i want to know
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oh btw, if he doesn't respond to it ... u can be sure he's not interested. then u can move on..
good luck ;)
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Originally posted by maxtor:
i dun think u will like playing games but if u think he does and u like him, try this. send him a forwarded good night msg one night. and then for the next few days dun call, sms, meet him. if he sms u dun reply, he call u dun pick up. n if he asks u out just say u're busy ...... try it. it might work.
This is called an eye for an eye .. hehe ......
i tried that already. He does reply. That's why it's so confusing. And he will never call due to his "health" reason remember? He has never actually set a time and date to ask me out except to say via sms that he would be free next month, or he would be free probably next week etc, but I see no concrete plans coming at all, it seems like just some throw-off lines that he'd utter without meaning to. We communicate well as in we both tease each other using words and are never really direct over msn and sms. But somehow or rather, I'd always feel a stumbling block between us in spite of all that. It was as if I couldn't get a direct answer out from him as he's very clever with words and I feel he dodges here and there even though he said I could ask him whatever I want. Hence in the end, it seems as good as not asking at all.
Enough of an eye for an eye, I dun wanna sacrifice my big beautiful eyes for that. I see no sincerity, so I'm bailing out.
So all of you think he's playing games with me? So I'm not alone in thinking this way?
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Sometimes half the fun lies in not knowing. If you think about it, there's nothing much to lose from replying a simple sms. It's just basic courtesy and 5 cents each.
Imho, there is no harm in leaving your options open with this guy, why the fixation on drawing the line? I believe you guys haven't even started dating. Just relax and take it easy.
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Originally posted by CrabbyShaSha:
Refer to my previous topic "How do you define a player": http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/310656
He seems rather decent, down to earth. But well, I've only met him once, dun really understand him, so he could be anything, though I hope not. Oh well.
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Originally posted by deluded:
i tried that already. He does reply. That's why it's so confusing. And he will never call due to his "health" reason remember? He has never actually set a time and date to ask me out except to say via sms that he would be free next month, or he would be free probably next week etc, but I see no concrete plans coming at all, it seems like just some throw-off lines that he'd utter without meaning to. We communicate well as in we both tease each other using words and are never really direct over msn and sms. But somehow or rather, I'd always feel a stumbling block between us in spite of all that. It was as if I couldn't get a direct answer out from him as he's very clever with words and I feel he dodges here and there even though he said I could ask him whatever I want. Hence in the end, it seems as good as not asking at all.
Enough of an eye for an eye, I dun wanna sacrifice my big beautiful eyes for that. I see no sincerity, so I'm bailing out.
So all of you think he's playing games with me? So I'm not alone in thinking this way?
I feel that if a guy is really keen, he will never send confusing signals.
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Dear deluded,
First and foremost, what kind of gal are you? I think you are madly in love with him, head over your heels, ended up deluded now but later will end up "kaput" in IMH (Institute of Mental Health).
2nd, what kind of man he is? Probably busy man. Not interested in you. Taking you as a good friend and nothing more. So stop reading too much in between his legs..oops I mean the lines.
From your lengthy message, I can sense that you are utterly confused and you are confusing everyone who reads it. Straighten up your thoughts and WAKE UP! Time to go and wee-wee!
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Originally posted by kenzoshin:
Dear deluded,
First and foremost, what kind of gal are you? I think you are madly in love with him, head over your heels, ended up deluded now but later will end up "kaput" in IMH (Institute of Mental Health).
2nd, what kind of man he is? Probably busy man. Not interested in you. Taking you as a good friend and nothing more. So stop reading too much in between his legs..oops I mean the lines.
From your lengthy message, I can sense that you are utterly confused and you are confusing everyone who reads it. Straighten up your thoughts and WAKE UP! Time to go and wee-wee!
so u do get confuse even after just reading my story! I wonder who is more successful, him or me? Anyway, like I've said, I decided to bail out. I post my story here in want to get more objective opinions and to share with people who might be going thru what i've gone thru. Fair enough?
I just finish bath, no urge to go wee wee
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Originally posted by deluded:
So all of you think he's playing games with me? So I'm not alone in thinking this way?
yup. u're not alone in thinking this way. he's not interested. u're better off moving on...
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Originally posted by Lorry`:
just to let you know, this guy is good at playin games, with words, and lettin you wonder, and wonder, and wonder, and wonder.
the health thing is BS
he doesnt know what he wants actually
he might be really busy, and have other girls out there.... so yea. talk bout convenience.maxtor is rightand this sounds like me, minus the forwarded joke, and some little stuffs -
Hi deluded!
Glad you had your cold shower and straight your thoughts (and hair) out. Cheers and sweet dreams!
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Originally posted by Jezmeister:
does this "guy" get moody once a month?
LOL!
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For the benefit of Jeizmaster.