going crazy
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Originally posted by Woahaha:
I am trying hard to accept this situation.
But it seems like everything is going against me.
I just found out that there's this girl behind my back who keeps ranting about how me and my ex would break up yada yada just because the guy she loves left her.
The feeling is so undescribable...
Its like having your heart stabbed over again and again.
u must forget everything n try to move on. u certainly can find something happier than that
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I know. But I am constantly haunted by everything around me.
3 years of relationship. Hard to forget.
Just too hard.
Why must god play such a prank on me?
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u broke up for 10 mths last time, and u managed to get by without contacting him (if i remember correctly fr ur previous topic...)
definitely u can do it again this time... u're already so much more disciplined than me. :)
by next wk, if he still hasn't contacted u to express anything abt getting back... start putting away all those things tt remind u of him...
why dun u ask another guy out for xmas?
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I forgot how it happened.
I forgot how many days I cried before I finally accepted the fact.
I forgot how a break up was supposed to feel like.
It sucks to think how I have to go through all these crap again.
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To put things simple, no matter how much we tell u, no use cos why? It's all up in your head.
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I know. I am sorry.
I am just feeling so goddamn sad inside I need to rant and tell somebody about it.
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agreed. u want to remember or forget that guy or not, it's up to u.
e most we can do is guide u.
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i know i just need tips on how to get over someone.
how do i know whether i gotten over someone?
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dont think too much la.
it isnt the end of the world. perhaps just not fated.
why are u at home, pls go out.
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Originally posted by Woahaha:
Yeah. Probably betrayal and a whole lot of sadness to add on top of it.
He left me for 10 months the last time round, and I couldnt live a day without thinking of him.
How am I supposed to live again.
Hey there, get a grip.
Are you below 18? The world is still revolving around the sun.
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whatever we are telling you now just isnt going to help if u dont wanna pick yourself up. he isnt worth your tears, how many more 3 years do you wanna waste? cheer up my dear.
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http://www.pa.gov.sg/1148093110402.html
http://www.pa.gov.sg/1148093110410.html
If really still can't forget, www.sockandawe.com
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Originally posted by Woahaha:
i cant stop thinking of him.
i wish i can bury myself in his arms and hug him right now.
i am reminded of the times he sweet talk-ed me.
i am crying.
i am feeling v v sad now.
i used to feel optimistic to the situation i am in, but now i feel as though a layer of darkness is embracing me, slowly devouring me piece by piece.
i am hopeless.
i am going crazy.
what should i do.
You're pathetic, just like the rest of the losers here in AA. While crying why not do us a favour and just end your life? Would a whole lot good for the general population.
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Originally posted by Woahaha:
i know i just need tips on how to get over someone.
how do i know whether i gotten over someone?
err start by stopping to tell urself u cannot think of him
think what u need, get it out of your system
but hold firm to your decision WHY you are doing it
just because it makes you sad doesn't mean it isn't a good decision.
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Originally posted by Woahaha:
i know i just need tips on how to get over someone.
how do i know whether i gotten over someone?
When the person is lying flat on the road with track marks that looked similar to the tyres of big scrap metal you're driving.
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Originally posted by Woahaha:
i know i just need tips on how to get over someone.
how do i know whether i gotten over someone?
You don't need to purposely get over someone.
Its the mirror effect..
The more you want to get rid of something, the more it clings onto you like superglue..
Just try to carry on with your normal life as usual.
Go out with friends, shopping, movies, games etc.
Do it together as a group of ladies..
Gossips etc..(only with those ladies that's good to you to date)
Anyway if you wanna know if you've gotten over someone..
than by then you will know it when you no longer feel anything for that person even if some news about that person happens to pass through your ears..
