I was walking towards my voiddeck...
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last nite n i saw a gal near e lift...she seemed upset..wif red eyes n face..as i walked past her..i realized her bf was wif her 2...they seem 2 b having a 'talk'...so i hastened my steps..dun wana intrude u c...then i heard e guy saying ' isnt it enuf tat i'm good 2 u? y muz i b treat ur parents well oso?!'
i was shocked...literally raised my brows...does tis means guys thesedaes dun feel its impt 2 b nice n respectful 2 their gals' parents?
i wld dump my bf faster dn i can say 'go eat shit!' if he's rude 2 my parents... -
who wouldn't want their life partner to be nice to their parents..
i think the bf is too much.
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Agree !Originally posted by dumbdumb!:who wouldn't want their life partner to be nice to their parents..
i think the bf is too much. Givache 
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he IS 2 much...i can still rbr e gal's face..so sad u noe...e guy somemore is not bad lookg...yet his attitude lidat! i wana box him!Originally posted by dumbdumb!:who wouldn't want their life partner to be nice to their parents..
i think the bf is too much. -
Errr...if BG like the so sia lan wan, better bash up!
But what is the storey behind his reaction? May be the parents of the ger look down on him, or treat him like dirt in the first place? Aiyah...can be ANITHING lah!
Not jus say protect guy ahh...maybe parents of ger treat her like shit, even (or especially) in front of ppl outside their family) - too many parents like that wan oso got!!!
Then BF get angry and become 'rude' to her parents! If U are the BF and U see in front of your own eyes that her parents treat her like naaa buuay choow c--- b-ai, wouldn't you stand UP and FARK the parents?
Or if U are ger, and your parents condemn your friend/bf and shame him or her in front of many ppl, wouldn't U stand up and defend?
Like I said, got SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO many possibilities leh...
But if BF really sia lan, then BASH BASH BASH BASH BASH LOR! -
I think it's him that thinks that the ger's parents are not important..Originally posted by fish&chipz:i was shocked...literally raised my brows...does tis means guys thesedaes dun feel its impt 2 b nice n respectful 2 their gals' parents?
i wld dump my bf faster dn i can say 'go eat shit!' if he's rude 2 my parents...
I don't think we'll treat the ger's parents badly if they do anything to us.. -
This is a case study to people of the 'DO NOT' section.Originally posted by fish&chipz:last nite n i saw a gal near e lift...she seemed upset..wif red eyes n face..as i walked past her..i realized her bf was wif her 2...they seem 2 b having a 'talk'...so i hastened my steps..dun wana intrude u c...then i heard e guy saying ' isnt it enuf tat i'm good 2 u? y muz i b treat ur parents well oso?!'
i was shocked...literally raised my brows...does tis means guys thesedaes dun feel its impt 2 b nice n respectful 2 their gals' parents?
i wld dump my bf faster dn i can say 'go eat shit!' if he's rude 2 my parents...
Chinese have this saying: Ai wu ji wu (If you love someone, you love everything relating to her including the crows on top of her roof).
Same case as you people will treat your gf/bf best friend reasonable well, even though you don't know him/her personally. If people who doesn't, from that 'phrase' that guy had said, we can think about this...
isnt it enuf tat i'm good 2 u? y muz i b treat ur parents well oso?!'
Treat you good = won't make you cry unneccessary
Treat reasonable well to parents = happy and contented
Therefore, to be happy and contented and fulfuil your words of treating me good and includes won't make me cry = treat parents reasonable well. -
if you think is the bf saw the parents treat her like dirt, he would not have said "isn't it enuff to treat u good, blah blah blah" he would have said "but your parents treat u like dirt, i can't stand it, i can't just stnad there let u get insulted" or something.
also, the girl prob wouldn't have a problem with the bf being nice to her parents. unless she is really tt guai kia
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for me i think the most impt quality a person shld hv is filial piety. if a person dun even hv this basic quality, den i tink we can noe more or less the person's character liaoz.....
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why didn't u???Originally posted by fish&chipz:he IS 2 much...i can still rbr e gal's face..so sad u noe...e guy somemore is not bad lookg...yet his attitude lidat! i wana box him!
do the world a favour
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castrate the evil fellow lor
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chop chop.
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i'm 2 civilized...Originally posted by kopiosatu:why didn't u???
do the world a favour
somemore like e rest says..there could b mani reasons 4 e guy 2 say e sentence i heard...but if u could hav seen e gal's hurtful expression..i'm sure u guys wld tink e same wae i do..tat e guy is a jerk...'wo dui ni hao jiu gou le ma..wei se mo yao dui ni de fumu hao?' ....humpff...
we r not askin guys 2 go wet market buy fish wif our mum..or play chess wif dad..if u can do it..we'll marry u!..juz e same respect u wld show 2 ur own parents...haizzz.. -
What i think is if it is the parents who look down on the bf first, the bf is not wrong to say those words. Why i need to be someone who looks down on me, if u want someone to be good to u, u must first be good to the person first. But if it is the bf fault, he should be box as you said.
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that girl aslo very ke lian. sandwiched between her parents and her bf....
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Originally posted by sgboy2004:castrate the evil fellow lor
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TOO VAGUE.... If you've not even seen a complete stroke of a character, don't jump into conclusion of the word too soon... Things might not turn out to be the way you thought it is at times...?Originally posted by fish&chipz:last nite n i saw a gal near e lift...she seemed upset..wif red eyes n face..as i walked past her..i realized her bf was wif her 2...they seem 2 b having a 'talk'...so i hastened my steps..dun wana intrude u c...then i heard e guy saying ' isnt it enuf tat i'm good 2 u? y muz i b treat ur parents well oso?!'
i was shocked...literally raised my brows...does tis means guys thesedaes dun feel its impt 2 b nice n respectful 2 their gals' parents?
i wld dump my bf faster dn i can say 'go eat shit!' if he's rude 2 my parents... -
i admit i may hv misinterpreted e situation...well juz trying 2 share wat i saw n heard 4 discussion here...nothg against tt particular guy...Originally posted by Devil1976:TOO VAGUE.... If you've not even seen a complete stroke of a character, don't jump into conclusion of the word too soon... Things might not turn out to be the way you thought it is at times...? -
It's ok lah... Natural human's instinct...Originally posted by fish&chipz:i admit i may hv misinterpreted e situation...well juz trying 2 share wat i saw n heard 4 discussion here...nothg against tt particular guy... -
Originally posted by Devil1976:It's ok lah... Natural human's instinct...
yah my instant reaction 2wards e sad gal lorr...duno if i'll c her again..hope they made up liaoz.. -
That you might never really know too...? Sometimes it might be better for a couple to break up...? Though often we've already got this mindset that break is usually a lousy choice...?Originally posted by fish&chipz: yah my instant reaction 2wards e sad gal lorr...duno if i'll c her again..hope they made up liaoz.. -
i tink breakup should be the last choice, if its possible, avoid it.
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as in 'if u luv someone u gota let her/him go?'...Originally posted by Devil1976:That you might never really know too...? Sometimes it might be better for a couple to break up...? Though often we've already got this mindset that break is usually a lousy choice...? -
sometimes...shi shi nan yu liao...mayb its 4 e beta...Originally posted by dumbdumb!:i tink breakup should be the last choice, if its possible, avoid it. -
Veri simple, don't bother him at all. Cuz tis guy doesn't noe wat is good 4 him & is it so difficult to be respectful 2 her parents. I think tis guy don't respect his own parents also let alone her parents.