Why guys cannot confess their feelings like a MAN?
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oh yea..so what if the man has money looks and life..but still end up treating that hot lil princess like a bloody slave or trash?
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Dunno which lost forumer quoted my post and replied in the wrong forum and on the wrong topic. Over 120k post already still so blur.......
Some people just cannot get over with their incompetence to afford a better proposal ring....
At least have the guts to let me know I'm right, there's no need to get upset over it.
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Originally posted by Jeff86:
oh yea..so what if the man has money looks and life..but still end up treating that hot lil princess like a bloody slave or trash?
I'm sure you won't be surprised to find heaps of man who will not hesitate to treat their woman like bloody slave or trash. -
can't really blame him, side effects of dieting.
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Originally posted by charlize:
30K diamond ring.
Now why didn't I think about asking for that?
ermmm......you'd have to find a rich gay then.
but your tricho issues going to count against you.
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yup i'm not surprised...i've friends who are like that.. so..yea..
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Originally posted by Fantagf:
Know of someone who got to know the husband "thru body". She asked the husband what he see in her to woo her. His reply was he find her sexy (she has big boobs) when he first saw her. Amazing, "body" can bring two together, they are still happily married.That's because your friend were truthful enough to admit what he really felt towards his wife. And he really meant it.
Truth = words + actions + time.
I don't want to know what he did with his actions and time after telling her the words.
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well...he don't have to tell us... we have eyes to witness and see it for ourself..anyway we are off the topic i think..
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funny sia
everyone is going off topic, including ts
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in the future,
parn == 30k diamond ring
i've heard of the six million dollar man, but a 30k woman?
abit cheap by comparison.
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Originally posted by maurizio13:
in the future,
parn == 30k diamond ring
i've heard of the six million dollar man, but a 30k woman?
abit cheap by comparison.
??? Where did the post of 30k diamond ring start coming around -
Originally posted by 4Justice:
Confessing your love to someone especially with the threat of rejection is not an easy thing to overcome, guy or girl. I think society unfairly expects men to be more courageous about such things, but really, why? Both genders have the equal opportunity to confess right? Of course when it boils down to the individual some are more upfront, some are more introverted, its a personality thing. Why make it out to be gender specific when it isn't?
I say again. Parn, don't blame someone for not being able to confess their feelings just because they're male. It's not gender specific. -
Originally posted by Lazybumy:
??? Where did the post of 30k diamond ring start coming around -
Originally posted by maurizio13:
Wow, guess she must be from very very very rich family. -
Originally posted by parn:
If you can understand the term "shopping for love" then you will understand why.
Simplify it, you don't buy something you cannot afford, and you won't go for someone who is beyond your reach. We are all shoppers for love in certain stages of our lives, we want more love from our parents when we're young, we want more love from our friends when we're at school, and etc till we want more love from our grandchildren.
We only shop or seek love from the people whom we know can afford to ask them for it.
If you don't shop or cannot afford to shop but to wait like a beggar then your love life will be as poor as a beggar.
Life is not fair and is not supposed to be fair, and people who wants life to be fair to them are lazy, incapable but jealous people.
Do you all really think the people in the generations above you became successful and envy of others because they sit back and relax and life became easy on them?
Do not think about right now, think about what will happen in your future if people don't start to awake from their bubble dream.
Hmm...
So you are saying that love is equivalent to money? That when you are looking for love, you are also looking for money, hence you are looking out for someone who is able to provide for you in a material sense?
What is that person is full of love, but does not have a lot of money in his bank account? If you are truly shopping for love, you should be able to accept him right?
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Originally posted by rainee:
Hmm...
So you are saying that love is equivalent to money? That when you are looking for love, you are also looking for money, hence you are looking out for someone who is able to provide for you in a material sense?
What is that person is full of love, but does not have a lot of money in his bank account? If you are truly shopping for love, you should be able to accept him right?
She stated her point already, in the proposal ring thread.
No Money No Honey.
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Originally posted by maurizio13:
She stated her point already, in the proposal ring thread.
No Money No Honey.
That's why I am trying to find out whether she is really searching for love, or whether she is just searching for money.
"We are all shoppers for love in certain stages of our lives, we want more love from our parents when we're young, we want more love from our friends when we're at school, and etc till we want more love from our grandchildren."
From the way she states it here, I see it as she wants true love. But what happens if she finds true love in someone who is poor? Will she still recognize it and go along with the guy or she will just push him aside because he is financially unable to fulfill her materialistic demands?
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this is becoming very un aunt agony. i request for this thread to be locked. or moved to whinehouse.
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Originally posted by rainee:
That's why I am trying to find out whether she is really searching for love, or whether she is just searching for money.
"We are all shoppers for love in certain stages of our lives, we want more love from our parents when we're young, we want more love from our friends when we're at school, and etc till we want more love from our grandchildren."
From the way she states it here, I see it as she wants true love. But what happens if she finds true love in someone who is poor? Will she still recognize it and go along with the guy or she will just push him aside because he is financially unable to fulfill her materialistic demands?
So are you saying true love can only be found in someone who is poor?
Is there any reasons for us to believe that true love cannot be found in someone who is not as poor as you think?
Don't tell me you chose to side with one side just because they got more people support?
Life is not fair, and democracy unfortunately only exists in the talented, and not the untalented. The untalented can only play around with politics.
Stand by your own truth and you will find that living isn't all that unmeaningful afterall.
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Originally posted by newcomer:
this is becoming very un aunt agony. i request for this thread to be locked. or moved to whinehouse.
