i was born with accessive female hormone, having gone thru sex reassigment & ready to go for sex change operation. i had sexual encounters & relationships with married men & also young guys. most of them would prefer what i am now. they said it is more erotic & seductive with my current situation. To them, it will be nothing special aft operation with female genital. Ultimately, they also want to marry a real girl who can conceive as they want children. i am confused, will i be able to get a man who would love me aft i am a woman? Or it is sex they are after? or is there anything not right with those guys who has the liking & sexually attracted to a transgender who is in between - a female in looks & behaviors but wif a male genital? Or is it just a fetish and lust?
ask parn ![]()
she's sexperienced
Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:ask parn
she's sexperienced
i agree. he? she? it? is the best person to ask.
Even if the guys are just after the sex, it won't last forever. You should probably be aiming for someone who wants to know you better rather than the opposite if your planning to change into a proper woman. Besides there are plenty of guys out there who are willing to love you and cherish you.
If you still can't consider, talk to a counsellor or someone you can talk to. So at least you can express your feelings to or listen to other people's opinions.
Originally posted by jayh272416:
i agree. he? she? it? is the best person to ask.
Hell, it'll even give you pointers on how to score a 30K ring. Or was that how to score 30K times in the ring? ![]()
Originally posted by Gedanken:Hell, it'll even give you pointers on how to score a 30K ring. Or was that how to score 30K times in the ring?
it.
we all know who were talking about here. ![]()
got peekture or not???
eat too much chicken?inject male hormone?
Deep down inside, you're damn right sure this sexual encounters with strangers is not going to last. Like DUH?! The boys are only using you for sex.
My advice is that you should firstly, start having confidence in yourself & what you are. Don't have to be shy of your transgenderness.
Don tell them abt ur sex change and after marriage then ssay
Originally posted by YayaKheo:Don tell them abt ur sex change and after marriage then ssay
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tts cheating to your love one...they will be heart broken when u tell them the truth later.
dun do it... let them noe b4 hand...
Originally posted by limywv:
haha how will TS come clean?TS: "Dear..., I got something to tell you"
Husband: "Hmm?"
TS: "I dunno should say or not, I've hidden this from you since marraige"
Husband: "It's ok honey, no matter what I will still remember our wedding vows"
TS: "Ok...I'm a transexual. Yeah thats right, you've shagged a man's vagina all these while"
Husband: "nice"
I'm not being mean or anything, just wanted to show one of the possibe implications of coming clean only after marraige
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how bout
Husband: "cool... is that how a real woman's vagina feels like?"
I suggest you go for the sex change and then move to Holland..not Holland Village but to the country that plays good football but always not good enough to be World Champs.
go ask myspace.com/joannexd82
try to make friends with transgenders and you take their advice. Though you won't find that many but you could go find a forum filled with them.
Originally posted by burndog85:go ask myspace.com/joannexd82
is got cancelled/deleted.
take stuff that boost testosterone and reduce estrogen
drink soy milk
neh neh big big
Originally posted by xstryker:drink soy milk
neh neh big big
papaya milk .
People asking very serious questions in need of serious help and answers. Some of you guys come here joke around. ![]()
TS, I guess few of us here would be able to provide helpful advice because few have been in the situation you've been through. It's better to seek advice from the professionals or people who are closer to understanding your situation.
But I agree...don't make your decisions just base on other people's selfish wants. They do not last and by that time, you'll be more deeply hurt.
Ask yourself what you yourself really want, what's best for you.