Why must he succumb to my every whims and fancies?
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simi succumb?
i dun see him succumbing to anything.
your just delusioning to urself that he might have feelings for you when he might not have.
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^I don't think so too since it's been many years.
what I meant is..why is he still replying to my msn convo so nicely..knowing very well he did nt want to..I mean if he wants, he would have given me his msn contact or just come forth and chat wif me first but I was the one that kept going to him..
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err... if you were to add me and chat. i would reply to ur msn convo nicely as well since we're frens.
den u expect him to ask u fark off ?
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^I would feel better seriously...i mean in long-term.
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^I would feel better seriously...i mean in long-term.
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becos he loves you
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Originally posted by mlmersrlosers:
becos he loves you
some people just doesnt know how to say "No"
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^surprisingly, he was the kind of guy that rejects ppl in real life and that time when i told him i knew him without the pictures and before the time when I met him coincidentally, he actually wrote to me who the f*** am I.
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I tell you ah....guys like him are very de common...they are so cheap and always want to catch our attention like a spoiled child.
Ignore him lor until he's more obedient then talk to him again if u feel like doing so.
The more you ignore him, the more agitated and agressive he might become, but it will also teach him an important lesson in life.
He can't have everything he wants if you don't want to give him.
One good example is this Badzmaro.
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I think you need to stop obsessing about him.What is past is past liao lor.
Just be natural and stop reading meaning into everything he does or don't do.
I mean, seriously, most of us don't attach too much meaning into casual msn chats or watever.
Or else you will drive yourself mad sooner or later.
Errr do something interesting like hobby or what for yourself or something ba...
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Originally posted by parn:
I tell you ah....guys like him are very de common...they are so cheap and always want to catch our attention like a spoiled child.
Ignore him lor until he's more obedient then talk to him again if u feel like doing so.
The more you ignore him, the more agitated and agressive he might become, but it will also teach him an important lesson in life.
He can't have everything he wants if you don't want to give him.
One good example is this Badzmaro.
can u stop thnking that we want ur attention?
we like it even better if you're not around attracting attention
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Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:
can u stop thnking that we want ur attention?
we like it even better if you're not around attracting attention
Hey, don't succumb to parn's whims.
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Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:
can u stop thnking that we want ur attention?
we like it even better if you're not around attracting attention
Takes two to clap.Even if one wants to attract, the other has to be attracted
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Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:
can u stop thnking that we want ur attention?
we like it even better if you're not around attracting attention
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Originally posted by cherrycola:
Takes two to clap.Even if one wants to attract, the other has to be attracted
Guys like this are annoying like boys, not a man.I'm annoyed.
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Originally posted by 16/f/lonely:
Hey, don't succumb to parn's whims.
yes sir!
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Originally posted by parn:
Who's we?Would you please, SHUT THE HELL UP?
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Originally posted by XiaoBunbun:
I found a longtime friend on a networking site. A little background here: he use to notice me a lot in the past but we did not communicate with each other because we are both too shy.
Well, and because I do not have a picture of myself (I am camera phobic due to constant teasing of my looks, I am not confident enough to take pictures) so naturally, he did not recognize me at first on that site, what's more going only by my name.
Alrite, so by fate, we saw each other by coincidence in a marketplace so I gave it another try and told him I was that person he saw and he finally asked me if I was in his previous school so and so. I replied yes, i was in so and so and asked him if it's possible to meet and catch up but I got no replies.
Days and week passes by, he put up his msn contact and I got hold of the chance to add him in there.
He came online and asked me who am I. I told him it was me, and he said 'o hi' and I continued the conversation though he stopped me abruptly because he claimed he was busy.
The second one was good. I was fooling and joking with him and he responded quite amicably.
The third conversation was the part where he asked me what I was doing and where I am studying at. I told him it was a secret and well, he even said that I know more about him than he knows about me, so it isn't fair right. But actually, I have my own troubles in telling him what I do though I finally did and told him some vague information about myself.
And so the latest fourth and fifth conversation continues...but the point is, throughout those conversations, he sounded like he is obliging me to chat and not even putting his feelings into it. I don't know why I kept deluding myself that somewhere, someday we might be able to meet up and be some sort of friends or whatever.
What's more, he is in his first year Uni right now and me? I am only at the pace where I have to start picking myself up and go into a private school to further my studies and it's not even a degree :(
He could have expected some people from his uni to chat with him instead of his friends from the past. I mean, I know that life in uni would probably be much more exciting than any other college or high school combined.
I am really envious of his life and yet at the same time, I felt so unworthy to chat with him and yet trying to expect something out of him.
Ok. So?
Uni. So?