Of all the forumers who have posted here, you are the least qualified forumer to request for any thread to be locked.
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Originally posted by parn:
So are you saying true love can only be found in someone who is poor?
Is there any reasons for us to believe that true love cannot be found in someone who is not as poor as you think?
Don't tell me you chose to side with one side just because they got more people support?
Life is not fair, and democracy unfortunately only exists in the talented, and not the untalented. The untalented can only play around with politics.
Stand by your own truth and you will find that living isn't all that unmeaningful afterall.
I am not siding with one side just because there are more people support. I don't even know that it has more people support. Lol.
Well, what I am asking is this: What if one day you find someone who is poor, but he is deeply in love with you, he could offer you his care, concern and love but he does not have enought to provide for your material needs...would you still accept him?
I am not saying that true love cannot be found in someone who is rich. But just imagine the situation above and if can, just answer the question truthfully.
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Originally posted by 4Justice:
I say again. Parn, don't blame someone for not being able to confess their feelings just because they're male. It's not gender specific.No guys can escape this issue, and you know it too.
Is this topic threatening you in some ways?
And please don't reply to your own quote, it's insane.
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Originally posted by rainee:
I am not siding with one side just because there are more people support. I don't even know that it has more people support. Lol.
Well, what I am asking is this: What if one day you find someone who is poor, but he is deeply in love with you, he could offer you his care, concern and love but he does not have enought to provide for your material needs...would you still accept him?
I am not saying that true love cannot be found in someone who is rich. But just imagine the situation above and if can, just answer the question truthfully.
Last time I would tell you "YES", but the truth is no relationship can substain by just on oxygen alone....not even true love. Money is necessary to have a future.
Say if you, rainee, has found true love in a similar situation. Maybe just survive on packet noodles and tap water, but he will give you so much attention and promises. Will you say "YES" too? Ultimately as a girl, you will know how much future remains in that relationship. Will you still stick on to your "YES"? This kind of life can go on for years, how much time do you have?
I will say "NO" cos the guy is not ready and prepared for a relationship, but he still wants to put you in a relationship. That's completely selfish and irresponsible, but we still love them don't we?
Sometimes, we have to force ourselves and learn to say "NO" and hurt the people who we loved and have loved us....for their own good. Love is not saying "YES" all the time, it's knowing when to say "NO" for the betterment of the other half.
A guy probably says "YES" all the time, but a man knows when it is necessary to say "NO". Don't you agree with me?
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I work all night, I work all day, to pay the bills I have to pay
Ain't it sad
And still there never seems to be a single penny left for me
That's too bad
In my dreams I have a plan
If I got me a wealthy man
I wouldn't have to work at all, I'd fool around and have a ball
Money, money, money
Must be funny
In the rich man's world
Money, money, money
Always sunny
In the rich man's world
Aha-ahaaa
All the things I could do
If I had a little money
It's a rich man's world
A man like that is hard to find but I can't get him off my mind
Ain't it sad
And if he happens to be free I bet he wouldn't fancy me
That's too bad
So I must leave, I'll have to go
To Las Vegas or Monaco
And win a fortune in a game, my life will never be the same
Money, money, money
Must be funny
In the rich man's world
Money, money, money
Always sunny
In the rich man's world
Aha-ahaaa
All the things I could do
If I had a little money
It's a rich man's world
Money, money, money
Must be funny
In the rich man's world
Money, money, money
Always sunny
In the rich man's world
Aha-ahaaa
All the things I could do
If I had a little money
It's a rich man's world
It's a rich man's world -
Originally posted by parn:
Last time I would tell you "YES", but the truth is no relationship can substain by just on oxygen alone....not even true love. Money is necessary to have a future.
Say if you, rainee, has found true love in a similar situation. Maybe just survive on packet noodles and tap water, but he will give you so much attention and promises. Will you say "YES" too? Ultimately as a girl, you will know how much future remains in that relationship. Will you still stick on to your "YES"? This kind of life can go on for years, how much time do you have?
I will say "NO" cos the guy is not ready and prepared for a relationship, but he still wants to put you in a relationship. That's completely selfish and irresponsible, but we still love them don't we?
Sometimes, we have to force ourselves and learn to say "NO" and hurt the people who we loved and have loved us....for their own good. Love is not saying "YES" all the time, it's knowing when to say "NO" for the betterment of the other half.
A guy probably says "YES" all the time, but a man knows when it is necessary to say "NO". Don't you agree with me?
Thanks for the answer.
Well, if you read my question carefully, you will notice there is a keyword there.
"What if one day you find someone who is poor, but he is deeply in love with you, he could offer you his care, concern and love but he does not have enough to provide for your material needs.."
The keyword is enough.
I am not saying that every girl should go and marry a guy who is totally penniless. I am not as hopelessly romantic as that. I do know that money is needed in this world in order to help us to survive, even more so in a country such as Singapore where the cost of living is high.
But why do I stress on the word "enough"? Because we as girls can determine that. Different girls have different needs. For example, I am very happy with a simple life with a roof above my head, and with enough food to eat. I do not need extravagant gifts, extravagant cars that cost millions, etc. I know how to differentiate between my needs and my wants. And I accept the fact that a guy can't cater to my every wants, and that doesn't make him any less than the man he is.
If a guy can't provide for your "wants", it is not because he is not ready, it is not because he is selfish or so on. It might be because the demands are not not realistic to begin with. So if you have unrealistic demands, then be prepared to be disappointed because you have to understand that a majority of the men here belong in the middle class category, which means they are not earning 10k every month.