Paying for Girls

• Agenda

  14 Sep 08, 22:01

  How many of you pay for girls when going on date?

  Normally I would pay for them, whether they want to go dutch or not. But through experience, there are 2 types of girls. One that would offer to dutch and one that gek siao don't want pay.

  Either way I would still pay but I would make things difficult for the latter, like say no money then wash plate. Because these type of girls obviously out to cheat money only, got 1 girl my friend and I know, she kio alot of Sakae treats from my friend and ask me to buy her a bottle of vodka just because she wanted to drink, and she's no where near gorgeous

  Normally, after that, I would not ask them out again because I'm not dumb. I don't mind pay, in fact I like to pay but because I feel gentlemen and want to be gentlemen not because you want me to pay.

  So far all my girlfriends are the types that would go dutch and even offer to treat me, but normally is I pay one, she pay one. like dinner and movie etc.

• FireIce

  14 Sep 08, 22:02

  guys always ego
  no like gers to pay
  gers wanna pay they insist cannot
  after tt they comprain no equality, sg gers materialistic, buey zi dong

• Agenda

  14 Sep 08, 22:05

  Originally posted by FireIce:

  guys always ego
  no like gers to pay
  gers wanna pay they insist cannot
  after tt they comprain no equality, sg gers materialistic, buey zi dong

  i think there are 2 types of guys as well.

  those who pay and those who do not.

• skythewood

  14 Sep 08, 22:11

  Originally posted by FireIce:

  guys always ego
  no like gers to pay
  gers wanna pay they insist cannot
  after tt they comprain no equality, sg gers materialistic, buey zi dong

   i no money... wish have rich girl pay for me..

• BeRt^.^

  14 Sep 08, 22:11

  just dun be a Robert Lee can liao

• FireIce

  14 Sep 08, 22:14

  Originally posted by skythewood:

   i no money... wish have rich girl pay for me..

  eat soft rice u like ah

• skythewood

  14 Sep 08, 22:15

  Originally posted by FireIce:

  eat soft rice u like ah

  
  i like free food... than i can be stay at home husband
• FireIce

  14 Sep 08, 22:18

  高女婿!!

• fairlady_xoxo

  14 Sep 08, 22:19

  ...this kinda guy extinct de

• ghast.

  14 Sep 08, 22:19

  go dutch better. especially if u're student nia. moolah hard to come by man

• skythewood

  14 Sep 08, 22:21

  i still student... but girls my age graduate and working le...

• ghast.

  14 Sep 08, 22:22

  then u bo bian la. cant pay much for them oso

• youyayu

  14 Sep 08, 22:23

  i always pay for my gf meals.
  
  but since she love cooking at home then well =)
  

• skythewood

  14 Sep 08, 22:23

  maybe they can be nice and pay for me lo

• youyayu

  14 Sep 08, 22:23

  Originally posted by skythewood:

  maybe they can be nice and pay for me lo

  you not working?

• skythewood

  14 Sep 08, 22:24

  Originally posted by youyayu:

  i always pay for my gf meals.
  
  but since she love cooking at home then well =)

   nice to know you pay for her meals.

  she cooks? I thought your maid do the cooking?

• skythewood

  14 Sep 08, 22:24

  Originally posted by skythewood:

  i still student... but girls my age graduate and working le...

   

• Cool-gal

  14 Sep 08, 22:45

  see la.. if not ex, i dun mind paying even on first date.

  i paid for movies n drink n popcorns afew times b4 on first date, bcos i reli treat them as fren. but i will feel better if they offer to pay back though i wont accept it.

  im a sincere person but definitely not ms carrot oso la..

• skythewood

  14 Sep 08, 22:47

  Originally posted by Cool-gal:

  see la.. if not ex, i dun mind paying even on first date.

  i paid for movies n drink n popcorns afew times b4 on first date, bcos i reli treat them as fren. but i will feel better if they offer to pay back though i wont accept it.

  im a sincere person but definitely not ms carrot oso la..

  will you go out with me?

• plump

  14 Sep 08, 22:51

  Originally posted by FireIce:

  guys always ego
  no like gers to pay
  gers wanna pay they insist cannot
  after tt they comprain no equality, sg gers materialistic, buey zi dong

  
  u were once sg gers

• cApitaland

  14 Sep 08, 22:58

  there are 2 types of guys. those who offer to pay and those who cant afford to pay

• youyayu

  14 Sep 08, 23:03

  Originally posted by skythewood:

   nice to know you pay for her meals.

  she cooks? I thought your maid do the cooking?

  my maid cooking sucks.. and she normally just prepare breakfast..

• rainee

  14 Sep 08, 23:04

  Depends on what kinda outing it is. If it is a date, particularly a first date, the guy should pay to create a good impression.

  But if it is just a friends outing, then don't need to offer to pay for the girl, let her settle it by herself. If you offer to pay, she might get the wrong idea.

  As the relationship progresses on, I believe that the girl should be a bit zi dong to offer to pay once in a while. If not for the whole dinner, then can help to pay for drinks or snacks later on.

• cuddles

  14 Sep 08, 23:09

  got money, ask girls out, pay.

  no money, better don't ask girls out since you don't intend to pay.

  if you go out with a leech, be it guy or girl, just too bad.. get the night over and done with and run..

• parn

  14 Sep 08, 23:35

  I understand alot of guys want to save money, so I always suggest going to hawker centre but never to food court.

  Maybe they are thankful to me, but actually I prefer old hawker centre food than those bad quality food court's food.