From a survery, it has shown that nowadays, people have less patience than their parents in trying to substain and work out a marriage. Last time, people work for a marriage regardless of how sh|t because it is an irreversable process, but now - people are getting married for different reasons. Married because of unborned child, for money, etc.Originally posted by fish&chipz:hey pp...
beri sad manzz...juz now i jokingly asked my mum if my cousins (both oredi married..but went 2 pi nian last yr din gimme ang baos...) if they're b making an appearance tis yr or wld try 2 escape again n save $$...my mum then said my cousin oredi separated fr his wife!
wahh piangz...i was aghast manz...so shocked lidat..apparently they decided 2 sign e separation papers after onli 10 mths into their marriage...gona b divorced soon...
i feel rili sad 4 them...they seemed like such a great couple...
from wat i noe they park tor ard 5yr then tie red knot...it seems that love doesnt last these daes..n pp change their minds real quick??![]()
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Marriage is nothing more than a legal piece of paper for commitment.... It doesn't directly add strength to your relationship nor promise anything in the future... Except maybe in some legal sense actions...?Originally posted by fish&chipz:hey pp...
beri sad manzz...juz now i jokingly asked my mum if my cousins (both oredi married..but went 2 pi nian last yr din gimme ang baos...) if they're b making an appearance tis yr or wld try 2 escape again n save $$...my mum then said my cousin oredi separated fr his wife!
wahh piangz...i was aghast manz...so shocked lidat..apparently they decided 2 sign e separation papers after onli 10 mths into their marriage...gona b divorced soon...
i feel rili sad 4 them...they seemed like such a great couple...
from wat i noe they park tor ard 5yr then tie red knot...it seems that love doesnt last these daes..n pp change their minds real quick??![]()
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Originally posted by Devil1976:Marriage is nothing more than a legal piece of paper for commitment.... It doesn't directly add strength to your relationship nor promise anything in the future... Except maybe in some legal sense actions...?
Hmm think its getting more&more difficult to find eternal love....eternity is somehow not in this century liaoOriginally posted by fish&chipz:hey pp...
beri sad manzz...juz now i jokingly asked my mum if my cousins (both oredi married..but went 2 pi nian last yr din gimme ang baos...) if they're b making an appearance tis yr or wld try 2 escape again n save $$...my mum then said my cousin oredi separated fr his wife!
wahh piangz...i was aghast manz...so shocked lidat..apparently they decided 2 sign e separation papers after onli 10 mths into their marriage...gona b divorced soon...
i feel rili sad 4 them...they seemed like such a great couple...
from wat i noe they park tor ard 5yr then tie red knot...it seems that love doesnt last these daes..n pp change their minds real quick??![]()
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Love is not just plainly love, its about patient, mutual understanding, endurance, and lots to maintain... not as easy...Originally posted by fish&chipz:hey pp...
beri sad manzz...juz now i jokingly asked my mum if my cousins (both oredi married..but went 2 pi nian last yr din gimme ang baos...) if they're b making an appearance tis yr or wld try 2 escape again n save $$...my mum then said my cousin oredi separated fr his wife!
wahh piangz...i was aghast manz...so shocked lidat..apparently they decided 2 sign e separation papers after onli 10 mths into their marriage...gona b divorced soon...
i feel rili sad 4 them...they seemed like such a great couple...
from wat i noe they park tor ard 5yr then tie red knot...it seems that love doesnt last these daes..n pp change their minds real quick??![]()
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Love should be like fireworksOriginally posted by fish&chipz:hey pp...
beri sad manzz...juz now i jokingly asked my mum if my cousins (both oredi married..but went 2 pi nian last yr din gimme ang baos...) if they're b making an appearance tis yr or wld try 2 escape again n save $$...my mum then said my cousin oredi separated fr his wife!
wahh piangz...i was aghast manz...so shocked lidat..apparently they decided 2 sign e separation papers after onli 10 mths into their marriage...gona b divorced soon...
i feel rili sad 4 them...they seemed like such a great couple...
from wat i noe they park tor ard 5yr then tie red knot...it seems that love doesnt last these daes..n pp change their minds real quick??![]()
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its not easy...Originally posted by Sg1:Hmm think its getting more&more difficult to find eternal love....eternity is somehow not in this century liao![]()
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u sure u can be a monk anot? u seem to be very active one wohz.hehe.Originally posted by sgboy2004:i think i will renounce the worldly attachments and be a monk better.![]()
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/thinking, think, thinking, think....
fireworks die down eventually dun they?....Originally posted by JeweL81:Love should be like fireworksgot it?
y oh y???....saddening....Originally posted by Sg1:Hmm think its getting more&more difficult to find eternal love....eternity is somehow not in this century liao![]()
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mayb i noe ur fren...my fren n her bf rom in less a yr of dating...she believes tat time is not a factor...mayb shez rite...Originally posted by PhantomR:actually ah... partly is like.. ppl nowadays more open.. so more daring.. last time married then they accept good or bad.. they just make do... (im not saying no good or very good)
nowadays.. ppl tend to be more open minded divorce getting more acceptable.. but then again ppl tend to take things for granted.. as in a bit not happy only divorce... ppl tend to forget the fact that.. romance do die down as time pass its very hard for any couple to experience the same level of passion for each other over time as when they first started out.. that's why some couples see it as a sign to break i cannot say this is correct or wrong cause it really depends.. but i think people should understand more before.. getting married or committing themselves just like my friend he only know he's gf(fiancee now) for few months then engaged!!! oh my to me its too fast but on the other hand only time will tell.... 2 cents...
yeshh..i believe u...cai kuai...Originally posted by sgboy2004:i think i will renounce the worldly attachments and be a monk better.![]()
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/thinking, think, thinking, think....
on e other hand, u wouldnt noe if it'll last w/o starting rite....Originally posted by Wind:Happy and beautiful moments don't last.
And I don't believe in 'Ceng Jing Yong You' or memories.
If things don't last, might as well don't start.
i guess you yuan wu fen...Originally posted by digicharat:some ppl can live together as bf/gf but not as husband/wife
marriage require alot more responsibility and commitment. and some ppl just cant handle that.
ppl will expect more from husband/wife. but it is only after marriage that ppl realize that the person does not meet up to their standard of husband/wife
exactlyOriginally posted by fish&chipz:fireworks die down eventually dun they?....