nth serious, just seeking advice.
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Hello all,
Recently me and my gf attended a BBQ, I was BBQing her favorite prawns together with some other friends. After sometime the g/f of my friends who were BBQing with me brought some drinks to them, while I was left out. My g/f was busy chatting with someone else.
After the food is ready, I brought it to her she didn’t say much but ask me to BBQ some stingray for her friends who was chatting with her, I felt rather piss by then, but at the same time I thought than being a b/f I should be so calculating so I brushed it off and thought that I am being too petty.
But somehow those frds who were BBQing with me notice the change in my expression. Am I being too petty? How can I stop behaving so childishly?
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aiya, let her off lar.
this is just one of the time where she want to spend with more time wif her frens than u.
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Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:
aiya, let her off lar.
this is just one of the time where she want to spend with more time wif her frens than u.
ya, i think i gave in to peer pressure, when i saw how my frd the g/f serve them drinks i wished my g/f to do the same to me.... -
Originally posted by Prophecy_Master:
ya, i think i gave in to peer pressure, when i saw how my frd the g/f serve them drinks i wished my g/f to do the same to me....
Yah lor.. you are so calculative/petty.Your gf will be very proud of you if you show her friends.. how caring you are to her.
But instead of showing off your caring... you go and make her loss face. How unbecoming !!!
You envy other gf serve their bf drinks.. you go and seduce those girls lah !
Other guys are envious of you for having a gf.. you still donno how to appreciate ah ?
Stop comparing your gf with other girls.. I'm very sure you also don't want your gf keep comparing you with other guys , RIGHT ??
Be more mature.. don't keep looking and salivating at what others have.
If yours is really not good enough for you.. then let her go.. she will find someone else who will appreciate her.. and so too will you.
Think about it.
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Nothing says it better 'bout love and life than Kenny Rogers' The Gambler.
"Said, if you're gonna play the game, boy, ya gotta learn to play it right.
You got to know when to hold em, know when to fold em,
Know when to walk away and know when to run." -
Life is full of unfairness. That is inevitable. Be less calculative and it'll makes you that much more happier. And if you keep comparing yourself to others, there'll certainly be no end to it.
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Cool it off & be a gentleman..
I <3 it when my BF pampers me at times also..if I am chatting with my family / friends, he will self-volunteer to get some drinks or titbits etc..My family members also praise that I've got such a nice BF who don't mind petty stuff =D
But like-wise, I've got to reciprocate also.. =D is my turn whenever he's tied up with his family / friends
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hmmm...btw you are good with your reaction...at least you still act like a gentlemen and contiune helping your g/f with the BBQing of food right?
Its right for you to be a bit upset about it...maybe you can talk to her about the whole incident lor...
Your g/f should be very proud of you...you did not get angry in front of her friends....maybe she is chatting with her friends regarding you...showing off...and she just want you away so that she can talk more about you?
communication is the key to your relationship =)
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Mind over Matter :D. if you get pissed, think like this "if i get pissed, my gf sure kena strike by lightning and langah by lorry"
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You not happy can tell her to do it herself or find a new bf loh
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I think ur gf need a maid la ...
if gf not independant jus break off with her .. BBQ food also need u to do meh ..
next time married have childred also must help her to mop floor and wash cloths la
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You felt left out when no one gave you a drink. Somemore kena do work (BBQ) for others. Every one see your long face.
There is only one cure. Grow up. Which btw is not compulsory.
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if you want to please your gf then don't pull that long face.
it is not ur job to please your gf friends.
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it is not ur job to please your gf friends.
read.
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Stop being so overprotective, just because someone is talking to her. Big deal?
You gotta let your gf have your own time, she can't sticking to you like glue 24/7. It's annoying when someone is glued towards you especially your partner.
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Originally posted by Prophecy_Master:
Recently me and my gf attended a BBQ, I was BBQing her favorite prawns together with some other friends. After sometime the g/f of my friends who were BBQing with me brought some drinks to them, while I was left out. My g/f was busy chatting with someone else.
After the food is ready, I brought it to her she didn’t say much but ask me to BBQ some stingray for her friends who was chatting with her, I felt rather piss by then, but at the same time I thought than being a b/f I should be so calculating so I brushed it off and thought that I am being too petty.
But somehow those frds who were BBQing with me notice the change in my expression. Am I being too petty? How can I stop behaving so childishly?
Had it happen you brought your gf out wid your friends, then u left out ur gf when you are deeply engross discussing some issue wid your males friends? How she felt then?
If you really like her, gv her face infront of her friends/family etc..Her side ppl will notice it & tell her you are good de..If she got heart, she will auto come..You go back home wid her u also get wat you want..
Tell yourself not to be insecure/jealous can le.. time can make things right..:)
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So after 3 months after u posted this .. are u still in relationship with ur girlfriend ?
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Originally posted by Prophecy_Master:
Hello all,
Recently me and my gf attended a BBQ, I was BBQing her favorite prawns together with some other friends. After sometime the g/f of my friends who were BBQing with me brought some drinks to them, while I was left out. My g/f was busy chatting with someone else.
After the food is ready, I brought it to her she didn’t say much but ask me to BBQ some stingray for her friends who was chatting with her, I felt rather piss by then, but at the same time I thought than being a b/f I should be so calculating so I brushed it off and thought that I am being too petty.
But somehow those frds who were BBQing with me notice the change in my expression. Am I being too petty? How can I stop behaving so childishly?
No you're not. It's normal for people to feel upset cos people are simply not born to be enslaved.Unless you're her servant, butler.....you don't really need to live with that kind of nonsense.
But if she did asked you nicely and you are too cowardly to refuse her, then you are petty and childish if you really had a change in your expression.
