Why guys cannot confess their feelings like a MAN?
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Oh goodness! Some people just want to hear sweet nothing??? Then they are just lying to themselves.
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Originally posted by youyayu:
i am fat and fucking ugly but i dare to woo the most chioest in my school =X and i got her woohoo
So acting cool doesn't mean sure got gf =)
i wan see your fat and fucking ugly face cannnn ? wif ur chioest gf of cos. haha -
Maybe u shld phase it as why singaporean cannot confess their feelings? Seen like a common problem for most sg regardless of guys/gals, perhaps our upbring had make most afraid of failure. Most foreigners, (not only ang moh) that I known of is more prepare to tell the other if they are interested in them.
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yes, why are we all so reluctant to confess our own feelings. its the fear of rejection, no matter guy or girl.
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Miss Parn, I seldom log into this forum. But your thread caught my attention.
I just want to say I like your directness and your ability to respond to so many male criticisms. And that is what I admire about you! I find that a turn on for me. Obviously, I don't know you well enough and I shouldn't say that you turn me on because this is a public forum. I wish to get to know you better.
cheers
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How to jio the girl if the guy is not the one acting cool .
While the girl is the who is playing hard to get
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Originally posted by RHluvW:
Miss Parn, I seldom log into this forum. But your thread caught my attention.
I just want to say I like your directness and your ability to respond to so many male criticisms. And that is what I admire about you! I find that a turn on for me. Obviously, I don't know you well enough and I shouldn't say that you turn me on because this is a public forum. I wish to get to know you better.
cheers
LMAO! yes this is clearly an example of "confessing like a man"
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Confessing your love to someone especially with the threat of rejection is not an easy thing to overcome, guy or girl. I think society unfairly expects men to be more courageous about such things, but really, why? Both genders have the equal opportunity to confess right? Of course when it boils down to the individual some are more upfront, some are more introverted, its a personality thing. Why make it out to be gender specific when it isn't?
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LOL... Yeah you turn me on...
Intro please?
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Okie....all those who are happy with their current lives can continue to come up with excuses to cover their weakness and hopefully find a partner who shares similar values to complement them.
Those who are unhappy with their lives can go reflect upon it and think about other ways to change if they know better ways.
Those who just want to flame me can go ahead and do so for their own happiness. If flaming me can make you feel better than me, then by all means go ahead and do it.
I will only respond to those who really care.
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no mah but u really come off very arrogant with your 30k ring and above proposal and oh-i'm-so-hot attitude. maybe u shud refect on urself first as a humble human being? i'm not trying to flame u ok
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shy shy confession is also kind of sweet esp when he blushes
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Originally posted by parn:
Truth are words spoken directly and honestly from the heart. Take away the heart, words became lies.
People who are unable to speak from directly from their hearts are dishonest people. They choose to deceive others and shut away their heart, hoping that nobody will actually uncover their lies.
Action and time does not speak louder than words, they are incomplete without words. They are unable to convey the complete meaning of truth without words.
Truth are the most powerful reason for people to utilise words. Hearts rejoices upon hearing the truth spoken in words.
Actions and time are meaningless without words. If that is the kind of life you have been living in, you have been living your life in vain.
If all you have been given with any man is just his actions over time, then maybe you have never been truely loved by anyone at all in your life.
Words are also meaningless without the action.
Someone can say to you, "I love you" all the time. Morning, afternoon and evening he will keep saying it. But doesn't that sort of cheapen that supposingly sacred expression if no action is done to prove that the guy is really in love with the girl?
I am not saying that words are not important. Both cannot survive without the other. Though I would prefer hearing less words than seeing them actually put into action. Because the more words you say, the more promises you make, the harder it is to act them out.
And words without action to back them up...what are those?
They are called lies.
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yeap..promises without action are lies..well..just don't make any if you cant keep it..i believe most singaporean guys don't make empty promise though...
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Originally posted by Jeff86:
yeap..promises without action are lies..well..just don't make any if you cant keep it..i believe most singaporean guys don't make empty promise though...
That's where you are wrong...most guys are fueled by the thinking that girls just want to hear sweet-nothings, and hence will let honey drip from their mouth at any moment just to get over an argument, or to boast to a girl, etc.
My ex was that way and I only found out his promises are all lies after we broke up. Thank goodness I have found someone much better ever since.
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Originally posted by rainee:
That's where you are wrong...most guys are fueled by the thinking that girls just want to hear sweet-nothings, and hence will let honey drip from their mouth at any moment just to get over an argument, or to boast to a girl, etc.
My ex was that way and I only found out his promises are all lies after we broke up. Thank goodness I have found someone much better ever since.
your promises, your promisesare your lies as good as your promises?
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Originally posted by rainee:
Words are also meaningless without the action.
Someone can say to you, "I love you" all the time. Morning, afternoon and evening he will keep saying it. But doesn't that sort of cheapen that supposingly sacred expression if no action is done to prove that the guy is really in love with the girl?
I am not saying that words are not important. Both cannot survive without the other. Though I would prefer hearing less words than seeing them actually put into action. Because the more words you say, the more promises you make, the harder it is to act them out.
And words without action to back them up...what are those?
They are called lies.
If you were to read one of my previous post carefully in this thread, I already mentioned "Action and time does not speak louder than words, they are incomplete without words."
Maybe I should make it clearer for all, truth is completed when words are complement with action over time.
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i dunno about others, i told someone how i felt and am with her now...
but.. maybe for parn, they hesitate because they don't have a spare $30k?
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Originally posted by newcomer:
no mah but u really come off very arrogant with your 30k ring and above proposal and oh-i'm-so-hot attitude. maybe u shud refect on urself first as a humble human being? i'm not trying to flame u ok
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Originally posted by rainee:
Words are also meaningless without the action.
Someone can say to you, "I love you" all the time. Morning, afternoon and evening he will keep saying it. But doesn't that sort of cheapen that supposingly sacred expression if no action is done to prove that the guy is really in love with the girl?
I am not saying that words are not important. Both cannot survive without the other. Though I would prefer hearing less words than seeing them actually put into action. Because the more words you say, the more promises you make, the harder it is to act them out.
And words without action to back them up...what are those?
They are called lies.
once upon a time, a guy had to sms his gf(at that time, now ex) starting with "honey or dear" even when he was busy and just want to respond with a short, "okay! sure :)" also cannot. must always start with "honey or dear".
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comeon man..a " honey or dear" doesn't takes you more than 5 secs to text..so...
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Originally posted by the Bear:
i dunno about others, i told someone how i felt and am with her now...
but.. maybe for parn, they hesitate because they don't have a spare $30k?
Maybe if you have $30k, you would've someone better.Rather than taking a shot here, why don't you tell us your girl isn't worthy for you to give her a $30k proposal ring?
Seems like when monetary terms comes up, people get agitated easily. Who cares if you cannot afford it? Who cares if you can? All that matters is what is the truth in your heart, and have you done your best?
If you haven't done your best at anything, then take it like a man if things doesn't goes too well. You will only lie to yourself if you only know how to lift your hand and point fingers at another, don't do it...cos they are innnocent.
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nothing wrong with what parn said
i also think that AA needs to be cleared of repeated threads of the same content
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Originally posted by Jeff86:
comeon man..a " honey or dear" doesn't takes you more than 5 secs to text..so...
the idea is not about the difficulty of doing it. but you don't have to force someone to do certain things to tell you he's ur whoever.
it's not significant to you maybe. missing the golden word might result in questioning of your love or your activity which demands more attention than the word honey?
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that's nice to hear rainee..good for you.. good luck with your current bf then =)