Why guys cannot confess their feelings like a MAN?
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Originally posted by parn:
I am telling them, and this is the best place to tell all of them isn't it?It's not the end of world after a rejection, but an opportunity for revival and growth in character.
I was hoping these people would be REVIVED to be a better person.
Not everyone can be revived... into a better person. Some were revived into a spiteful and more horrible person. I know u mean well, however u just gotta accept the fact that your concept cannot cover the vastly sophisticated and vast variety of men out there under different situations and circumstances; with different upbringing , principles and standards.
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Originally posted by BadzMaro:
Not everyone can be revived... into a better person. Some were revived into a spiteful and more horrible person. I know u mean well, however u just gotta accept the fact that your concept cannot cover the vastly sophisticated and vast variety of men out there under different situations and circumstances; with different upbringing , principles and standards.
Guys are weak, they are quick to turn to surrender to their weak self and embrace evil than to work out of their weak self and improve themselves to be a better human being for themselves.That's why SG Guys are not popular outside of Singapore, but they are also rapidly losing their popularity in Singapore. As a SG Girl, I certainly hope I'm not the only person to notice this trend.
But it might be a good thing anyway, cos weak people around the world will eventually be washed away and extinct over time.
I have no mercy for people without hope.
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Originally posted by parn:
Guys are weak, they are quick to turn to surrender to their weak self and embrace evil than to work out of their weak self and improve themselves to be a better human being for themselves.That's why SG Guys are not popular outside of Singapore, but they are also rapidly losing their popularity in Singapore. As a SG Girl, I certainly hope I'm not the only person to notice this trend.
But it might be a good thing anyway, cos weak people around the world will eventually be washed away and extinct over time.
I have no mercy for people without hope.
lol.. o.k.
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Originally posted by parn:
Guys are weak, they are quick to turn to surrender to their weak self and embrace evil than to work out of their weak self and improve themselves to be a better human being for themselves.That's why SG Guys are not popular outside of Singapore, but they are also rapidly losing their popularity in Singapore. As a SG Girl, I certainly hope I'm not the only person to notice this trend.
But it might be a good thing anyway, cos weak people around the world will eventually be washed away and extinct over time.
I have no mercy for people without hope.
I think it is quite harsh on all the guys out there..but I feel that you are 100% right about it. Serves as a motivation for me. -
"But it might be a good thing anyway, cos weak people around the world will eventually be washed away and extinct over time.
I have no mercy for people without hope."
Define your "weak". The contempt you show here is despicable, and you call yourself a follower of Christ. I quote Jude 1:9 to you.
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Originally posted by parn:
Guys are weak, they are quick to turn to surrender to their weak self and embrace evil than to work out of their weak self and improve themselves to be a better human being for themselves.That's why SG Guys are not popular outside of Singapore, but they are also rapidly losing their popularity in Singapore. As a SG Girl, I certainly hope I'm not the only person to notice this trend.
But it might be a good thing anyway, cos weak people around the world will eventually be washed away and extinct over time.
I have no mercy for people without hope.
lol.. o.k. -
I facepalmed so hard when I read that post that I almost knocked my brain out the rear of my skull. Yes, I have a brain, which is more than I can say for some of you here.
parn, that's some wonderful generalization there. Mind if I say that SG girls are a bunch of irrational, moronic, narcissists, just because of my run-in here with you and kimmy88?
Singaporean men are low-quality? Well, it must be because of low-quality production methods and assembly machinery, eh? I've personally experienced a lot of gender discrimination against males (usually by female teachers) in the Singapore school system, ranging from horrid comments like 'boys are stupid' and 'boys shouldn't cry' to blatant favortism. Fortunately, I was smart enough to understand that the people perpetuating such beliefs aren't exactly the brightest bulbs in the box, and I completely disregarded their drivel.
There are a lot of conflicting opinions on what men should be. You've got the Neanderthal brutes on one side and the metrosexual fops on the other. Who's to say what will attract a woman? A woman may like anything in between, but what the fuck are men supposed to be? You want men to treat you like equals, but you also want chivalry (which is extremely condescending), and you complain when he does one but not the other. You can't have your fucking cake and eat it too.
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Originally posted by SturmDerSchatten:
"But it might be a good thing anyway, cos weak people around the world will eventually be washed away and extinct over time.
I have no mercy for people without hope."
Define your "weak". The contempt you show here is despicable, and you call yourself a follower of Christ. I quote Jude 1:9 to you.
So you're a living follower of Christ or are you a dead follower of Christ?
By bringing up the Bible and quoting without understanding only makes you a dead follower of Christ.
Have you even found GOD yet? Or maybe I should ask, Have you been found by GOD already?
Your response had already told me about your relationship with GOD, and unlike you, I do not condemn but I only feel sorry for you.
