a penny of thought after reading the abortion thread...
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http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=23277&page=1
This threAd is really selfish to do that, no matter what they r under age of 20.
Nowsday, no. of abortion has increased every year... really sad to see the innocent baby being "killed" and put mom's life risk...
Remind me of that abortion thing, I have been go through difficult peak after i found out the baby is inside me... after thinking thoroughly myself and opt out of abortion, it is a joyful to see the innocent baby beside me now... baby really bring me joyful and ease my pain after getting a big scolding from my parents especially dad... not only that, it also bring everyone joyful too... It is a real blessing in diguse...
morever, i lucky to have bf (now my hubby) who is willing to take big responsible for what he has done...
i imagine what my life is like if i abort the baby.. surely, i will be haunted by that innocent life forever...
Really hope to see the gers re-considering if they think of the abortion during the peak of difficult time. Abortion is not the only solution to end the worry... Emotions can arise in a ger's physiological mind and need a lot of time to recover from the guilt.. Can dun care your bf who is forcing u to go ahead with abortion due to any reasons liek too young or studies or whatever... unless he loves you and willing to take up the responsible... good enough ma.. not like that bastard who is in this thread (as above)...
Good luck in whatever decision you made...
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but sometimes, you abortion is the only choice as both of them, the bf and the gf can't support the baby and they are underage. or their parents doesn't want them to get married so soon yet. and they might need to have a stable income first...
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there's an option of having the baby and then giving it up for adpotion. the ger can stay in a shelter away from all the kay pohs trying to pry into her life till she gives birth.
it's both the guy's and ger's responsibility since they are both in it and have created the child.
two wrongs dun make one right. -
i feel that sometimes an abortion is the only solution as the mum and dad maynot be mature nor capable enough to look after the child. true adoption may be an option but there is always the fear the the child may not go to a good home. Should the parents wanna share responsibility for the child but are not in love nor capable to look after the child, it may cause more harm than good.
Sometimes this world is so full of suffering, even i fear bringing a child into this world when the time comes...although i totally adore kids. -
still i feel its no excuse to kill a life.Originally posted by fiona:i feel that sometimes an abortion is the only solution as the mum and dad maynot be mature nor capable enough to look after the child. true adoption may be an option but there is always the fear the the child may not go to a good home. Should the parents wanna share responsibility for the child but are not in love nor capable to look after the child, it may cause more harm than good.
Sometimes this world is so full of suffering, even i fear bringing a child into this world when the time comes...although i totally adore kids.
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yes its not an excuse.... but bring it into this world and suffer the mistakes of its parents is rite? think its really dependant on each individual's situation...its easy for us as the bystanders to go....oh yes am pro-life ..to abort the baby away is murder or am pro-choice....to abort the baby is for its own good... am not using abortion as an excuse... but sometimes, just sometimes, its a person's only solution... should the mummy be a victim of rape...and she gets pregnant by the rapist, the baby is healthy...would you expect her to keep the baby? she can keep the baby to full term and give the baby up for an abortion...but how about the psychological impact on her? so to me...abortion should NOT be an excuse but to others, its their only soulution and we have to understand that...
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giving it up for abortion is really pain for a woman... she might feel sort of pain after knowing own baby is well raised by childless parents.. what if adult (for eg, this baby is adopted by other parent) end up loving their own siblingOriginally posted by Retrac:there's an option of having the baby and then giving it up for adpotion. the ger can stay in a shelter away from all the kay pohs trying to pry into her life till she gives birth.
it's both the guy's and ger's responsibility since they are both in it and have created the child.
two wrongs dun make one right.
... might consider as incest r/s. 
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Originally posted by fiona:yes its not an excuse.... but bring it into this world and suffer the mistakes of its parents is rite? think its really dependant on each individual's situation...its easy for us as the bystanders to go....oh yes am pro-life ..to abort the baby away is murder or am pro-choice....to abort the baby is for its own good... am not using abortion as an excuse... but sometimes, just sometimes, its a person's only solution... should the mummy be a victim of rape...and she gets pregnant by the rapist, the baby is healthy...would you expect her to keep the baby? she can keep the baby to full term and give the baby up for an abortion...but how about the psychological impact on her? so to me...abortion should NOT be an excuse but to others, its their only soulution and we have to understand that...
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another view of my point if they decide to keep baby (then it is good), have to regsiter for marriage quickly before the baby is born..after the baby is born, it will strain their marriage (especially shot-gun ones) and end up in at-home-chaos later on. therefore, the divorce rate has increased... sad thing
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yeah.. agrees.Originally posted by millienium_bear:another view of my point if they decide to keep baby (then it is good), have to regsiter for marriage quickly before the baby is born..after the baby is born, it will strain their marriage (especially shot-gun ones) and end up in at-home-chaos later on. therefore, the divorce rate has increased... sad thing
btw your signature, you should be using [im[/i]g]URL[/im[/i]g] instead of html codes.. this is vb code.
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abortion will lead to alot of bad stuff. physically and spiritually. i dun mean you'll get a child spirit after yr ass, cuz i dun believe it. but i believe that you're sinning when you commit murder under the 10 commandments. there are cases where the spirit of death come upon the mother later on. and ususally ends with suicide. i'll explain more if i can. but on a personal level,
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Originally posted by dumbdumb!:abortion will lead to alot of bad stuff. physically and spiritually. i dun mean you'll get a child spirit after yr ass, cuz i dun believe it. but i believe that you're sinning when you commit murder under the 10 commandments. there are cases where the spirit of death come upon the mother later on. and ususally ends with suicide. i'll explain more if i can. but on a personal level, 10 commandments?
but on a personal level, ........ say leh -
you see. from my believes. God has given us a set of rules on life. you break them, you're not under God's protection, cuz we walk out of His protection. commiting murder is one. abortion does kill the baby, thus when the mother walks out of God's protection, she is vulnerable to demons which attacks thru spirit(she may see things), soul(unstable emotions,sucidal thoughts) and body(falls ill more often, weak) the only reason why i prefer to share on a personal level cuz this is a sensitive subject. of cuz what i am saying refers to christians aborting babies.
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and i for one. loves babies and children. its really frightening and sad for me to bear the thoughts of them being killed and experiencing such terrible pain.
to people who supports abortion pls... have a heart. -
serves you right for being so gullible...Originally posted by millienium_bear: http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=23277&page=1
This threAd is really selfish to do that, no matter what they r under age of 20.
Nowsday, no. of abortion has increased every year... really sad to see the innocent baby being "killed" and put mom's life risk...
Remind me of that abortion thing, I have been go through difficult peak after i found out the baby is inside me... after thinking thoroughly myself and opt out of abortion, it is a joyful to see the innocent baby beside me now... baby really bring me joyful and ease my pain after getting a big scolding from my parents especially dad... not only that, it also bring everyone joyful too... It is a real blessing in diguse...
morever, i lucky to have bf (now my hubby) who is willing to take big responsible for what he has done...
i imagine what my life is like if i abort the baby.. surely, i will be haunted by that innocent life forever...
Really hope to see the gers re-considering if they think of the abortion during the peak of difficult time. Abortion is not the only solution to end the worry... Emotions can arise in a ger's physiological mind and need a lot of time to recover from the guilt.. Can dun care your bf who is forcing u to go ahead with abortion due to any reasons liek too young or studies or whatever... unless he loves you and willing to take up the responsible... good enough ma.. not like that bastard who is in this thread (as above)...
Good luck in whatever decision you made...
and this goes to all the hoes out there too.