Thank you for reading this topic, please read with an open mind. Advice will be taken and read with gratefulness. Those who could not understand and cant accept the story, kindly respect the situation as no one knows and expects what is going to happen in life. We only live once.
I am in love with a married woman. She told me that she love me and is in a dilema. She do not know what to do.
I initate a clear break up thru sms but when we met up the following days, we still ended up together as there are still feelings for each other.
Can someone give me advice? What should I do? I am in love with her and she know it. How can I: -
i) Make it even clearer to her that I wan her and be with her? (this is to show her that I am true to her and is sincere)
ii) know that she wan to be with me too (since she say she is in a dilema, i guess it should be me, the guy, to ensure her, however, I wan to make sure she is not just wanting to be with me to escape from her current relationship)
As much as you may be in love with her....
..... being a third party is a bad, bad thing to do....
~Just Do It ~
.. trust mi.. i understand ur feeling.... i'm in love with 3 married woman now.. so... what u think......
not wise to flirt with married women, dangerous, so many girl out there, pick one,
Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):~Just Do It ~
.. trust mi.. i understand ur feeling.... i'm in love with 3 married woman now.. so... what u think......
Love or lust ?
Originally posted by XxYaNxX:
Love or lust ?
Love of cos....
Originally posted by struck:Thank you for reading this topic, please read with an open mind. Advice will be taken and read with gratefulness. Those who could not understand and cant accept the story, kindly respect the situation as no one knows and expects what is going to happen in life. We only live once.
I am in love with a married woman. She told me that she love me and is in a dilema. She do not know what to do.
I initate a clear break up thru sms but when we met up the following days, we still ended up together as there are still feelings for each other.
Can someone give me advice? What should I do? I am in love with her and she know it. How can I: -
i) Make it even clearer to her that I wan her and be with her? (this is to show her that I am true to her and is sincere)
ii) know that she wan to be with me too (since she say she is in a dilema, i guess it should be me, the guy, to ensure her, however, I wan to make sure she is not just wanting to be with me to escape from her current relationship)
If she can cheat on her husband , what makes you think she won't do it to you ?
Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):
Love of cos....
Love all 3 ?
No matter what problems she is having with her husband, you should only be there to offer sound advice or a listening ear. Nothing past the line into adultery, to the extent of a divorce and her being with you. It is very very very bad to break up a marriage.
the fact that she can betray her husband while still being legally married to him tells you much about her character right?
a responsible person will choose to make clean break(divorce or at least separation) before getting involved with another.
Those who could not understand and cant accept the story, kindly respect the situation as no one knows and expects what is going to happen in life. We only live once.
Those who will not agree with you, doesn't nec mean that they are not respecting yr situation. Because we only live once, live it without unnec burden and guilty.
I am in love with a married woman. She told me that she love me and is in a dilema. She do not know what to do.
She can be married now and she is in love with you. How can you be sure that she will not behave the same way after she divorces and marries you, ie develop feeling for other man after you marry her?.
I initate a clear break up thru sms but when we met up the following days, we still ended up together as there are still feelings for each other.
If you are sincere in initiating a clear breakup, you should never see her again - no matter what.
How can I: -
i) Make it even clearer to her that I wan her and be with her? (this is to show her that I am true to her and is sincere)
ii) know that she wan to be with me too (since she say she is in a dilema, i guess it should be me, the guy, to ensure her, however, I wan to make sure she is not just wanting to be with me to escape from her current relationship)
If you really have true feeling for this woman, you should do the right thing. Never force or pressure her to be with you.
Not only irrational decision can arise from her but it can bring about to a host of future mental, emotional and health issues upon her.
My question is
do you care for her more than you or
do care for yourself more than her?
Originally posted by struck:Thank you for reading this topic, please read with an open mind. Advice will be taken and read with gratefulness. Those who could not understand and cant accept the story, kindly respect the situation as no one knows and expects what is going to happen in life. We only live once.
I am in love with a married woman. She told me that she love me and is in a dilema. She do not know what to do.
I initate a clear break up thru sms but when we met up the following days, we still ended up together as there are still feelings for each other.
Can someone give me advice? What should I do? I am in love with her and she know it. How can I: -
i) Make it even clearer to her that I wan her and be with her? (this is to show her that I am true to her and is sincere)
ii) know that she wan to be with me too (since she say she is in a dilema, i guess it should be me, the guy, to ensure her, however, I wan to make sure she is not just wanting to be with me to escape from her current relationship)
If a woman/man can betray her/his other half despite going through the marriage vows, she/he can commit the same betrayal again.
But I doubt you can see this fact. I hope you will not need to go through the hard way to learn the facts.
Originally posted by XxYaNxX:
Love all 3 ?
ya all 3.. can die for them.... u know who is wei xiao bao right?
Originally posted by struck:Thank you for reading this topic, please read with an open mind. Advice will be taken and read with gratefulness. Those who could not understand and cant accept the story, kindly respect the situation as no one knows and expects what is going to happen in life. We only live once.
I am in love with a married woman. She told me that she love me and is in a dilema. She do not know what to do.
I initate a clear break up thru sms but when we met up the following days, we still ended up together as there are still feelings for each other.
Can someone give me advice? What should I do? I am in love with her and she know it. How can I: -
i) Make it even clearer to her that I wan her and be with her? (this is to show her that I am true to her and is sincere)
ii) know that she wan to be with me too (since she say she is in a dilema, i guess it should be me, the guy, to ensure her, however, I wan to make sure she is not just wanting to be with me to escape from her current relationship)
Where love is concerned, it is always difficult to say who is right or wrong. I'm sure you know that the society frowns upon the third party in a relationship.