Christians who insists that all of GOD's wisdom is found in the Bible are dead follower of Christ. A living follower of Christ listens and communicates with GOD daily apart from reading and understanding the Bible.
And GOD's wisdom was NEVER only limited to the Bible. Wake up Christians! And be REVIVED!!
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Originally posted by ExtraVehicular:
I facepalmed so hard when I read that post that I almost knocked my brain out the rear of my skull. Yes, I have a brain, which is more than I can say for some of you here.
parn, that's some wonderful generalization there. Mind if I say that SG girls are a bunch of irrational, moronic, narcissists, just because of my run-in here with you and kimmy88?
Singaporean men are low-quality? Well, it must be because of low-quality production methods and assembly machinery, eh? I've personally experienced a lot of gender discrimination against males (usually by female teachers) in the Singapore school system, ranging from horrid comments like 'boys are stupid' and 'boys shouldn't cry' to blatant favortism. Fortunately, I was smart enough to understand that the people perpetuating such beliefs aren't exactly the brightest bulbs in the box, and I completely disregarded their drivel.
There are a lot of conflicting opinions on what men should be. You've got the Neanderthal brutes on one side and the metrosexual fops on the other. Who's to say what will attract a woman? A woman may like anything in between, but what the fuck are men supposed to be? You want men to treat you like equals, but you also want chivalry (which is extremely condescending), and you complain when he does one but not the other. You can't have your fucking cake and eat it too.
It is because of people like you that "encourages" the weak to be even weaker.Just because you're happy with your own weakness, doesn't means you should prevent others from growing stronger than you.
Don't be selfish and post only for the benefits of yourself. This post is not about you, it's about the rest who want to be better than you.
Oh ya....you should really move on and forget about that incident when you cried in school. It must be really unforgettable for you to be told like that by your teacher.
We won't mock you for that.
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Reading comprehension for the win.
Also, donate your brain to someone. Yours doesn't seem to be in use.
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Originally posted by parn:
So you're a living follower of Christ or are you a dead follower of Christ?
By bringing up the Bible and quoting without understanding only makes you a dead follower of Christ.
Have you even found GOD yet? Or maybe I should ask, Have you been found by GOD already?
Your response had already told me about your relationship with GOD, and unlike you, I do not condemn but I only feel sorry for you.
Christians who insists that all of GOD's wisdom is found in the Bible are dead follower of Christ. A living follower of Christ listens and communicates with GOD daily apart from reading and understanding the Bible.
And GOD's wisdom was NEVER only limited to the Bible. Wake up Christians! And be REVIVED!!
It is not within your position to question my faith when you do not know me, but to answer your question, I dare say I am a living follower of Christ.
Please point out to me where I have quoted without understanding. Have you seen what is in Jude 1:9? Shall I spell it out for you? What I meant when I made that quote was to show you that despite disagreeing wholeheartedly with what you have said, I do not take it upon myself to rebuke you, for it is not within my position to do so.
What has my response told you about my relationship with God? I have said nothing that you can use to attack my faith. Do you elevate yourself to a status above God, such that you can tell how chummy He is with me? Please do not make any assumptions you are not qualified to make.
You DO NOT CONDEMN? Do you NOT see the astounding hypocrisy that is within those words? Five posts above you said "Guys are weak, they are quick to turn to surrender to their weak self and embrace evil than to work out of their weak self and improve themselves to be a better human being for themselves." Now please tell me that is NOT condemnation, that is NOT a generalization, NOR an attack on Singaporean guys. You put on a guise of wanting to help guys, but all you have seemingly done is to talk about how guys are stupid and useless. That's like a contractor pointing out to an architect all the flaws in his design, then expecting the architect to miraculously understand what to change and how to change it.
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well said indeed!
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rejection will turn the friendship bad. besides after rejection, the moment the two person bump into each other, it would be very awkward for either one of them. the feelings might be just a crush,confession to the girl might be okay but when the crush fade then what do you expect the guys to do? and if the crush i someone that you never talked to before,it will be more harder to confess when you doesnt know him/her at all.
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Originally posted by parn:
Guys are weak, they are quick to turn to surrender to their weak self and embrace evil than to work out of their weak self and improve themselves to be a better human being for themselves.That's why SG Guys are not popular outside of Singapore, but they are also rapidly losing their popularity in Singapore. As a SG Girl, I certainly hope I'm not the only person to notice this trend.
But it might be a good thing anyway, cos weak people around the world will eventually be washed away and extinct over time.
I have no mercy for people without hope.
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Originally posted by SturmDerSchatten:
It is not within your position to question my faith when you do not know me, but to answer your question, I dare say I am a living follower of Christ.