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Originally posted by XiaoBunbun:
^I don't think so too since it's been many years.
what I meant is..why is he still replying to my msn convo so nicely..knowing very well he did nt want to..I mean if he wants, he would have given me his msn contact or just come forth and chat wif me first but I was the one that kept going to him..
Ok. So?
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Originally posted by TheAyatollahofRock&Rolla:
Would you please, SHUT THE HELL UP?
Even if you used the word "please", are you really that NAIVE to think it's going to work?CAN YOU GO AND DIE?
If you can, then I might give you a moment of silence when you're DEAD.
Don't know which cowardly and retarded forumer you belonged to, but since you're a clone then you need to wait long long to post your next.
So sad wor....
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Originally posted by parn:
Even if you used the word "please", are you really that NAIVE to think it's going to work?CAN YOU GO AND DIE?
If you can, then I might give you a moment of silence when you're DEAD.
Don't know which cowardly and retarded forumer you belonged to, but since you're a clone then you need to wait long long to post your next.
So sad wor....
Well, I'm not one to name names, but I think it's obvious that you're a FITHY, DIRTY, DISGUSTING, BRUTAL, BOTTOM-FEEDING TRASHBAG TRANNY. How was the operation by the way?
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Originally posted by TheAyatollahofRock&Rolla:
Well, I'm not one to name names, but I think it's obvious that you're a FITHY, DIRTY, DISGUSTING, BRUTAL, BOTTOM-FEEDING TRASHBAG TRANNY. How was the operation by the way?
*sips orange juice*
Originaaaaaa...
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Originally posted by XiaoBunbun:
I found a longtime friend on a networking site. A little background here: he use to notice me a lot in the past but we did not communicate with each other because we are both too shy.
Well, and because I do not have a picture of myself (I am camera phobic due to constant teasing of my looks, I am not confident enough to take pictures) so naturally, he did not recognize me at first on that site, what's more going only by my name.
Alrite, so by fate, we saw each other by coincidence in a marketplace so I gave it another try and told him I was that person he saw and he finally asked me if I was in his previous school so and so. I replied yes, i was in so and so and asked him if it's possible to meet and catch up but I got no replies.
Days and week passes by, he put up his msn contact and I got hold of the chance to add him in there.
He came online and asked me who am I. I told him it was me, and he said 'o hi' and I continued the conversation though he stopped me abruptly because he claimed he was busy.
The second one was good. I was fooling and joking with him and he responded quite amicably.
The third conversation was the part where he asked me what I was doing and where I am studying at. I told him it was a secret and well, he even said that I know more about him than he knows about me, so it isn't fair right. But actually, I have my own troubles in telling him what I do though I finally did and told him some vague information about myself.
And so the latest fourth and fifth conversation continues...but the point is, throughout those conversations, he sounded like he is obliging me to chat and not even putting his feelings into it. I don't know why I kept deluding myself that somewhere, someday we might be able to meet up and be some sort of friends or whatever.
What's more, he is in his first year Uni right now and me? I am only at the pace where I have to start picking myself up and go into a private school to further my studies and it's not even a degree :(
He could have expected some people from his uni to chat with him instead of his friends from the past. I mean, I know that life in uni would probably be much more exciting than any other college or high school combined.
I am really envious of his life and yet at the same time, I felt so unworthy to chat with him and yet trying to expect something out of him.
I think it's more about you yourself than it is with him over you.
You just have a mental barrier trapping yourself in a cage telling yourself that you're not worthy to be even his friend due to the differences in education.
Come on gal, lets face reality!!
These days it's not a matter of education, it's a matter of money and confidence which runs the show..
With more money comes more confidence now that we can spend on improving our own looks via natural means.
You just need to get out from the mental barrier that you're trapping yourself in currently.
I used to have similar thoughts about such differences, but when I started working, education no longer is important given that the hash society is run by money and those with lots of money will have more power and position to speak up.
It's the adult world that matters, don't be trapped in the educaiton world whereby there's lots of competition.
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Originally posted by the_fallen:
I think it's more about you yourself than it is with him over you.
You just have a mental barrier trapping yourself in a cage telling yourself that you're not worthy to be even his friend due to the differences in education.
Come on gal, lets face reality!!
These days it's not a matter of education, it's a matter of money and confidence which runs the show..
With more money comes more confidence now that we can spend on improving our own looks via natural means.
You just need to get out from the mental barrier that you're trapping yourself in currently.
I used to have similar thoughts about such differences, but when I started working, education no longer is important given that the hash society is run by money and those with lots of money will have more power and position to speak up.
It's the adult world that matters, don't be trapped in the educaiton world whereby there's lots of competition.
I share the same sentiments but...
It may be beyond TS's comprehension.