Date my friend's best friend?
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Originally posted by DaExodus:
Thx for the inputs peeps, appreciated.
It is not a trap. Me and my best friend,we cannot be together.
And yes, today I just got her email address! and I had a good chat with her.
It was the best chat with a girl I ever had in a long while. I feel so rejuvenated! It is not those "sian1/2" replies which I get from my best friend but real actual conversation. And "justcantstop", 4 yrs, I think my time and energy spent on my best friend made me neglect the good things in life that I could have.
yea me too. this 1 yr i spent too much time emo-ing haha. My friends were like.... " can u stop being so emo ? "
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Originally posted by DaExodus:
I need a compass to point me to the right direction.
I like this girl for over 4 years now, wait let me rephrase, not like but love.
But good things between me and her just isnt happening after me kept on trying for so many years now. She is in another relationship (god, i hate that undeserving guy but another story another day.) and day in day out i am just sitting around my room, going to work and practically doing nothing but pinning on her. I hate this life, (its been a year since I last went out 1 on 1 with another girl)
I have talked to her in the past, several times, we both agreed that we wouldnt be tgt anytime sooner and she treats me as a best friend.
We work together almost everyday and we have lunch together almost everyday too. Recently for the past 2 months of so, her best friend joined us for lunch too and day after day I get to know her best friend too. Just a month ago,she told me her best friend is recently single and asked me to consider dating her best friend which I shurgged it off but then after she mention it several time and I have this itchy feeling inside me.
But, date the best friend of the friend you love? It sounds weird to me...I don't know what to do, what's the first step to do if i were to pursue it., I cant ask my best friend to give me her best friend number or email address right? maybe I can but i'm afraid of being embarassed.
Only friend's best friend nia.......you will be more embarassed if you were you date your friend's younger/older sister/Mother.
