't really have a good love life. Don't get interested in girls easily. But yet sometimes, I feel lonely.
Am I the classic spoilt uncontended brat?Finish your A levels first.
Jot down your hobbies and start a business on one of it. Give it your business your all, and show that you can still earn money, yet score well for uni without studying.
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Originally posted by rafTiger:
You are a loser.
I can imagine you to be one with no life, no friends and no love. You take pride in PHILOSOPHY, SCIENCE, CLASSICAL music, running fast… all these “brainy” and “classy” stuff which makes you feel superior.
pls wake up, yr elitist mindset will never help you escape from loneliness.
(u are probably thinking this post is written by some beng who doesn’t know better. for yr info, I was a student of singapore’s top JC, and have met friends in the same situation as you are)
go find a part-time job, it’s the best way to meet ppl from all walks of life, and remember to shed that elitist mindset of yours!!!!!
oh this one i don't agree. love? gal fwen boy fwen break go pub chiong ,meet then date then blah blah?
no life? we got lungs to breath air that's life.
friends? they call me during pay day go makan other days no marney makan.i take pride in logic, alchemy and heavy metal! i don't run fast, just that u are too slow. that which equipments you to be learned and excel makes u stand out. please wake up the elistist midset of finding confident in a group to make u feel superior.
(u are probably some beng who doesn’t know better. for yr info, as a student of singapore’s top JC, and have met friends in the same situation as you are, makes u no different from tthe topic starter)
go find a full-time job, complete NS and NSmen traingin cycle, get marired raise kids and stop trying to meet ppl from all walks of life, and remember to shed that ginnah mindset of yours!!!!!
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If you're as smart as you claim to be,you'd have figured out the answer to your own question. Otherwise, you're just another lost kid. Dont depend on your interests/academic results to determine intelligence. The answer to your problem, is yours alone.
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just remember, you qualities can be your weakness. for eg, i am pretty and sexy, but i know that if i get too proud of it and show my qualities and demanding, i get no bfs and frens, ppel will avoid me.
So just be humble, jovious, happy and take whatever life come along, have a goal in life on what you want to do, respect other as other will respect onto you, be calm, steady and use your qualities to help others, encourage others and be a good partner of others.
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kcockicht... another sore loser trying to boost his fragile ego through mockery and sarcasm
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If a person is rich, then he must be ugly or stupid.
if not
if he is rich and handsome, then he must be utterly stupid
if not
if he is rich and handsome and clever, then he must die young.
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Do something about it. Follow what you like.
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"just remember, you qualities can be your weakness. for eg, i am pretty and sexy"
Angel, you forgot 'humble'
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Originally posted by rafTiger:
kcockicht... another sore loser trying to boost his fragile ego through mockery and sarcasm
Papertiger,u must be a loser boost what u a jc studdentblah shit a-level worth nothin even diploma more valuable than a-level
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Originally posted by Scape_Goat_Token:
So as stated in topic title.
I don't feel contended with these qualities, a lot people tell me that it's already fortunate. Sometimes, I feel exclusive, sometimes, I feel out of place. Sometimes, I feel like a loser. I don't know.According to people, (and after some introspection)
I have high IQ. To the extent where I can don't study much and achieve not bad results. I'm taking Alevels, but never really studied in my life before.
Highly philosophical and deep. I think too much, sometimes. I always define this define that and I'm always thinking about sometime.
I'm the type that will go online to read on random articles (wiki and some others) about history, science and stuff like that. I read these for pure pleasure and knowledge
I have almost near photographic memory. (though not exactly very evidently).
I listen to classical music. I read up a lot on music history and periods and I learn music theory. plays advanced repertoire on the piano and I don't listen to pop or "normal" music. I play 4 hours of piano/day, and will still do okay in school work eventually and have a decent social life.
I'm considered fit. Last year my 2.4km run was almost 9 flat.
Not exactly part of me, but I was born in a relatively rich family. Landed house, got car to drive me whereever I want to go. I only spend like 10% of my pocket money as I have nothing much to buy.I know many are going to ask why is this even in aunt agony. But the fact is
I don't seem to be happy at all. I use to believe money can't buy important stuff and the world's most important things can't be bought with money. And so I set out to gather all the stuff that is more than superficial. Knowledge, skills. I've been trying my best to accquire them, I am an anti-materialististic person. But right now I'm at a lost, these skills, these abilities, do not exactly make me happy.
I don't really have a good love life. Don't get interested in girls easily. But yet sometimes, I feel lonely.
Am I the classic spoilt uncontended brat?Then you need to go arranged Match-Making, marry a girl that your parents fancy and you will find that your life does get more meaningful than it is right now when your kids are born.
Or...you could try to build your own business, towards the goal of accumulating more wealth than your parents and everyone else around you. The person with the most cash flow wins the world.
Or...you should get yourself a religion and devote your time to care, encourage, love your fellow members of faith. Seeking GOD into your life is a liberating experience and it will help to keep your life as meaningful as can be on a daily basis till you really found GOD in your life.
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Originally posted by Scape_Goat_Token:
So as stated in topic title.
I don't feel contended with these qualities, a lot people tell me that it's already fortunate. Sometimes, I feel exclusive, sometimes, I feel out of place. Sometimes, I feel like a loser. I don't know.According to people, (and after some introspection)
I have high IQ. To the extent where I can don't study much and achieve not bad results. I'm taking Alevels, but never really studied in my life before.
Highly philosophical and deep. I think too much, sometimes. I always define this define that and I'm always thinking about sometime.
I'm the type that will go online to read on random articles (wiki and some others) about history, science and stuff like that. I read these for pure pleasure and knowledge
I have almost near photographic memory. (though not exactly very evidently).
I listen to classical music. I read up a lot on music history and periods and I learn music theory. plays advanced repertoire on the piano and I don't listen to pop or "normal" music. I play 4 hours of piano/day, and will still do okay in school work eventually and have a decent social life.
I'm considered fit. Last year my 2.4km run was almost 9 flat.
Not exactly part of me, but I was born in a relatively rich family. Landed house, got car to drive me whereever I want to go. I only spend like 10% of my pocket money as I have nothing much to buy.I know many are going to ask why is this even in aunt agony. But the fact is
I don't seem to be happy at all. I use to believe money can't buy important stuff and the world's most important things can't be bought with money. And so I set out to gather all the stuff that is more than superficial. Knowledge, skills. I've been trying my best to accquire them, I am an anti-materialististic person. But right now I'm at a lost, these skills, these abilities, do not exactly make me happy.
I don't really have a good love life. Don't get interested in girls easily. But yet sometimes, I feel lonely.
Am I the classic spoilt uncontended brat?No, u aint a spoilt brat. Uncontended, mayb. It's simply becos u r a caged bird who yearns to fly like an eagle.
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wo, dat's a really gd life... or maybe u're just so comfortable in yr life that it becomes boring