Infidelity
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Hey guys. I need some advice. I've been seeing this girl called XY for awhile now. Recently, we just officialized our status as gf and bf. But the thing is, I found out through my sources is that she's acutally attached to 30 year old guy called C. But C isn't in Singapore for the next 6 months.
Also, she's staying at his place for now. And when I confronted her about this, she said that's the ex-bf and she's renting a place from him. Although she said this was her ex-bf, I received news that they were actually planning to head to ROM end of this year.
So right now, she thinks I'm completely unaware of the fact that she's two-timing me and she doesn't know that I'm aware of the ROM. My issue is how am I'm gonna put it across to her so that she becomes completely honest with me.
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play along with her loh. meanwhile keep yourself open.
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So you mean, I should continue to feign ignorance. That's what I'm doing now.
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Originally posted by Misogynist:
So you mean, I should continue to feign ignorance. That’s what I’m doing now.
i would.
screw her for free and fark off.
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Two-timing her back.
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I'm not two-timing her man. I'm too old for that.
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some many cheating women nowadays ......
just flip her the finger and walk away .....
unless you really like wearing the green hat .....
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Originally posted by Spartans:
Two-timing her back.
x2yi du gong du
(use poison attack posion)
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casually ask her when she's going to the ROM with Canneth
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Ask her to move out of the place .
And move in with you .
Then at least when shes staying with you u could see wats she doing day in day out .
And then find out the real truth .
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Originally posted by thehappybunny:
casually ask her when she's going to the ROM with Canneth
that question should be left for the finale when TS decides to end things.
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The guy has met with her parents and vice versa. Guess I'll just have to enjoy each moment and go muck around till she ROMs.
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Originally posted by Misogynist:
The guy has met with her parents and vice versa. Guess I’ll just have to enjoy each moment and go muck around till she ROMs.
you dont have to put yourself through misery until she goes to blow Canneth.
why not end it now and find someone else?
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As much as she's using me, I'm using her as well.
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Originally posted by Misogynist:
As much as she’s using me, I’m using her as well.
that's only to make yourself feel better neh ? ....
if not, why would you be posting here ? .....
just be brave enough to walk away .....
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have u had sex with her ?
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Originally posted by alwaysdisturbed:
i would.
screw her for free and fark off.
Seriously I would do this too.But make sure the source of your info is accurate and that she really is making a fool of you.
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She's a player. Kill her off emotionally.
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Info's accurate. Damnit. What's with girls nowadays man! Philandering, I thought it was guys who did that.
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some women would spread their legs to the biggest wallet ....
I presume this chap's older than you are, so he should have the bigger wallet .....
right now she's probably just hedging bets by straddling two boats .....
remember, such women would never stay by your side through thick and thin .....
the ball's now in your court, whether you want to continue being the sucker, that's up to you .....
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Originally posted by Chyeo1979:
Seriously I would do this too.But make sure the source of your info is accurate and that she really is making a fool of you.
time will tell. so meanwhile just screw loh.
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Originally posted by Misogynist:
Info’s accurate.
Damnit. What’s with girls nowadays man! Philandering, I thought it was guys who did that.
you thought, i think, who confirm?
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Yea. I guess it's all about the money. Haha!
Oh well, I might as well just enjoy the process..
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two-timing her not gonna solve anything, juz leave and go
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easy what.
Act like nothin has happened, and play with her for the next 6 months until her C returned. You have nothin to lose.
Also, keep your options open.. You can still see other girls while playin with her.What's your intention of seein her in the first place? Play play for company? Or more? (i guess should be more else you wouldnt care if shes goin ROM or what)
Just rem not to put in too much in this 'relationship'. In short, just treat her as fb lor.