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Originally posted by TheAyatollahofRock&Rolla:
You're pathetic, just like the rest of the losers here in AA. While crying why not do us a favour and just end your life? Would a whole lot good for the general population.
and u are a coward. hiding behind the anonymity of the computer.just like the other insensitive people ard the forum who add salt to the wound of the pple who post their comments here.
if u don't want to read the post of someone moping over smth, pls go to another forum other than AA.
seriously, did u read the article abt the girl who was told to kill herself by someone and actually did?
pls be more responsible when you comment okay?
u don't know when the pple reading ur comments might take you seriously. and i'm sure it's not your intention to drive someone to suicide right?
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Originally posted by Woahaha:
i know i just need tips on how to get over someone.
how do i know whether i gotten over someone?
when u think of him less and less each day... until one day, u realise tt u haven't thought abt him in weeks or even months... tt's when u know... :)but first, u need to go out with ur friends and meet new pple... and u must believe tt without him, ur life can continue as normal, and maybe be even better...
do some things tt u always wanted to do, but never got the time cos u were busy studying or in an rs... keep urself so busy tt u won't even have time to think abt the past...
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It always takes two hands to clap in a relationship. So what for crying and feeling miserable about it when one has lost the will to continue it.
If u truely love him then let him go. Respect his decision. If he still love u then he will come back to u. If he don't, he never will.
Had a similar experience once. Took me a lot to get through it especially when i found out just less than one yr after we broke she found another bf. Bt really, follow the advice the others gave on occupying urself with stuffs that make ur life meaningful again. Who knows, maybe the one who is really meant for you is right on ur doorstep. Don't waste ur life like tat
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Originally posted by Divix:
It always takes two hands to clap in a relationship. So what for crying and feeling miserable about it when one has lost the will to continue it.
If u truely love him then let him go. Respect his decision. If he still love u then he will come back to u. If he don't, he never will.
Had a similar experience once. Took me a lot to get through it especially when i found out just less than one yr after we broke she found another bf. Bt really, follow the advice the others gave on occupying urself with stuffs that make ur life meaningful again. Who knows, maybe the one who is really meant for you is right on ur doorstep. Don't waste ur life like tat
Wow, you register to post this.
*claps*
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Yes Nelstar. Sadly, I am below 18.
I know this will be hard, but I will be waiting for the day I can finally free myself from this burdens and shout, "I AM SO OVER HIM!"
But that will take time.
Maybe a long long time.
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you're still in sec school?
Sadly, no one can ever teach you on how to forget a person or to get over him. It all depends on yourself. A break up is certainly hurtful. It may take a long time for you to get over this relationship depending on how deeply you loved him.
Try to keep yourself occupied and leaving no time or space to think about him. Avoid things that will remind you of him at the moment. But it's really good that you're willing to open up as it help ease the emotional strain on yourself.
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Originally posted by TheAyatollahofRock&Rolla:
You're pathetic, just like the rest of the losers here in AA. While crying why not do us a favour and just end your life? Would a whole lot good for the general population.
Don't you feel that you are too extreme? You should be ashamed of yourself, asking a girl this young to kill herself. Looking at her threads, isnt it obvious that TS is still quite young? It is very normal for someone to cry over a failed relationship, especially for a girl at her age.And the people in AA are not losers. Everyone has their own problems in life and some of them turn to AA to say out their worries and things troubling themselves. You having a perfectly fine and happy life, doesn't mean everyone is the same as you. If you don't like what you read, you can jolly well not do so and close the window. Why bother posting a reply?
In short, the L word suits you better
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There isn't any short-cut method to mend a broken heart. Everyone has to go through this period of heartache. Think of him day and night, cry yourself silly over him, think of your past memories, eventually you'll get over it.
Would it help if i told you to keep yourself occupied so as not to think of him? How long can you keep it up? I know this would sound like crap but just let time heal all wounds. You might not get it now but you will, eventually.
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I am 17, out of secondary school..Haha. Its gona take me a long time, because i love him very very much. I never imagined myself loving someone that much in this life of mine..seriously.
GG to me T_T