I AM FEELING SAD ALL THE TIME
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I know grade matters and everything. I'm a student too and my grades aren't all that wonderful to look at as i just barely scrap through everything. I think i can understand your agony to achieve such bad grades after putting in a whole lot of work. You feel that you do not deserve that grade and that you have done more than enough to redeem youself of at least a good grade.
Maybe you're putting yourself under too much stress le. You're reminding me a lot of one of my friend who is in the same situation as you. Grades do matter. Yes, that is true. And after all that work you put in, you would want to get a good grade. But most of the time, things in life isn't that simple as we think. Studying very hard may not equate to a good grade as examination conditions are very different from normal crcumstances. Maybe why you're grades are not of your expectation is due to the fact that there may be something wrong with your studying method?
It isn't good to put yourself under too much stress, especially for your health.
Sorry that i triple-posted >.<
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I was a very comprtitive student before, always striving for perfection and setting extremely high expectations on myself. As a result, I constantly felt stressed and I became a less happier person. When i fail to achieve my expected grade, I felt my world came crashing down. But as time goes by, I realised that I had been too narrow minded. Your grades do not define who you are. The outside world is so much bigger, waiting for you to explore. At the end of the day, when you are out there working, nobody is going to remember how many A u used to score in your exams..... I guess its all about managing your expectations and finding that balnce in life...... and of course, loving and accepting yourself for who you are
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Originally posted by Sakuraflower:
basically i will be very happy , if my grade is good and I does not have to go through all the shitty situation and able to obtain my goal...
THAT IS WHY I AM FEELING SAD>
What shitty situation?Like I've said... Learn to live with imperfections in life, find comfort in other aspects of your life...
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Basically you are making yourself sad and blue.
Your grades are your grades. It doesn't do anything, it is just grades. It is you who is making yourself sad because of the grades. It is you who decides that your grades will make you happy. And the grades can't do anything. It is not alive.
Besides grades, what else can make you happy? A car, condo, cash, creditcards, country club, cake, curry, cats, chikus, and what else?
Answer this question:
My happiness is dependent on ________________. (Fill in the blank)