What you should ask yourself is, are you ready to face the challenges that society will place on you?
Secondly, is she willing to brave through the challenges together with you?
If your answer is no, I suggest you walk away.
Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):
ya all 3.. can die for them.... u know who is wei xiao bao right?
more like duan zhen chun in tian long ba bu
u r confused, shes aso confused n in the end all 3 parties suffer...
i think u jus wanna some1 to encourage u to go after her ba...
Impossible is nothing
Originally posted by youyayu:Impossible is nothing
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Originally posted by struck:Thank you for reading this topic, please read with an open mind. Advice will be taken and read with gratefulness. Those who could not understand and cant accept the story, kindly respect the situation as no one knows and expects what is going to happen in life. We only live once.
I am in love with a married woman. She told me that she love me and is in a dilema. She do not know what to do.
I initate a clear break up thru sms but when we met up the following days, we still ended up together as there are still feelings for each other.
Can someone give me advice? What should I do? I am in love with her and she know it. How can I: -
i) Make it even clearer to her that I wan her and be with her? (this is to show her that I am true to her and is sincere)
ii) know that she wan to be with me too (since she say she is in a dilema, i guess it should be me, the guy, to ensure her, however, I wan to make sure she is not just wanting to be with me to escape from her current relationship)
I do not agree that once a person who fall in love with another party other than the spouse, cannot b trusted & shld be condemn. There are many reasons why the person is married to his/her current spouse, it may not be necessarily be love
Now Stuck,
i) & ii) There is no other ways to show her how much u want to be with her except than to give her (& urself) more time to make decision (if any), & perhaps some space too.. U have to think in her position that she's a married woman, she cant be possibly seen behavin intimately with another man in public.
By also givin urself the time to think if she's really the one u want to be with or it's just hots for her is good for both parties.
However, I hope u know her long enuf to know tat she is not lying to u. She might be feelin lonely or neglected & ur appearance may be just the right timing for her to rely on temporary. She might leave u once her husband gives her the attention & love that she craves for.
Only time will tell.
Originally posted by struck: Thank you for reading this topic, please read with an open mind. Advice will be taken and read with gratefulness. Those who could not understand and cant accept the story, kindly respect the situation as no one knows and expects what is going to happen in life. We only live once.I am in love with a married woman. She told me that she love me and is in a dilema. She do not know what to do.
I initate a clear break up thru sms but when we met up the following days, we still ended up together as there are still feelings for each other.
Can someone give me advice? What should I do? I am in love with her and she know it. How can I: -
i) Make it even clearer to her that I wan her and be with her? (this is to show her that I am true to her and is sincere)
ii) know that she wan to be with me too (since she say she is in a dilema, i guess it should be me, the guy, to ensure her, however, I wan to make sure she is not just wanting to be with me to escape from her current relationship)
A relationship like this is frowned upon because cheating in a marriage shows that vows weren't taken seriously. But I think you know the stakes already. And my advice is, eventually love alone is not enough. Takes a lot more than that to make a relationship or marriage work.
If I were in your shoes, I'd reassure her of my feelings then tell her unless she makes a clean break with her husband, it isn't fair to both him and me. Then see what she does.
Maybe this is not the answer you want to hear but it sounds like she's playing both sides of the fence while you're taking in all the confusion. If you love her, then root for her and be there when she finally makes a clean break from an unhappy marriage.
If you're simply happy in her company, then don't think so much, don't demand a divorce from her. Forget all the heavy love problems lah. Live for the moment because life is short.
Like RediAlertz, I think there's a very high chance she has no intention of leaving the marriage. If she did she would've done so long ago.
You are "in love" with her now. She is in love with you "now".
The situation "now" is that she is unavailable, she still married.
When she is free of encumbrances, will you still view of her the same? Will her view of you still be the same?
Make sure your's is not a situational relationship, i.e. the relationship is intense because of a situation. Remove the situation, and all feelings fall flat.
Couples are known to be lovey dovey during courtship, because marriage hasn't been attained yet. After marriage, its what the heck!
Better don't push it on account of "love". Be sure you both can click as buddies before you commit yourselves to anything more serious. Otherwise just keep it on "friends" level.
hi im about the same with you, i'm in love with a married man...
we had bing together for some time... and within that period his wife
actually suppect us and even found out some of the mail i sent to him, she found out about us almost 3 to 4 time and we nearly cut the relationship off but we still continue till now... although we meet lesser now but i really in love with him... i don't know whether he really in love with me... cause he will not leave his wife... but he still willing to take the risk together with me..dose this mean that he love me?? he's in lots of trouble bcause of me but he still willing to give in to me and continue... i hope we can last forever...
Originally posted by viceroy88:hi im about the same with you, i'm in love with a married man...
we had bing together for some time... and within that period his wife
actually suppect us and even found out some of the mail i sent to him, she found out about us almost 3 to 4 time and we nearly cut the relationship off but we still continue till now... although we meet lesser now but i really in love with him... i don't know whether he really in love with me... cause he will not leave his wife... but he still willing to take the risk together with me..dose this mean that he love me?? he's in lots of trouble bcause of me but he still willing to give in to me and continue... i hope we can last forever...
Dear you have to ask yourself what you want out of this eventually. At least his conscience is clear because he already told you he will never leave his wife. If you are happy with status quo then no problems. If you want more, then just pack up and leave.
i dunno.... i really love him deep...i dunno what im to him... i know he love his wife... but now he even take a big risk with me... and sacrisfice for me tooo.... i told him im willing to be his under ground mistress forever,.... i can felt he love me if not when his wife found out about us he will say stop but he did't...