moving on is easier said than done ...
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saw my ex at the bustop today.
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then? what happen?
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stared into blank air. didnt want to see her.
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i thought i've forgiven her. but i just can't accept her now.
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sigh, the Power Of Love.
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take care...
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show went up and say 'hi'..
be a gentleman and ask how she's getting on?
if not...not happy with her..smack her face...
but we girls dunno wat to do when see ex... -
yah man. understand how you feel.
it took me 7 months to close that chapter. i know its not long, but it was painful and i manage to do it.
we were together for 3 years and i was even about to pop the question later this year.
however, the dream ended last june when she said she wanted time to sort things out. i later found out she was seeing some other guy. so much for needing time to sort things out and be single.
over the next 7 months, i just thought of work to keep me going. the first 3 months were tough. even contacted her to ask her if there is anything i can do salvage the situation. obvisouly it did not work out as i want it to be.
so i just drifted aimlessly for the 7 months. friends told me that the best way to forget about her was to look for another one. but i could not. its not that easy to just jump into another one just like that. will not be fair to the other party and myself.
i was not in the mood for anything. i went to work. i went home. same thing from monday to fridays.
friday nights, i went home early.
sometimes i would meet up with friends. but i still feel that something was missing in me.
things took a change for the better when i met this girl from work. have talked to her before but i did not think of asking her out or anything. i was in the depression mode at that time.
was really smitten by her and so i asked her out early this year.
went out for the first date and now i am trying to get the 2nd date.
hence the topic that i started, why do girls act aloof.
hang in there buddy. like they all say. it takes time to move on. -
thaks ipod.
hope to find a gal for this valentines' day. need not be bgr kinda thingy. but a girl-friend.. perhaps .. -
awwwwwOriginally posted by blue_kelvinsg:saw my ex at the bustop today.
It is indeed very tough to move on, especially when the girl means (or used to mean) so much to you. She, once upon a time, played a big part of your life. Just tell yourself that you want to be happy and you deserve to be happy.
Time will heal everything, ok?
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Yep, it is definitely easier said than done. But who else and what else can help you? Once fate is over, it is over.
I did not want to believe what my friends told me that time, that time will heal everything then. So I chose to stay away from college, stay away from everywhere that I could see her again. There was no way I could study with her in my class. Miserable. Slept my days off in my room, till one day I realised that if she wants to go, there is no way I can change her mind, no way I can change her heart. Once she stops loving you, she stops loving you.
The fact is there for you to face it. It is that simple. I defered from college for a year, and tell myself that within this year, I have to pick up everything that I've lost. I indulged myself fully into work and shut myself totally from everything.
I have nothing to prove to her. I just want to know that I can be happy, I can be like before she ever entered my life. I want to assure myself that if I ever see her again, I can just smile with no hurt, no pain... but just memories that I rather not have.
A year passed, I am back to college. Saw her twice. During the first time, was quite lost. Managed to look at her straight during the second. No more hurt, no more pain, but just cruel memories she left me. Time, indeed will heal what you are suffering now. It will come back, this I know. Know how to deal with it.
Good luck man. -
haiz....it's lidat one lah. u need realli a lot of time to forget a relationship...
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get on with it kelvin.
u are not the only one hu is suffering of miserabilation.
everyone has their own problems and troubles...
y need to keep holding on to it ne? -
take yr time....
at yr own pace.... true said is easier than done. but u haf to... -
After every relation, you have only two choice.
I) To move on
II) To stay reduntantly, even though your partner is long gone
Nobody said that leaving someone you love is going to be easy... nobody said that moving on is a simple task... BUT everyone say and know that it you don't - you will be worst.
If you attempt the first step in trying to move on - it is already a good move. I applause for your effort and thinking.
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time will heel
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Originally posted by Wind:Yep, it is definitely easier said than done. But who else and what else can help you? Once fate is over, it is over.
I did not want to believe what my friends told me that time, that time will heal everything then. So I chose to stay away from college, stay away from everywhere that I could see her again. There was no way I could study with her in my class. Miserable. Slept my days off in my room, till one day I realised that if she wants to go, there is no way I can change her mind, no way I can change her heart. Once she stops loving you, she stops loving you.
The fact is there for you to face it. It is that simple. I defered from college for a year, and tell myself that within this year, I have to pick up everything that I've lost. I indulged myself fully into work and shut myself totally from everything.
I have nothing to prove to her. I just want to know that I can be happy, I can be like before she ever entered my life. I want to assure myself that if I ever see her again, I can just smile with no hurt, no pain... but just memories that I rather not have.
A year passed, I am back to college. Saw her twice. During the first time, was quite lost. Managed to look at her straight during the second. No more hurt, no more pain, but just cruel memories she left me. Time, indeed will heal what you are suffering now. It will come back, this I know. Know how to deal with it.
Good luck man.
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time will heal.. take your time.. nobody is rushin you..
i noe its hard.. almost everyone'd been there b4.. n loads of them had walk out of it.. non matter how tedious it is.. e harsh part is tt life still goes on..
gd luck.. jiayou..