Please point out to me where I have quoted without understanding. Have you seen what is in Jude 1:9? Shall I spell it out for you? What I meant when I made that quote was to show you that despite disagreeing wholeheartedly with what you have said, I do not take it upon myself to rebuke you, for it is not within my position to do so.
What has my response told you about my relationship with God? I have said nothing that you can use to attack my faith. Do you elevate yourself to a status above God, such that you can tell how chummy He is with me? Please do not make any assumptions you are not qualified to make.
You DO NOT CONDEMN? Do you NOT see the astounding hypocrisy that is within those words? Five posts above you said "Guys are weak, they are quick to turn to surrender to their weak self and embrace evil than to work out of their weak self and improve themselves to be a better human being for themselves." Now please tell me that is NOT condemnation, that is NOT a generalization, NOR an attack on Singaporean guys. You put on a guise of wanting to help guys, but all you have seemingly done is to talk about how guys are stupid and useless. That's like a contractor pointing out to an architect all the flaws in his design, then expecting the architect to miraculously understand what to change and how to change it.
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TS looking for a man who can confess to herself and not she confess to the guy
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TS is only looking for someone to agree with her and mayb start confessing to her hehe
Anything otherwise she will jump on it and start condemning plus putting words in ppls mouth..*yawnz*
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Originally posted by SturmDerSchatten:
It is not within your position to question my faith when you do not know me, but to answer your question, I dare say I am a living follower of Christ.
Please point out to me where I have quoted without understanding. Have you seen what is in Jude 1:9? Shall I spell it out for you? What I meant when I made that quote was to show you that despite disagreeing wholeheartedly with what you have said, I do not take it upon myself to rebuke you, for it is not within my position to do so.
What has my response told you about my relationship with God? I have said nothing that you can use to attack my faith. Do you elevate yourself to a status above God, such that you can tell how chummy He is with me? Please do not make any assumptions you are not qualified to make.
You DO NOT CONDEMN? Do you NOT see the astounding hypocrisy that is within those words? Five posts above you said "Guys are weak, they are quick to turn to surrender to their weak self and embrace evil than to work out of their weak self and improve themselves to be a better human being for themselves." Now please tell me that is NOT condemnation, that is NOT a generalization, NOR an attack on Singaporean guys. You put on a guise of wanting to help guys, but all you have seemingly done is to talk about how guys are stupid and useless. That's like a contractor pointing out to an architect all the flaws in his design, then expecting the architect to miraculously understand what to change and how to change it.
"Define your "weak". The contempt you show here is despicable, and you call yourself a follower of Christ. I quote Jude 1:9 to you."
Quoting Jude 1:9 from the Bible after condemning me as despicable, only showed me that your faith to GOD is QUESTIONABLE.
You do not know me and yet you are aware I'm a follower of Christ, that would have made you another clone of some angry forumer. Unlike you, I do not NEED to have clones. Which loser clone are you? Faster own up.....
Clones simply does not have any credibility in my opinion, and be grateful that I even bothered to reply you.
And yes, your faith and relationship with GOD is DEFINITELY QUESTIONABLE.
Certainly this has proven that knowing alot about the Bible verses, certainly does not makes you a living follower of GOD, it only makes you a dead follower who thinks he know GOD, but GOD does not know you.
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Originally posted by SturmDerSchatten:
It is not within your position to question my faith when you do not know me, but to answer your question, I dare say I am a living follower of Christ.
Please point out to me where I have quoted without understanding. Have you seen what is in Jude 1:9? Shall I spell it out for you? What I meant when I made that quote was to show you that despite disagreeing wholeheartedly with what you have said, I do not take it upon myself to rebuke you, for it is not within my position to do so.
What has my response told you about my relationship with God? I have said nothing that you can use to attack my faith. Do you elevate yourself to a status above God, such that you can tell how chummy He is with me? Please do not make any assumptions you are not qualified to make.
You DO NOT CONDEMN? Do you NOT see the astounding hypocrisy that is within those words? Five posts above you said "Guys are weak, they are quick to turn to surrender to their weak self and embrace evil than to work out of their weak self and improve themselves to be a better human being for themselves." Now please tell me that is NOT condemnation, that is NOT a generalization, NOR an attack on Singaporean guys. You put on a guise of wanting to help guys, but all you have seemingly done is to talk about how guys are stupid and useless. That's like a contractor pointing out to an architect all the flaws in his design, then expecting the architect to miraculously understand what to change and how to change it.
Do you not realised that you have proven my BOLD points which you have quoted me?You need to be more positive in your life and DO not surrender to your own anger, cos that's clearly a sign of weakness.
It's never too late to seek GOD again.
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Originally posted by parn:
"Define your "weak". The contempt you show here is despicable, and you call yourself a follower of Christ. I quote Jude 1:9 to you."
