WhO cAn??
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who can say that he/she is truly genuinely happy?
issit possible to be truly genuinely happy all the time???
do u find yourself getting tired of being or pretending to be happy in front of other people??? -
i am definately not happy with my life rite now...
but it is impossible to be truely happy ALL THE TIME one..
i am only upset when i think abt where my life is heading...
when i dun think abt them... i am still generally happy...
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i am definately not always happy, but faking to be is tedious...
so i write all my emotions on my face...just read off, no prbs -
liyan:
how do u actually write them on ur face? u mean u basically show the change of emotions totally thru facial "colour" n exp ah? -
no lah~
but i am that kind of person if i am having a bad day, or in a bad mood, i really lian hei hei one...either dat or i go expressionless...and my most of my frens recognise the face. it is somewhere btw bo-chap and bu-shuang
i never force myself to smile when i am not in a good mood... and to all that know mi, avoiding me at this time would probably be the best.
coz i treat everyone the same, no bias at all, when i feel rotten, i bark at everyone who tries to tok to mi...
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liyan:
hahaha, the barking part sounds like me when someone tries to console me when i'm feeling real bad/sad bout my results or soemthing liddat......as in ultra-depressed over something unexpected that happened, which placed me in an inconsolable state, and at tt very point, anyone who comes near me gets bitten. =) hee~ -
but c-riously speaking, for me, i do sometimes get tired of being happy.
not in the sense of being forcefully happy, but really happy. like for eg, i've been enjoying life, having fun, going out with frenz everyday, going chalets, den suddenly, i'd feel tired. not as in physically, but mentally/emotionally. physically, i'd feel hyper. really hyper. if i stayed at home, i'd wear my family membrs out kind of hyper. but emotionally, i'm tired of having fun, and tired of being happy. at these times, i always feel the need to cry. call me a cry baby if u will, but i just need to release some air........ -
I am not always happy, though i tried to be 1. There's many things in life to be upset abt and i am trying to take things more easily. No one in this world can be happy all the while, asolutely no1.
And yes, its very tiring to fake happy in front of others, dats why i seldom. But i do try not to mention these matters in front of them. In the past, yes, i give others pple 'face'to see when unhappy but s i grow, i learn to hide better.
And YES, right now, i am facing many problems in life. ArrrggGghHhhh ~!!!
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i think im very fake...always jumpin arnd like im so bochup n happie. everything bad is bottled inside...but i like it this way. wat for face black black when u have problems, tat wont solve anything rite. so juz keep quiet n when u cannot take it anymore go relieve stress...club or somthin
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love or walk away... -
I agree that no one can always be happy, but we can always try to be happy. Even myself, I think I have been good in keeping myself happy. it's true that u wun get to solve things when u have a long face. but the thing is no one can evade it. we will haf a long face when faced wif a lot problems at hand. But if we were to think or ways to solve the problem as soon as possible, we will be able to be happy earlier.. then we wun have such a long face to show others. that's wta I do. Normally I will try to solve the prob, or think of solutions to which I think will be enuff to prob. then after that I will more relieve and be able to bring in the sunshine
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Barely Bearing Berry Belly Bear -
i oso almost the same as ahpui, no matter if i'm unhapppi, angry or upset , u will not see a nian heihei face on mi wan, coz fer wat??? put on a heihei face, juz to let pple noe tat u are unhappi abt somethings in yr life??? no point mah, to mi is liek, if a person see u smile he will automaticaly smile wan. and vice-versa.
