Flirt?

• nuthing

  15 Oct 08, 21:14

  What is the defination of flirt?

  People say i flirt when i just enjoy being close to female friends.

• gLc

  15 Oct 08, 21:15

  if you think your not, why care bout what others say?

• BeRt^.^

  15 Oct 08, 21:16

  flirt with ur female friends?

• Lorry`

  15 Oct 08, 21:18

  then?

• 00king00

  15 Oct 08, 22:08

  wat's wrong wif being close to female frens

• a-Lost-9uY

  15 Oct 08, 22:10

  tats nt flirt la..

  tats called " chee hong"..

   

  muhahaha

• ditzy

  15 Oct 08, 22:16

  More like tee ko kia.

• CannyOng

  16 Oct 08, 01:59

  Originally posted by nuthing:

  What is the defination of flirt?

  People say i flirt when i just enjoy being close to female friends.

  
  Those people who say u are jealous.

  Are they those typical loser who can't even speak a proper sentence when converse with a chiobu?

• nuthing

  16 Oct 08, 03:05

  ok guys..

   

  what about looking for other girls when your current one is about to end? like no hope patching but just waiting for the inevitable?

   

  does that constitute as flirt?

• Wahsehwahseh

  16 Oct 08, 03:08

  WAH!

  THIS THREAD IS NOT SIMPLE

• Lorry`

  16 Oct 08, 19:45

  Originally posted by nuthing:

  ok guys..

   

  what about looking for other girls when your current one is about to end? like no hope patching but just waiting for the inevitable?

   

  does that constitute as flirt?

  no. That is called Plan B. Somethin like that.
  Like you know your shoes are rotten and they are about to split in any time then you will go and get a new pair of shoes right? While your still wearin that pair of old shoes.

  Plan A is like you wait for your current r/s to end and then you did not make an effort to find new ships. Just do nothin lo.

   

  Nike Just Do It. Flirt or not, why care bout what people said....

• Daisuke-kun

  16 Oct 08, 19:53

  issit so wrong to flirt?

• parn

  17 Oct 08, 02:08

  Originally posted by nuthing:

  What is the defination of flirt?

  People say i flirt when i just enjoy being close to female friends.

  
  Feeding and triggering another person's emotions to get the response that you want out of that person is considered flirting to me.

• de_middle

  17 Oct 08, 17:31

  Originally posted by nuthing:

  ok guys..

   

  what about looking for other girls when your current one is about to end? like no hope patching but just waiting for the inevitable?

   

  does that constitute as flirt?

  only do that when ur looking for a job.....

• caleb_chiang

  17 Oct 08, 17:38

  Then they got say you gay if you stay with guys?

• nuthing

  18 Oct 08, 09:22

  So the question is *drum roll*

  Is it wrong to flirt?

• Noahtay

  18 Oct 08, 10:02

  there is no right or wrong

  just that some pple like it some dun

   

• nuthing

  18 Oct 08, 13:08

  i wonder how the word flirt came about. :)

• hiphop2009

  18 Oct 08, 13:09

  Originally posted by nuthing:

  i wonder how the word flirt came about. :)

  check google...

• BadzMaro

  18 Oct 08, 13:10

  Originally posted by nuthing:

  What is the defination of flirt?

  People say i flirt when i just enjoy being close to female friends.

  

  Were u being touchy feely ? ;p

• Sleepy Mosquito

  18 Oct 08, 13:16

  Originally posted by caleb_chiang:

  Then they got say you gay if you stay with guys?

  
  Does that mean all Singaporean men are gay during NSF and reservist?
• Maith

  18 Oct 08, 13:24

  Originally posted by Sleepy Mosquito:

  
  Does that mean all Singaporean men are gay during NSF and reservist?

  

• kelvintwt

  19 Oct 08, 02:06

  'many fling = flirt?'

• gigabyte14

  19 Oct 08, 02:18

  Originally posted by parn:

  
  Feeding and triggering another person's emotions to get the response that you want out of that person is considered flirting to me.

  your version of flirting = trolling

• CrabbyShaSha

  19 Oct 08, 03:54

  It is not wrong to flirt so long as your definition of flirt is to make people feel more positive about themselves, like you make an auntie or even uncle feel more attractive or macho by flirting with them this way, without any sexual innuendoes.

  If you're in a relationship and are just waiting for the inevitable to come, then I would say you're not a man. If you're a man, you shouldn't be waiting and then use this as an excuse to "flirt". I am very sure your context of flirt consists of more than what I've described above. If you're a man, either you bring this relationship to a close, get it over and done with, then move on as a single bravely and magnanimously to date around freely without guilt, or you try your best to salvage your own relationship wholeheartedly. Trying to test market by seeing if you can hook up other girls while waiting to see if your current relationship problem will resolve by itself is COWARDLY and STUPID. It is like an ostrich sticking its head beneath the sand when danger approaches and hope that the danger will just disappear "magically" by itself. It won't. Not only that, you are already ruining any chance your old relationship will revive or that the new girls will fall for you, because your time, energy and attention have been divided and women can sense this even if unconsciously. In the end, even if you are starting in the new relationship you have just secured, it will also start on another shaky ground (because foundation at the very start had not been strong enough due to your habit of avoidance of issues on your part) for problems to fester in future.

  In the end, it will not be a win-win situation. In fact, it will not even be a win-lose situation in your favour because a relationship requires both parties to participate and any unbalance on either side causes a relationship to go sour. Intimacy doesn't work this way. It will be a lose-lose situation eventually and will not do you any good even if you have all the "options" you wanted.