Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu:
I gt a fren..name Tommy .he gt few relationship before....then he gt gf one..one fine day..he v bored he go online irc...know a ger name Candy.....then Candy gt some problem on relationship.....then TOmmy help her....and slowly they developed relationship without knowing.....till one day, Candy did not call TOmmy and Tommy did not call Candy ...and they both miss each other.....
Candy has many good guy friends.....so she is still doubting how she treats Tommy... Tommy in the other hand, knows Candy pattern but she keep thinkin of Candy even though he gt gf...........
btw they oni know each other for 2 months
What do u think u will do if u r Tommy or Candy?
this kinda problem keep happeneing in life...sign*
Tommy already has gf - he has to show responsiblity to his gf. He had made the choice to be with his gf - he must go along with that decision and not to look back. The minute he look back, it will be his downfall.
Candy is wondering whether if she likes him anot since she is doubting and pondering over her actions and to decipher whether she likes him anot. In love - there is only LOVE and DON'T LOVE. Don't have to think so much... if you have to think and ponder so much - it means that the information on hand is not enough - take time to know someone.
The only know each other for 2 months only - most probably they don't know each other very well in character. It a relation/affair/etc is created from haste - they will regret.

Advice is... take time and let nature take its course. The more either of them wishes and wants to pressurised the arrival of Love, the more it wouldn't come to you.
