need some opinons
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oh well but i understand that sometimes its really no real ill intentions. but its just well having fun but ableit on an insensitive side.
i used to give a "oh well" smile too, but one day i just was sick (physically) and i had lack of sleep thus in a bad-ish mood. so when i saw them carrying on i could not control my fuming i decided to let her know how i felt
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if i were you, i will talk like really seriously to her.. coz you just can't let your gf to touch other guys :) well, although some girls like to do that.. butttt, does she like to touch you? lols.. if she does, well, when she touch you, tell her that she can only touch you.. if she refuses, that means you are not sexy enough.. :)
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Originally posted by Nuad:
but i still worry that. if in the event i do feel jealous about other things.
how would i know if its me being overly jealous? how do i gauge so?
That is why it is important to live by some standards or as what we call, have your own principles. Principles are absolutes. That means, they cannot be compromised. Sometimes, we would of course like to give our loved ones a second chance. However, if what you have preached or said seems to be continually ignored, then that means it's time for some serious action on your part. And do it.
You are doubting yourself because you have not been living up to your principles. As time goes by as your principles get more voilated, you doubt yourself more and depend even more emotionally on your partner and loved ones for approval, whether they are right or not. This is especially not a very good position for a man, because it weakens a man's resolve and you will lose the strength to be able to defend your loved ones in times of crises.
So quiet down your mind. Choose your friends wisely and surround yourself with friends who respect your choices. Listen to people whom you respect. However, first and foremost, it is more important to respect yourself. Mix around more gradually and experience first hand, then decide for yourself what emotions are healthy and what are not. Until then will you be able to find and invest in a relationship that is truly healthy for yourself and your partner. This is going to take time, so don't hurry yourself
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Originally posted by maskedangel:
oh mi god. . i've never tot of this "playing " thing to be so serious. . . .
i had a friend hu always tickels me by poking my sides, and i would always retaliate, by doing the same. . and her bf would be that, juz smiling. .
omg. . . i tink he muz have felt really akward and pissed. . . damn. . .
BLAME the GAL!
cos i wont touch without consent. . . .You are not retaliating.. You are taking advantage.
If it's some other guy "retaliating" on your gf.. I'm sure down there you also buay song one.
Just because he smile smile .. is give his gf face.
Yet you still buay zhi dong.. (not automatic).
You should be seeking consent from her bf.. not from the girl. So please get this straight.
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Naud
Instead of asking us, you should seriously ask youself, "Do you want this girl to be your girfriend?"
You can tolerate her personality, for the time being (because the relationship is still new), but later, believe me, your resentment will get the better of you, if you do nothing. If you try to control that girl, she will resent you. Don't expect her to change. It is you who should make a wise decision.
There are many girls out there, find one that suits you naturaly, so that no modifications would be necessary.
How do you choose your clothes? Pick anything, and then alter it to suit you, or do you choose the ones that fit you? You should give more care in selecting a companion.
She can be your friend, you can be her friend, nothing more, just like her ex.
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the fact that u feel jealous means u value her alot, nothing unusual
u muz let her noe yr displeasure, no pt bottling it up. If she still don't register, u can try more radical method, like u flirting wif other gals yrself