Quoting Jude 1:9 from the Bible after condemning me as despicable, only showed me that your faith to GOD is QUESTIONABLE.
You do not know me and yet you are aware I'm a follower of Christ, that would have made you another clone of some angry forumer. Unlike you, I do not NEED to have clones. Which loser clone are you? Faster own up.....
Clones simply does not have any credibility in my opinion, and be grateful that I even bothered to reply you.
And yes, your faith and relationship with GOD is DEFINITELY QUESTIONABLE.
Certainly this has proven that knowing alot about the Bible verses, certainly does not makes you a living follower of GOD, it only makes you a dead follower who thinks he know GOD, but GOD does not know you.
It is very funny you kept asking people not to make assumptions or generalization, but you kept making them yourself. It is like the pot calling the kettle black. We are all learning well from your example here.
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think parn shud change her (i have a sneaking suspicion this person may not be sure of his/her sexual orientuation) nick to parwned.
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Originally posted by parn:
"Define your "weak". The contempt you show here is despicable, and you call yourself a follower of Christ. I quote Jude 1:9 to you."
Quoting Jude 1:9 from the Bible after condemning me as despicable, only showed me that your faith to GOD is QUESTIONABLE.
You do not know me and yet you are aware I'm a follower of Christ, that would have made you another clone of some angry forumer. Unlike you, I do not NEED to have clones. Which loser clone are you? Faster own up.....
Clones simply does not have any credibility in my opinion, and be grateful that I even bothered to reply you.
And yes, your faith and relationship with GOD is DEFINITELY QUESTIONABLE.
Certainly this has proven that knowing alot about the Bible verses, certainly does not makes you a living follower of GOD, it only makes you a dead follower who thinks he know GOD, but GOD does not know you.
Is that the best you can do? Call me a "clone" once you run out of credible points? Going by the common definition of "clone", that would mean my account would be new. Would you please care to look a little to the left and see when my account was created? I do not to have to own up to being a clone or anything, simply because I am not a clone.
I did NOT condemn you as despicable; I said your contempt was despicable. Now, if you find yourself to be one with the tone of your message, then there is little I can say.
How do I know you are a follower of Christ? Simple. Look at what you posted in the first few pages of this thread. I actually read most of what has been said in this entire thread before I posted.
Indication in Page 2: "Gender difference exists for a reason and it's determined by GOD." Note the capitalization of the entire word. Most of the time, it is the followers of the Abrahamic religions who do so.
"Clones simply does not have any credibility in my opinion, and be grateful that I even bothered to reply you."
Neither do people who perform fantastic acts of hypocrisy within the span of one thread page. All the same, I am flattered that you decided to supposedly "descend to my level" to speak to me and respond.
"And yes, your faith and relationship with GOD is DEFINITELY QUESTIONABLE."
Alright, since you play this game, then evidence, miss, please give me the evidence. I'm not asking for proof, but arguable evidence.
"Certainly this has proven that knowing alot about the Bible verses, certainly does not makes you a living follower of GOD, it only makes you a dead follower who thinks he know GOD, but GOD does not know you."
What has proven what? I see no evidence supporting that statement, and I'm not even sure what you speak of! Moreover, I do not have to demonstrate my faith to you, simply because there is no real way I can do anything to convince you. You can call me a dead follower all you want, but I know the truth in my heart. And that last bit, who are you to say that?
"Do you not realised that you have proven my BOLD points which you have quoted me?
You need to be more positive in your life and DO not surrender to your own anger, cos that's clearly a sign of weakness.
It's never too late to seek GOD again."
Proven? How? You can't just claim something is proven when you haven't demonstrated the process to us. How have I been weak, then?
I'll be honest, I am growing to be positive in my life. What I have to say, however, is that I am not surrendering to my own anger. I am not angry at anything. I am simply in great disagreement with your less-than-moderate opinions. If you feel that I am, then I apologize for the passion in my argument (if that were a wrong in the first place).
As for your last statement, again, I know where I stand with God.
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Originally posted by rainee:
It is very funny you kept asking people not to make assumptions or generalization, but you kept making them yourself. It is like the pot calling the kettle black. We are all learning well from your example here.
Tyrant is always right.
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i call for tyrannicide!
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It is quite ironic how parn is calling SturmDerSchatten a 'loser clone', when any person moderately well-acquainted with feminist forums would immediately identify her as one of those 'loser clones' who like to bash the percieved lack of certain qualities in men to make up for their own inadequacy.
Also, her definition of 'weak' does not seem to conform to any known definition. If she likes to reinvent certain words, might I suggest one of my own creation?
parn
1) To act in a manner consistent with that of an utter idiot towards someone.
e.g. She kept parning me, so I bitchslapped her to Kenya.