Why guys cannot confess their feelings like a MAN?
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Originally posted by Callan:
Did we mention something called stereotyping earlier? Tell you what parn, go on a date with me (I dun care if you are a guy), and I will let you know what real gentlemen are like.
uh.. LOL.. sry cant help it..
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Originally posted by DownAndOut:
uh.. LOL.. sry cant help it..
It's all right, I got my pride out of the way for woman (and the like) a long time ago.
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Pride (in the name of love).
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Originally posted by charlize:
Pride (in the name of love).
Dun be jealous, I might fall for you soon!
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Originally posted by Callan:
Dun be jealous, I might fall for you soon!
Talk to my other clone udontknowme and if you are persistent enough, I might arrange a date.
With my udon persona.
Mind you, my udon persona is quite a bitch.
She will continually scold vulgarities at you and play hard to get.
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Originally posted by charlize:
Talk to my other clone udontknowme and if you are persistent enough, I might arrange a date.
With my udon persona.
Mind you, my udon persona is quite a bitch.
She will continually scold vulgarities at you and play hard to get.
That would be music to my ears...
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haha, callan you are right.
i am starting to get sick talking to parn.....
will ignore her if possible....
So go, show parn what a real gentleman is like.
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Originally posted by charlize:
Talk to my other clone udontknowme and if you are persistent enough, I might arrange a date.
With my udon persona.
Mind you, my udon persona is quite a bitch.
She will continually scold vulgarities at you and play hard to get.
yes, udon is a bitch and scolds vulgarities at people. -
Originally posted by parn:
This seems to be an ongoing repetitive problem here in Aunt Agony...saddens me to know it everytime and so I would like to share my thoughts to y'all.
Why do all guys strives to be cool and act like a MAN when they are not even able to confess their feelings to the girl that they have feelings for?
Guys like these are not MAN, they are frightened insecure little boys trapped inside a MAN's body.
If rejections is all it takes to destroy their soul, then maybe they don't deserves to be with the girl that they like. The girl would be so much happier and better off with a real MAN than frightened insecure little boys.
How many of you actually got a really bad rejection from a girl after confessing your feelings to her?
Speak up, be honest with your feelings and let the girl knows how you feel. We're already into the 21st century and yet guys are still behaving like the 18th century.
Talk to her and ask her out if you like her and want to know more about her. Tell her you like her and would like to know more about her if she asked you why you want to ask her out.
At the most she will say she is not interested and then you can move on to the next one, she's probably not the girl you're looking for anyway if she is not interested in you.
Most girls will be impressed by your initiative if you tell her you want to know more about her. Most guys couldn't care less and yet still hope for the girl to like him by playing it cool. Ya....keep playing cool and keep dreaming on ok?
First come, first serve, no good girls will wait for guys who likes to keep playing cool. Good girls don't wait for cool guys, they want to be with hot guys who cannot live without them....like their oxygen!
So where are all the MAN?
I would like to know more about you, and go out with you sometime when you free.
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First of all, what makes you guys think you're good enough for me?
Secondly, you do not understand the rules of attraction.
If a girl can make a guy feels attracted to her, aren't you guys ashamed of yourself that you are incapable to also make a girl feels attracted to you?
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Originally posted by parn:
First of all, what makes you guys think you're good enough for me?
Secondly, you do not understand the rules of attraction.
If a girl can make a guy feels attracted to her, aren't you guys ashamed of yourself that you are incapable to also make a girl feels attracted to you?
I've got a 30k Diamond ring waiting for you.
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Originally posted by Callan:
I've got a 30k Diamond ring waiting for you.
LOL.. this thread kinda seems going nowhere now..
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Originally posted by parn:
First of all, what makes you guys think you're good enough for me?
Secondly, you do not understand the rules of attraction.
If a girl can make a guy feels attracted to her, aren't you guys ashamed of yourself that you are incapable to also make a girl feels attracted to you?
Guys being guys are visual beings. Any girl, as long as she wishes, can go for plastic surgery, etc, doll up and she'd get her own "fan club" soon. Whereas for girls, im sure visually it does count but its not as impt for girls.(Any girls here wanna back this up or prove me wrong?) In my opinion, personality is what girls look out for in a guy. A guy who's confident, able to walk his speech and able of holding his stand in his opinions, without faltering the slightest in his confidence in his beliefs. How many guys CAN actually reach this point?
