questions~~

• actualization~

  3 Nov 08, 12:22

  hey gals im just curious can someone tell me?

   

  if a ger tells you

   

  you are her buddy:

   

  you are like a brother:

   

  you are like her ex bf:

   

  what they really thinking? so should i feel safe and not think about anything more complicated if she said im a buddy no matter what she do?? and vice versa if she said im like her ex bf??

• limpper

  3 Nov 08, 16:48

  just ask her, what she thinks of you will do. you don have to think sooooooo much.

• gunner77

  3 Nov 08, 16:50

  it means u are someone she can rely on

  she only treat u as good friend.

  dont think too much.

  just treasure this friendship

• actualization~

  3 Nov 08, 16:51

  mus test water ma else very paiseh... at least need some indication to move on

• Master -_-

  3 Nov 08, 16:56

  She do not want you and her to go beyond friends..up to a platonic level..even if u succeed in going into a r/s with her, the awkwardness will be there...and will be doomed to fail.

• RedizAlertz

  3 Nov 08, 17:36

  Originally posted by actualization~:

  hey gals im just curious can someone tell me?

   

  if a ger tells you

   

  you are her buddy:

   

  you are like a brother:

   

  you are like her ex bf:

   

  what they really thinking? so should i feel safe and not think about anything more complicated if she said im a buddy no matter what she do?? and vice versa if she said im like her ex bf??

  Ur r

  As platonic as a buddy.

  As reliable as her brother.

  As irritating like her ex.

• actualization~

  3 Nov 08, 17:41

  Originally posted by RedizAlertz:

  Ur r

  As platonic as a buddy.

  As reliable as her brother.

  As irritating like her ex.

  
  sound bad...

   

  oh ya something else ~

  its not wise to make a move when she just broke off with her ex right? (will suffer retribution or what) lol maybe will prolly be treated as a rebound right? so how long will i hav to wait hmm or what indication there is to suggest that its the right time? shes the passive kind so i must pick the correct time to move in...

• Detached

  3 Nov 08, 18:20

  It depends on the way she expressed it. There's no telling in this case, 'cause you're too vague.

  A brother is, most of the time, a hero/guardian figure. So if she says that a part of you resembles her brother - it could be a good thing.

  A buddy, already implied comfort being around you. That she could just be around you and be herself.

  And ex, romantic interest, what else?

  If that's the case, there's actually a very high chance of winning the fight.

  ......

  Of course,

  It could actually mean 'please screw off and try your luck somewhere else'

  Cheers

• Nobunaga Oda

  3 Nov 08, 19:15

  Originally posted by Detached:

  Of course,

  It could actually mean 'please screw off and try your luck somewhere else'

  Cheers

  
  I think these is the most common one.

• ghast.

  3 Nov 08, 19:18

  take her words as they are then, you're her good buddy :D

• hpergo

  4 Nov 08, 10:27

  Or you can always do this

  "If you had a question to ask me , what would that question be? "

• actualization~

  4 Nov 08, 10:44

  shrug.. the signal she gave is more vague lo~ haha but thats also maybe im keeping my safe distance in order not to screw it up..

   

  i got many mixed signal from her i guess...and im so worried im heading for doomszone "Friendzone i mean" as a few things she mentioned worried me...

   

  she said im one of the few person who knows her true problem *sweat that worried me...

  she asked if i think we will even fall in love meh ZZZ(i think she make it sound so impossible)

   

  i enjoy her company and we met and chat very frequently now.. almost everyday. i dun wanan risk losing everything..

• de_middle

  10 Nov 08, 15:41

  Originally posted by actualization~:

  shrug.. the signal she gave is more vague lo~ haha but thats also maybe im keeping my safe distance in order not to screw it up..

   

  i got many mixed signal from her i guess...and im so worried im heading for doomszone "Friendzone i mean" as a few things she mentioned worried me...

   

  she said im one of the few person who knows her true problem *sweat that worried me...

  she asked if i think we will even fall in love meh ZZZ(i think she make it sound so impossible)

   

  i enjoy her company and we met and chat very frequently now.. almost everyday. i dun wanan risk losing everything..

  if ur indeed hoping for more, forget it....seriously

• BrUtUs

  10 Nov 08, 15:58

  Originally posted by actualization~:

  hey gals im just curious can someone tell me?

   

  if a ger tells you

   

  you are her buddy:

   

  you are like a brother:

   

  you are like her ex bf:

   

  what they really thinking? so should i feel safe and not think about anything more complicated if she said im a buddy no matter what she do?? and vice versa if she said im like her ex bf??

  
  ya u safe... dun tink too much...

• parn

  11 Nov 08, 04:01

  Originally posted by actualization~:

  hey gals im just curious can someone tell me?

   

  if a ger tells you

   

  you are her buddy:

   

  you are like a brother:

   

  you are like her ex bf:

   

  what they really thinking? so should i feel safe and not think about anything more complicated if she said im a buddy no matter what she do?? and vice versa if she said im like her ex bf??

  
  It means she likes you enough to accept you as a better friend, but she also know it is impossible for her to fall in love with you no matter what you do for her.

  Are you ugly by any chance?

• actualization~

  11 Nov 08, 13:30

  maybe u guys are right lol only can be friend...~ we can meet often..but still nothing goes to the direction i wanted.. and yea maybe im ugly lol~ nt sure too.. it kill my ego to ask ppl hey u think im ugly? lol.. 

   

  then i realise she got a bf whom she seldom met but still very attached to...

   

  i know "good game".... zzz