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Recently, my best friend got himself a girlfriend. When he told me about it, i feel happy for him. But somehow don't know why, i feel jealous. Am I bad?.....Somehow feel quite guilty....
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its normal. try to control your feelings. but please don't get another girl just to replace that girlfriend your buddy has. otherwise the girls here in sgforms will take ak47 and shoot u.
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it's not bad to be jealous..Originally posted by BrenBren:Recently, my best friend got himself a girlfriend. When he told me about it, i feel happy for him. But somehow don't know why, i feel jealous. Am I bad?.....Somehow feel quite guilty....
sometimes it's because you are thinking that he's attached while you are not.
it's just the difference of status.. -
yes i agree. and i also know what you mean. or at least i do. like if for example a friend of mine just got a gf, who is also someone i know very well, i wun say i am jealous la. but i just feel empty, like, what does it feel like to have someone to be with, to love, you know, the standard stuff. and u just get hungry to get into a relationship.
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yah i do feel this way sometimes..
but it's just for maybe 1 or 2 days and i'll get over. -
I guess it's natural for a person in your shoes to be envy, just so long that feeling doesn't stay up for weeks and months. Don't grim too much about it.Originally posted by BrenBren:Recently, my best friend got himself a girlfriend. When he told me about it, i feel happy for him. But somehow don't know why, i feel jealous. Am I bad?.....Somehow feel quite guilty....
The better question to ask is probably: "Are you currently attached or single ?" -
Originally posted by lightred:I guess it's natural for a person in your shoes to be envy, just so long that feeling doesn't stay up for weeks and months. Don't grim too much about it.
The better question to ask is probably: "Are you currently attached or single ?"
No. Argh!!! 
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Haha...Dun worry lah...I won't. Think I think too much due to too much free time....Anyway thank you for your advice bro blue_kelvinsg...Originally posted by blue_kelvinsg:its normal. try to control your feelings. but please don't get another girl just to replace that girlfriend your buddy has. otherwise the girls here in sgforms will take ak47 and shoot u. -
Haha...you are right.....I know what you mean..Sometimes when you see couples on the road, you just can't help but feel empty....Anyway are you the one that post questions on Airforce senior Tech?How is it?Originally posted by kohanson:it's not bad to be jealous..
sometimes it's because you are thinking that he's attached while you are not.
it's just the difference of status.. -
Jealousy is inherent in every human being.
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being jealous because ur best fren can't spend time wif u as often??
this is common lah...
but after a while... u shld be able to get used to it...
sometimes.... things in life dun last forever....
muz learn to let go as and when situation happens....... -
No lah.Not about that.Just got that kind of felling like " Why he get it but i don't".........Haha...sound crazy...BUt one thing I learn for sure is that when you suddenly can't find a person who you usually get hold off easily, there is a high chance he/she is attached...hehe..Their time are given to their GF/BF...hahaOriginally posted by AngelDark:being jealous because ur best fren can't spend time wif u as often??
this is common lah...
but after a while... u shld be able to get used to it...
sometimes.... things in life dun last forever....
muz learn to let go as and when situation happens....... -
That I understand.....But is it good or bad? Is it a reflection of ones admitting to their own inability to possess something or to do something....Is it been weak?....Hmmm...I don't know....Originally posted by shandower:Jealousy is inherent in every human being. -
When you find that their relation is undergoing problem - I am sure you wouldn't get jealous anymore.Originally posted by BrenBren:Recently, my best friend got himself a girlfriend. When he told me about it, i feel happy for him. But somehow don't know why, i feel jealous. Am I bad?.....Somehow feel quite guilty....
As your best friend, you should be happy for him that he has found a female soul to spend time with. It should serve and motivate you to observe people around you. Who knows... love might be approaching you soon too?
Jealousy gets you nowhere - your best friend don't feel it, his gf don't feel it, I don't feel it, nobody else feels it...
Only you...
So whats the USE of being jealous? -
Well, I truely feel happy for him...but somehow the feeling just emerge....thats why I'm guilty to have that jeloous feeling cos i know it is stupid....Originally posted by Yunhaier:When you find that their relation is undergoing problem - I am sure you wouldn't get jealous anymore.
As your best friend, you should be happy for him that he has found a female soul to spend time with. It should serve and motivate you to observe people around you. Who knows... love might be approaching you soon too?
Jealousy gets you nowhere - your best friend don't feel it, his gf don't feel it, I don't feel it, nobody else feels it...
Only you...
So whats the USE of being jealous? -
Innocent untill proven guilty.
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Haha..I also very poor....hehe...thats why most of the time stay at home..dun dare to go outOriginally posted by sgboy2004:Innocent untill proven guilty. -
after he screw her gf and decided to dump her, ask him whether you can have a piece of that cake.
now you sure wont feel jealous~ =p -
That may sound fun...but i won't do that lah....Thats not ethical....Anyway I had been tinking about this issue this few days and come to a conclusion. I think I'm not jealous of him but worry about my own future. THis is because our life use to be on the same point. Now that he got a GF, it seems to me that he had taken a step forward but I'm still where I use to be. I'm scare the people another me will start to move on and I'm still where I'm. I'm already 23 so not young anymore..*SIGH*Originally posted by digicharat:after he screw her gf and decided to dump her, ask him whether you can have a piece of that cake.
now you sure wont feel jealous~ =p -
maybe it's time for you to know more people..Originally posted by BrenBren:That may sound fun...but i won't do that lah....Thats not ethical....Anyway I had been tinking about this issue this few days and come to a conclusion. I think I'm not jealous of him but worry about my own future. THis is because our life use to be on the same point. Now that he got a GF, it seems to me that he had taken a step forward but I'm still where I use to be. I'm scare the people another me will start to move on and I'm still where I'm. I'm already 23 so not young anymore..*SIGH*
go for the outings that are organised here.
so that you will get to know more people around.. -
Bro kohanson,Originally posted by kohanson:maybe it's time for you to know more people..
go for the outings that are organised here.
so that you will get to know more people around..
There is outing here meh? Hmm...sound interesting? I know I need to widen my social circle but I don't know how to start. Maybe going outing maybe a good idea. What kind of outing the people here orginise?Karaok?Bowling?or go beach volley?Keep me updat leh..