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Originally posted by DownAndOut:
Guys being guys are visual beings. Any girl, as long as she wishes, can go for plastic surgery, etc, doll up and she'd get her own "fan club" soon. Whereas for girls, im sure visually it does count but its not as impt for girls.(Any girls here wanna back this up or prove me wrong?) In my opinion, personality is what girls look out for in a guy. A guy who's confident, able to walk his speech and able of holding his stand in his opinions, without faltering the slightest in his confidence in his beliefs. How many guys CAN actually reach this point?
i h8 plastic surgery !!! -
Originally posted by A.T.R:
i h8 plastic surgery !!!Lots of guys says this, but when they see the final outcome of the girl(The pretty face, the slim hourglass body), the mind just shuts down and they become mindless sheep for the slaughter house. Anyway, this topic of plastic surgery by itself is another debatable subject.
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Originally posted by DownAndOut:
Guys being guys are visual beings. Any girl, as long as she wishes, can go for plastic surgery, etc, doll up and she'd get her own "fan club" soon. Whereas for girls, im sure visually it does count but its not as impt for girls.(Any girls here wanna back this up or prove me wrong?) In my opinion, personality is what girls look out for in a guy. A guy who's confident, able to walk his speech and able of holding his stand in his opinions, without faltering the slightest in his confidence in his beliefs. How many guys CAN actually reach this point?
You can quote me as an example. I score very high in that area. But then again...it can be subjective to parn.
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Originally posted by DownAndOut:
Lots of guys says this, but when they see the final outcome of the girl(The pretty face, the slim hourglass body), the mind just shuts down and they become mindless sheep for the slaughter house. Anyway, this topic of plastic surgery by itself is another debatable subject.
Shall we starting talking about plastic somewhere else? I think it is going to be an interesting debate. I for one, dun mind plastic as long as they last.
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Originally posted by Callan:
Shall we starting talking about plastic somewhere else? I think it is going to be an interesting debate. I for one, dun mind plastic as long as they last.
We can talk about anything in this thread from parn's relationship, confession, diamond ring to plastic surgery.
I will talk about economy at a later time. -
Originally posted by parn:
First of all, what makes you guys think you're good enough for me?
Secondly, you do not understand the rules of attraction.
If a girl can make a guy feels attracted to her, aren't you guys ashamed of yourself that you are incapable to also make a girl feels attracted to you?
Wow I can't believe that this is still going on.
What are the rules of attraction??
If the guy is too afraid to confess his feelings to the girl he like then that is too bad for him.
I'm sure in life we all will meet that 1 or in some cases more than 1 person that we will not be able to confess our feelings to be it if you're a guy or a girl.
And everyone will have their own reasons to why they are afraid, its that simple, human being are complex and each and everyone one of us are so different and we should know that we are not that great at following the rules.
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Confess? I though its more of a kiss and hold hands and oh dam we're couple now era ? o.o??
And I've read only the last few pages of this thread just personally I feel that waiting for the right time to do the right confession would be great, I'm more of a impatient guy, whenever I feel connected to a certain girl, and when we really can click etc. I'd do the confession in a bland manner at the same time giving her "warning" ahead. before the real confession happens she'd be so dam prepared for it, (though it wouldn't be as romantic as if it'd be from a surprise).
If guys can be confident enough towards their commitment towards the girl, and lift up a little of their ego/pride stuffs, everything will turn out well, matters not how u look, just the way you treat them. That's what i think, you guys can have your own views just though of sharing... =)
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Originally posted by Extract:
If guys can be confident enough towards their commitment towards the girl, and lift up a little of their ego/pride stuffs, everything will turn out well, matters not how u look, just the way you treat them. That's what i think, you guys can have your own views just though of sharing... =)
I totally agree especially the EGO!!
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Originally posted by parn:
First of all, what makes you guys think you're good enough for me?
Secondly, you do not understand the rules of attraction.
If a girl can make a guy feels attracted to her, aren't you guys ashamed of yourself that you are incapable to also make a girl feels attracted to you?
First of all, what makes you guys think you're good enough for me?
Secondly, you do not understand the rules of attraction.
REPLY:And what makes you so confident that you are too good for any guy? :) Not every guy...there are actually a lot of guys who knows how to attract girls. Things like caring, surprises & humour should always be alive in bgr.
If a girl can make a guy feels attracted to her, aren't you guys ashamed of yourself that you are incapable to also make a girl feels attracted to you?
REPLY:Again...not every guy is so pathetic lah. You walk around shopping malls & public places you can see lots of couples right? Maybe you have not met the right guy & you are frustrated?
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wow wow wow, endless debate going here eh?
come come quick quick...guys who hv confess to gals b4...tell us ur experiences...the guys who dun dare to confess or r waiting to are dying to hear ur experiences !!!!!
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Haizzz..... i confess my love through email.....
Too bad, she reject me though...nvm..... i try indian girls...