Should I Still Do It?
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No money, no honey.
Sincerity?
Pffftttt.
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Originally posted by Detached:
Not meaning to be rude, but that's the typical mindset of a defeatist.Step 1: Expect to fail
Step 2: Do something 'bout it
Step 3: Expect to fail
Step 4: MIA, move on or whatever you call it
Step 5: Pat yourself on the shoulder and say "maybe 20 years later she'll have the hots for meThe sad truth is that what suck 20 years ago still suck now. If you're boring and totally unattractive to her - don't think you'll find her in your arms "in the future".
I always tell people to put yourself against your opponent - what is it that he has that attracts her like hell? And what is it that you lack? If your game plan's obviously not working, then well... change it!
Well, TS you can choose to do it the "purists" way and bump into a lot of walls in your entire love life; but you also can choose to use a bit of brain and start winning at some hands.
Good luck.
Best advice you'll receive. You gotta know what kind of guy she likes. Please don't try just for the sake of it. It won't do your confidence or self-esteem any favour.
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whoa, pretty cheam advice towards the end..
I've decided to give it a try anyway. If it's a 'no' then I will get the point and move on.
Wonder how should I phrase the question?.. After all, it's the deciding question..
Any ideas?
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Originally posted by change e world:
whoa, pretty cheam advice towards the end..
I've decided to give it a try anyway. If it's a 'no' then I will get the point and move on.
Wonder how should I phrase the question?.. After all, it's the deciding question..
Any ideas?
i tink she already said no in the very 1st place...
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Leave the girl alone.
Really.
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wah..sweet..persistent guy =D
never say die kind of attitude..
but at least u tried mah..& won't have any regrets..
do remember to take in precaution that there's a fairly high chance that she might reject u..
but somehow or another..i believe that she will feel touched..
most gals can be moved easily..she can see from your actions that u are sincere & who knows..she might give u a chance?
JIAYOU!
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If a girl can be won just by sincerity from the guy, I highly suspect she will be the first to dump her partner once the going gets tough.
Why I say so?
She is living in a make believe world.
And it only takes one setback to deflate those "And they lived happily ever after" ideas.
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Originally posted by charlize:
If a girl can be won just by sincerity from the guy, I highly suspect she will be the first to dump her partner once the going gets tough.
Why I say so?
She is living in a make believe world.
And it only takes one setback to deflate those "And they lived happily ever after" ideas.
被爱是辛�的..some girls knows that the guy must have love her alot to spend so much time & effort in chasing her..so why not accept the guy & give him a chance?
love is a mystical thing anyway..one might never know who u will fall in love with..
anyway, there's no harm trying? better than TS might regret in future & said "i should have tried..."
have more trust & faith in girls..not all girls will run away in times of rough & tough patches of life..
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dear TS,
give up la. people try their best to b polite while rejecting you but u still cant take the hint.
dont b an idiot.
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Ur thread title and ur nick very misleading.
Shld i still do it? by Change the world?
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give up ....... she reject you few times already.. she's already hinting to you that she is not interested in you.. and at least now, u can still be friends .. if u continue on to be so persistent .. I think she's going to find u very irritating ..
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There's a fine line between persistence and being slapped with a Temporary Restraining Order.
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I think some guys need to learn how to take no for an answer.
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thanks for the advice everyone..
just one thing I would like to ask.. what is TS ar? (sorry, i'm a noob at this, i know..)
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thread starter ..
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Why change urself to please a gal... Unless u want to piak her more than u like her
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No, you shouldn't.
Stop all these, before she finds you irritating, really.
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Try if u must, but I'll tell u she'll still give u a "No".
But well, at least u've try & shld have no regrets after that. Otherwise the agony of not saying out wll stay with you as a burden until u have totally get over her.
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may be TS is not attractive enough to attract Gi so Gi rather say that she already had a boy friend. so whatever thing TS do will not going to help in the relationship.
alternatively, TS can ask Gi what type of guy she like then work towards it. if it fails to win her heart then at least TS had tried.
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Wth ? GET OVER IT .
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Originally posted by VL:
Bug off before she finds you irritating.
I agree.
You only see things from your angle. From her angle you are just a fellow student, thats getting too much ideas over inconsequential things. Celebrate her birthday with her? Technically it is a good strategy, but as of now you are nothing to her. You'll really amaze her
if you plan her birthday party for her. She may have her own birthday celebration, see if she'll invite you.
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nvm lar, just try asking her, free one what. =)
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apparently, there will be a class gathering on her birthday, but she will not be going as she can't stand the fancy-do's. So, there's really nothing to do, that's it.