This is my virgin post, and im hoping to seek other people view on a matter thats is close to my heart. Here goes:
Recently, my good friend and a close "brother", T, was pissed at me for passing a remark to his girlfriend ,J. The remark is something like this " Tell T not to neglect his brothers"(can't remember the exact words). T called me after hearing this from J and we had an argument.
T and i were very good friends since secondary school and known each other for 9yrs, J was someone i introduced to T when i was chasing her. The episode between me and J was over due to some external relationship problems, nevertheless T and J hit it off and i was happy for them. T was busy with his work and has been working overtime since, the remark was passed when i had a little chat with J.
I can't make sense on why is T so bothered by that remark when it was casual and harmless reminder. I understand that he is stress with his work and he has to juggle his time with J, probably he still think that i m still flirting with J.
Need some views.
ps: I used to be a flirt and T knows all about my past relationship woes.
nothing much you can do....sound him out & if he values this friendship u had with him for 9yrs....he'll listen to what u have to say.
if not, dun bother & move on. many people come & go but of those who stay are worthy to be called friends & its rare, very rare, cheers...
He probably thought you meant it. Did you remarked that in a joking manner?