did not turn up for service. didnt account to her. skipped bible study. skipped fellowship cuz i was extremely down.Originally posted by M©+square:So wat was it that you did that made your Leader upset?
Well, let's look at tis matter in a perspective in the eyes of your Leader.Originally posted by blue_kelvinsg:did not turn up for service. didnt account to her. skipped bible study. skipped fellowship cuz i was extremely down.
Try alternatives... When you're feeling extremely down, you can still go for church services and such even if you're not with your cell group for the time being... But it's always good to let your leader know what's your situation at least in brief....Originally posted by blue_kelvinsg:did not turn up for service. didnt account to her. skipped bible study. skipped fellowship cuz i was extremely down.
thanks but i see her more as a bibe study facilitator that a leader ... in any case, i dont think i deserve that sort of attitude. it's not about pride right now. but hey, would any women of GOd do that ? w t heck. i'm just a lost sheep after all.Originally posted by M©+square:Well, let's look at tis matter in a perspective in the eyes of your Leader.
she may have seen you as a potiental and she trust that you can do it. She was disappointed cause you didn't take responsibility to call her and let her know of your well-being.
Moreover...she's your Leader, means that she will also be responsible in a way, of your actions. She might have felt tat she didn't do her job well enough for you to open up your problems to her.
She might even be demoralised and more disappointed of herself in her Leadership, she might have high expectations of you and see you highly as somebody who can do great things.
Well....it seems like she never thought you would do this kinda this. You must have been a very faithful member...or very responsible...at least in her eyes you are one.
Hmmm....Or maybe she's also facing her own problems.
So just open up and have a good talk....with her.
Cheers.
thats being cruel. God wouldn't encourage that.Originally posted by blackhair:buy broom.shove up her holy ass, then u can smell it.
Would you do it if you're in her shoe?Originally posted by blue_kelvinsg:thanks but i see her more as a bibe study facilitator that a leader ... in any case, i dont think i deserve that sort of attitude. it's not about pride right now. but hey, would any women of GOd do that ? w t heck. i'm just a lost sheep after all.