so hard to fall in love
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feeling it is so hard to fall in love sometimes.. why don't i seem to be able to find someone who i can love and care for.. am i too immature or my fate have not arrive yet..
its been so long i getto know new faces of new friends.. even if i know some i feel so hard to approace...or to know them better..
wonder why... making friends was such an easy job for me when i was younger.. now it seems harder and harder... anyone got a reason for this...
HELP
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in tis world...nothing come easy 
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coz as we grow older, we hv more expectations? but trust me, such things i think cannot be rush 1 lor...juz hv to wait...but 1 think 4 sure, u r not alone!Originally posted by Seventh_Signs:feeling it is so hard to fall in love sometimes.. why don't i seem to be able to find someone who i can love and care for.. am i too immature or my fate have not arrive yet..
its been so long i getto know new faces of new friends.. even if i know some i feel so hard to approace...or to know them better..
wonder why... making friends was such an easy job for me when i was younger.. now it seems harder and harder... anyone got a reason for this...
HELP -
Fate not arrived.Originally posted by Seventh_Signs:feeling it is so hard to fall in love sometimes.. why don't i seem to be able to find someone who i can love and care for.. am i too immature or my fate have not arrive yet..
its been so long i getto know new faces of new friends.. even if i know some i feel so hard to approace...or to know them better..
wonder why... making friends was such an easy job for me when i was younger.. now it seems harder and harder... anyone got a reason for this...
HELP
Better to be difficult to fall in love, than to fall for the wrong persons easily. -
from personal expriences...sometimes the more u yearn for love...the further it eludes u....
when u least expect it...it will come -
i dunno, i fall in love... but its always one sided.. i guess i still dunno how to express myself properly
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god bless u
may u fing ur true love -
Agree!!!!!!!!!!!!!Originally posted by Peppermint:from personal expriences...sometimes the more u yearn for love...the further it eludes u....
when u least expect it...it will come
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have patience, how old are you now anyway???
If you have left school, there are generally less or no activities inplace specially to force you to mix with ur peers, and u must thus take the initiative, although thats often easier said than done. Suggest u keep a lookout at gatherings like friends weddings, BBQ outings, chalet sleepovers, christmas parties, general gathering with friends, etc. . .and when you start talking remember to ask for some form of contact information for future use. . .
If you are still in school, opportunities abound (most of the time anyway, though not for me, I'm in a boys school, no girls
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When people grow older, they tend to keep an adult image. This is the reason why making friends seemed harder and harder as you age.Originally posted by Seventh_Signs:feeling it is so hard to fall in love sometimes.. why don't i seem to be able to find someone who i can love and care for.. am i too immature or my fate have not arrive yet..
its been so long i getto know new faces of new friends.. even if i know some i feel so hard to approace...or to know them better..
wonder why... making friends was such an easy job for me when i was younger.. now it seems harder and harder... anyone got a reason for this...
HELP 
An analogy: When you were a baby - if you are happy, you smile. If you are hurt, you cry - Regardless of which chiobu is sitting opposite you. As you age - people tend to mask emotions. You are so badly hurt, yet you appear nothing has happen. You can't move from away from your past, yet you appear life goes on well for you, etc.
The real world robbed the innocence away. Real sincerity to know and want to know someone is clouded by thoughts of false friends, liers, etc. Sometimes you wouldn't even want to appear you want to know even thought deep inside you are dying to - there is an image you kept and uphold.
All this hinders your attempt to know people better.
To fall in love - you have to wait for you chance. If you don't fall in love easily, each time love passed by you - you will definitely treasure the moment and chance. So it is a good thing isn't it?
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if you keep expecting and waiting to fall in love, then most probably it wouldn't come. juz be normal, stay simple, lose all your expectations, prepare for single life, and most often than not, you'd find love knocking on your door.Originally posted by Seventh_Signs:feeling it is so hard to fall in love sometimes.. why don't i seem to be able to find someone who i can love and care for.. am i too immature or my fate have not arrive yet..
its been so long i getto know new faces of new friends.. even if i know some i feel so hard to approace...or to know them better..
wonder why... making friends was such an easy job for me when i was younger.. now it seems harder and harder... anyone got a reason for this...
HELP -
like e otherz..i feel u shld juz njoy ur singledom rite now..
if e time is rite..luv will find u..
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Originally posted by Peppermint:from personal expriences...sometimes the more u yearn for love...the further it eludes u....
when u least expect it...it will come Quite true......when you least expect it...... -
Falling in Love isn't a hard thing.Originally posted by Seventh_Signs:feeling it is so hard to fall in love sometimes.. why don't i seem to be able to find someone who i can love and care for.. am i too immature or my fate have not arrive yet..
its been so long i getto know new faces of new friends.. even if i know some i feel so hard to approace...or to know them better..
wonder why... making friends was such an easy job for me when i was younger.. now it seems harder and harder... anyone got a reason for this...
HELP
Seems to me that you find having someone to fall in love with you 1st & then be in love with the same person as well to be tough. Here's my advice: Believe that you one Unique person & to meet that ONE appreciator is all you need
Don't know if you r a person who's interested in Arts like paintings, pottery & etc...a category kinda hard to define what's the goodness abt them but you just find people crazy over them. Simply no reason or the reason entitled to be understood by the appreciator ONLY. These art pieces can be presented in the most raw forms or sophisticated ways, they'll get their attention one day to be cleared & removed from display by someone who sees the Value to Invest in them.
Bottomline: Know WHO you are, aware of what you HAVE, sure of who you WANT & Last but not Least, BE WHO YOU ARE.
All the Best!!!
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as u grew older,options are getting lesser ..some are married some met some accident and died.some went to heaven.some went to hell..it's hard to say bout destiny and fate.it's urs then it's urs..not urs...not urs lor..so easy..take it easy..Originally posted by Seventh_Signs:feeling it is so hard to fall in love sometimes.. why don't i seem to be able to find someone who i can love and care for.. am i too immature or my fate have not arrive yet..
its been so long i getto know new faces of new friends.. even if i know some i feel so hard to approace...or to know them better..
wonder why... making friends was such an easy job for me when i was younger.. now it seems harder and harder... anyone got a reason for this...
HELP
GOD made us in pairs..so i think u'll find ur love ones someday...need some time..jus be patient -
so hard 2 fall in luv? den dun lar.. wads e rush...
things like tt r fated de la..