im super demoralized !
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im super demoralized ! my cell group leader showed me attitude. i know im not a good boy but surely i don't deserve that yar ?
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it's over isn't it..
Cheer up!
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hmm, maybe your cgl wants you to change for the better but was a little harsh lor. don't take it to heart, it was out of pure kindness he showed you attitude! shows that he cares.. hehe. take care!
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So wat was it that you did that made your Leader upset?
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did not turn up for service. didnt account to her. skipped bible study. skipped fellowship cuz i was extremely down.Originally posted by M©+square:So wat was it that you did that made your Leader upset? -
i tink yr cgl wants to help u grow la.. just that he/she also human, may not know how to help, only God can. in the end. i tink u still need to account to God on your actions. its not easy to be a christian. but hey, we're willing to help
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Well, let's look at tis matter in a perspective in the eyes of your Leader.Originally posted by blue_kelvinsg:did not turn up for service. didnt account to her. skipped bible study. skipped fellowship cuz i was extremely down.
she may have seen you as a potiental and she trust that you can do it. She was disappointed cause you didn't take responsibility to call her and let her know of your well-being.
Moreover...she's your Leader, means that she will also be responsible in a way, of your actions. She might have felt tat she didn't do her job well enough for you to open up your problems to her.
She might even be demoralised and more disappointed of herself in her Leadership, she might have high expectations of you and see you highly as somebody who can do great things.
Well....it seems like she never thought you would do this kinda this. You must have been a very faithful member...or very responsible...at least in her eyes you are one.
Hmmm....Or maybe she's also facing her own problems.
So just open up and have a good talk....with her.
Cheers.
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Try alternatives... When you're feeling extremely down, you can still go for church services and such even if you're not with your cell group for the time being... But it's always good to let your leader know what's your situation at least in brief....Originally posted by blue_kelvinsg:did not turn up for service. didnt account to her. skipped bible study. skipped fellowship cuz i was extremely down.
If you REALLY can't get along, try to change to a different cell group...? <- But that don't seems to be really that case for you now...?
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thanks but i see her more as a bibe study facilitator that a leader ... in any case, i dont think i deserve that sort of attitude. it's not about pride right now. but hey, would any women of GOd do that ? w t heck. i'm just a lost sheep after all.Originally posted by M©+square:Well, let's look at tis matter in a perspective in the eyes of your Leader.
she may have seen you as a potiental and she trust that you can do it. She was disappointed cause you didn't take responsibility to call her and let her know of your well-being.
Moreover...she's your Leader, means that she will also be responsible in a way, of your actions. She might have felt tat she didn't do her job well enough for you to open up your problems to her.
She might even be demoralised and more disappointed of herself in her Leadership, she might have high expectations of you and see you highly as somebody who can do great things.
Well....it seems like she never thought you would do this kinda this. You must have been a very faithful member...or very responsible...at least in her eyes you are one.
Hmmm....Or maybe she's also facing her own problems.
So just open up and have a good talk....with her.
Cheers. -
buy broom.shove up her holy ass, then u can smell it.
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thats being cruel. God wouldn't encourage that.Originally posted by blackhair:buy broom.shove up her holy ass, then u can smell it. -
Would you do it if you're in her shoe?Originally posted by blue_kelvinsg:thanks but i see her more as a bibe study facilitator that a leader ... in any case, i dont think i deserve that sort of attitude. it's not about pride right now. but hey, would any women of GOd do that ? w t heck. i'm just a lost sheep after all.
There's no difference between you and her.
If you have not found yourself to be in the wrong. Then move on and continue finding the light. Stop the blame and shame, get moving. Forgive her because....
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what i feel is that you might not have lived up to her expectation. maybe in her eyes she saw you as someone who is much more capable of things then wat you displayed.
at times we all fall but then it's not juz sitting around and feeling bad abt wat happen, it's the picking up of the pieces and moving on which makes you feel a lot better when you look back.
i guess she does have her reasons, but then dun like this issue set you back. take it as a point in life which you can improve yrself.
gd luck.