the bf "headache"
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i wonder if you have this pro too?
bf refusin to meet ur frds?!!
my bf just refuses to meet my frds! he said he didnt like them or in a better way he doesnt feel comfortable sittin with them. or whatsoever he explained! i guess i will have to understand that. b'coz i feel the same way too.
but i still think it will be better for both to accept each other's frds and of coz the family members! ironic indeed!! what do you think?
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I think Guys are born to be like that huh? Sometimes I got to drag my bf to join my frens too..... sickening...
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"force" him with "soft" techniques..
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I guess it's cos he's afraid that he will be left out when you talk to your friends cos guys trying to fit into girl talk is like trying to fix a square into a circle. Or maybe he is embaressed because he is meeting a big group of strangers. Give him some time and encourage him. Gradually he'll fit into your group of friends.
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hey thanks ppl
by the way, what soft techniques?!
frds that i wanna my bf to meet are ppl from our former school so that also means they do know each other already. sometimes, i hope he can just be a little more carin to come with me. i guess i will just have to bear with it huh. -
Scorpio, Taurus, Aquarius and possible Leo.Originally posted by Spider:i wonder if you have this pro too?
bf refusin to meet ur frds?!!
my bf just refuses to meet my frds! he said he didnt like them or in a better way he doesnt feel comfortable sittin with them. or whatsoever he explained! i guess i will have to understand that. b'coz i feel the same way too.
but i still think it will be better for both to accept each other's frds and of coz the family members! ironic indeed!! what do you think?
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Yo, laides,Originally posted by misswho:I think Guys are born to be like that huh? Sometimes I got to drag my bf to join my frens too..... sickening...
I have problem getting my gf to meet my friend too. even if I want to join her and her friend. she also dun like. if her or what...eventually have tiff on this so many time. -
Scorpios are NT social???Originally posted by Yunhaier:Scorpio, Taurus, Aquarius and possible Leo.
OMG, i'm nt social!
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Try by going out on double dates...so that he will not overwhelmed by your "gal" friends.
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hahahha. as a matter of fact, i used to like that as well and i thought it's pretty selfish.
i believe it is basically due to lack of confidence that one will feel at ease mixing among a group of strangers. not to mention if one assumes inferiority of his/her socialising skills.
as a gf or bf of such person, i think the trick here is to give him or her the assurance that you will be with him/her throughout the entire session.
having that said, it means you shouldnt leave him/her alone with a group of your friends and go gossiping in another corner.
after doing this for a couple of times, i believe everything will work out fine.
however, if he/she is not what i mentioned above (lack of confidence and socialising skill), he/she probably dont like you that much, let alone wanting to know your friends.
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Originally posted by www:
oh no! i sure hope i'm not in this cateogy!!
however, if he/she is not what i mentioned above (lack of confidence and socialising skill), he/she probably dont like you that much, let alone wanting to know your friends. -
how long hav both of u been together?
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life like that
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Be the one that blends in, meet up wif his/her frens if he/she requests, and do likewise if u wants.
otherwise dun meet wif each others' circle lor.
but if u really want, tempt him/her wif news/gossips/etc of what's happening in ur group, he/she might(its might, not definitely) initiate one day.
Anyway otherway, up down, left, right, i dun care.
but if u show me u can last.
i will give u all the blessings i can and afford to give.
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No lar not *not sociable* rather their fixed aspect hinders their initiative and wanting to do something.Originally posted by kopiosatu:Scorpios are NT social???
OMG, i'm nt social! -
we have been together for 4 plus yrs already. but have been separated for a yr and da half.Originally posted by sgboy2004:how long hav both of u been together? -
hahhaa. i hope so too. but at times, people are too emotionally blinded, they cant tell the differences.Originally posted by Spider:oh no! i sure hope i'm not in this cateogy!! -
hey boss, dont see you around for quite a while.Originally posted by Mozzy:Be the one that blends in, meet up wif his/her frens if he/she requests, and do likewise if u wants.
otherwise dun meet wif each others' circle lor.
but if u really want, tempt him/her wif news/gossips/etc of what's happening in ur group, he/she might(its might, not definitely) initiate one day.
Anyway otherway, up down, left, right, i dun care.
but if u show me u can last.
i will give u all the blessings i can and afford to give. -
lol who's the boss??Originally posted by www:hey boss, dont see you around for quite a while.
one sentence - busy wif work... -
i guess you are right. most of the time ppl cant tell the differences!!! which is really bad!Originally posted by www:hahhaa. i hope so too. but at times, people are too emotionally blinded, they cant tell the differences.
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most guys r like dat mayb he scare to face such a big group. . . preharps u can intro juz 2 frenxs at a time lor tell him u 1 him to knw who u hang out wif only but then dat always pro & con after intro ur frenxs to him. . .Originally posted by Spider:i wonder if you have this pro too?
bf refusin to meet ur frds?!!
my bf just refuses to meet my frds! he said he didnt like them or in a better way he doesnt feel comfortable sittin with them. or whatsoever he explained! i guess i will have to understand that. b'coz i feel the same way too.
but i still think it will be better for both to accept each other's frds and of coz the family members! ironic indeed!! what do you think?
he might trust u even more if nt he might fall 4 ur frenx. . . -
den wad abt virgo?Originally posted by Yunhaier:Scorpio, Taurus, Aquarius and possible Leo. 
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is that too serious!? fall for my frds? i know such thingy do happen but ....Originally posted by Si|verGer:if nt he might fall 4 ur frenx. . .
if that is the case maybe askin him to meet my frds will be a good way to test him huh?
do you watch the "Temptation island" == askin ur man to meet other women. lettin ur man be seduced and see if ur relationship can take up the test!!
tell you it's a great show. must watch -
*kok*Originally posted by jOhO:"force" him with "soft" techniques.. -
aiyah....xi guan jiu hao.Originally posted by Spider:i wonder if you have this pro too?
bf refusin to meet ur frds?!!
my bf just refuses to meet my frds! he said he didnt like them or in a better way he doesnt feel comfortable sittin with them. or whatsoever he explained! i guess i will have to understand that. b'coz i feel the same way too.
but i still think it will be better for both to accept each other's frds and of coz the family members! ironic indeed!! what do you think?