IS IT WRONG???
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I have a question...
Can I fall in love with and marry a girl, whose Grand father is my Great-grand mother's brother?
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OldBaby -
can.. why not.. if ya dont mind loh....
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i am a hardcore Metallic! No pain no Glory!!!!! -
But re we considered as relatives?
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OldBaby -
Then you gotta ask all your relatives if they object the marriage or not.
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If you bring forth what is inside you,
what you bring forth will save you.
If you do not bring forth what is inside you,
what you do not bring forth will destroy you. -
y not?? As long as both of you are not sis and bro can liao lor, dist cousins only mah
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Wat on earth is our relationship? I think her position is above me by 1 generation but she younger than me.
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OldBaby -
Legally I think you two will be allowed to marry. But logically thinking don't you think it is a little odd?
Morever your chances of having an abnormal child is much much higher. -
why is it so?
Our surname are not the same afterall... is it is just the generations before us are related...not us?
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OldBaby -
first ask yourself if u want a higher chance of getting a adnormal child,
then ask your relatives, if they are for it or not.
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May the Light shine forever!! -
Can, why not?? But be warn, u will face lots of objections & difficulty in the future. Think seriously if u want to continue. Gd luck. Heeheehee :p :p :p
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* JuSt AnoTher StiNgrAy iN thE sEa * -
Remember that older generation thinking is quite different from younger ppl. Heeheehee :p :p :p
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* JuSt AnoTher StiNgrAy iN thE sEa * -
If I were you, I'd rather not have children and live with someone I love. And if you discover that you dun love her anymore, it's easier too.
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But... my parents are cousins too... they both shared a same grandmother.(I found out from my aunt) Aren't their situation worse than mine?Originally posted by stringray:Remember that older generation thinking is quite different from younger ppl. Heeheehee :p :p :p -
I thought only incest sex will create adnormal child? Do U mean that that girl and me will be a sort of incest when we are together?Originally posted by leenusg:first ask yourself if u want a higher chance of getting a adnormal child,
then ask your relatives, if they are for it or not.
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OldBaby -
Love has no bounds... besides, does she love you? Because...if this was a one sided thing... er... consider it all a waste of time. However, if you 2 really love each other...than go for it.
The closer you 2 are, the higher the chance the child is abnormal. For your case however, i think it is alright.
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In your service,
Dragonlance -
Hmmm........ think the best is to discuss with them abt this matter since they have gone thru what u are abt to go thru.Originally posted by wilso17:But... my parents are cousins too... they both shared a same grandmother.(I found out from my aunt) Aren't their situation worse than mine?
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* JuSt AnoTher StiNgrAy iN thE sEa * -
I agree with Stingray... hehee Ask somebody who has been through it...
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The key to the door you desire most, that was bolted so very long ago... is lost. A heart of ice lies within... a mere example of too many love lost...and wasted tears... therefore try to love me not... for your heart i will break.
Essence oF Tears, Dragonlance -
Thanks pals!
Although there is still no much solutions, I think I still got a clearer picture... Thank U all.
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OldBaby -
U r the most welcome.Originally posted by wilso17:Thanks pals!
Although there is still no much solutions, I think I still got a clearer picture... Thank U all.
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But still, it will be better if more ppl will care to send their comments in.
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OldBaby