But I hav to admit tat it is very hard to bottle it up inside very long
but to mi, if pple are happi then i'm happi. i oways put others in front of mi wan lor
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***A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go.***
***Don't waste your time on a someone, who isn't willing to waste their time on you.***
[This message has been edited by IceFlame (edited 31 December 2000).] -
=) i like wat u said. =) somewat similar or rather it's exactly my motto in life. not say motto la. but still i trive to achieve it lo. =) as long as pple ard me happy, it doesn't matter if i'm sad or happy =) i rather make pple ard me happy den make them sad. i want pple to tell me their probs, so tt i can make em feel better, but i dun tell pple my probs, so that they wun have an extra burden on their shoulders. =) i dun mind sharing their burden, but i dun wish for them to share mine.....selfish in a way, but wat's the point of giving them ur burden when u've oredi helped them lighten their load? it's like in a sense, u take away their weight, only to add ur own weight to them....no diff ma.....=) i dun mind suffering silently lo...i dun like the thought of pple ard me suffering. =)))Originally posted by IceFlame:i oso almost the same as ahpui, no matter if i'm unhapppi, angry or upset , u will not see a nian heihei face on mi wan, coz fer wat??? put on a heihei face, juz to let pple noe tat u are unhappi abt somethings in yr life??? no point mah, to mi is liek, if a person see u smile he will automaticaly smile wan. and vice-versa.
But I hav to admit tat it is very hard to bottle it up inside very long
but to mi, if pple are happi then i'm happi. i oways put others in front of mi wan lor
ahhh, ain't i noble. hahaha like real. =) just being bhb....no praises needed/wanted....really...... -
yaaa. tats wat i realli felt too lar, and the ar, i oso good at enlighten their problems wan lei. or rather made them feel better.Originally posted by t|rEd:=) i like wat u said. =) somewat similar or rather it's exactly my motto in life. not say motto la. but still i trive to achieve it lo. =) as long as pple ard me happy, it doesn't matter if i'm sad or happy =) i rather make pple ard me happy den make them sad. i want pple to tell me their probs, so tt i can make em feel better, but i dun tell pple my probs, so that they wun have an extra burden on their shoulders. =) i dun mind sharing their burden, but i dun wish for them to share mine.....selfish in a way, but wat's the point of giving them ur burden when u've oredi helped them lighten their load? it's like in a sense, u take away their weight, only to add ur own weight to them....no diff ma.....=) i dun mind suffering silently lo...i dun like the thought of pple ard me suffering. =)))
ahhh, ain't i noble. hahaha like real. =) just being bhb....no praises needed/wanted....really......
no lar not noble in the sense, but maybe its juz us lor, naturally likes to help others but bottled up our own problem, juz coz of not to add a burden to the others.
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***A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go.***
***Don't waste your time on a someone, who isn't willing to waste their time on you.*** -
for me rite, it's mostly coz of bottled up feelings, tt makes me wanta cry lo......i noe i made the choice not to tell others, and others r so used to it that they dun bother to ask nemore, n t's when i start breaking down....burden too heavy la......
but it's still my choice lo....sometimes, i may regret reliving other pple's burdens, but i feel good when their load is lightened......=) i live for those moments....=))) -
Sounds very very much like me.... sometimes others think I'm toopid or something. y always so helpful?? wat I get in the end. pple wun remember me, pple wun take it to mind that I have helped them once. Do so much also doesn't gain anything. In worst cases, take us for granted...Originally posted by t|rEd:for me rite, it's mostly coz of bottled up feelings, tt makes me wanta cry lo......i noe i made the choice not to tell others, and others r so used to it that they dun bother to ask nemore, n t's when i start breaking down....burden too heavy la......
but it's still my choice lo....sometimes, i may regret reliving other pple's burdens, but i feel good when their load is lightened......=) i live for those moments....=)))
But I believe like wat u have mentioned, personal satisfaction. It's feeling that we get when pple walk away feeling happy. It's a feeling felt in our hearts. Pple may not remember us, but we are happy becoz we have helped. Even they took us for granted, they cheated our feelings, we still choose to help others, but to be more aware of the pple. Help more pple and I think soon u will understand the satisfaction behind it.
t|rEd: u agree??
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Barely Bearing Berry Belly Bear -
Sounds like a rhetorical question
My take:
If you feel happy, then you are indeed happy.
If in retropect you think that you were not "really" happy. Then it is just means that you are not happy at that point in time.
Feelings are as fleeting as a passing breeze... -
Eh....just realized you all talking about wearing a mask? Paiseh...read too fast.