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treat everyone else like ants
Accept that you cannot please everyone and just be confident of yourself. :)
You just need to develop wisdom and have better understanding of your "human mind".
When you have more wisdom and better understanding, you are less affected by negative remarks, scarcasm, feedbacks e.t.c.
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insensitive got 2 meanings.
one is, u just do as u like, regardless whether people get hurt in the process or not. u say things without feeling the need to consider other people's feelings. needless to say, that's bad. because you're just nothing but a jerk
another is, you're a blur cock, things happening around you, you dunno. people talking behind ur back, or being pretentious, you also dunno. borderlining ignorance and innocence..
both are bad.
i believe what u want to be, is less sensitive to critisizm.
my advices are christian based, so.. unless u don't mind hearing my advices, then let me know =)
i think TS is not a jerk. else won't be posting here.
sensitive can means your oberservation to the surrounding is sensitive.
to be too sensitive is a stupid behaviour and no need to be bothered by them. coz its thier problem and not your problem.
some super sensitive pple got super high expectation and can only communicate with certain group of pple. pls don't be bother by them. they can only have limited number of friends.
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Originally posted by dracas:How do i be insensitive? Some people are hypersensitive to remarks, scarcasm, feedbacks. Being a guy, I am unhappy to be this way, how i wish i would live my life according to my own standards, not conforming to what society or other people have bounded their rules onto me. I want to be nonchalant about everything. how how?
Of course you can also be insensitive, it's real easy anyway.
JUST RETURN FIRE WHENEVER YOU THINK YOU ARE BEING FIRED UPON. ![]()
Once you have returned fire, you will naturally be nonchalant about it cos it's only natural and polite that you should return fire when being fired upon.
It's called returning the goodwill.
If people give you ang bao, then you must give them some oranges right? ![]()

Originally posted by alwaysbemybaby:
Ya....I have to agree with you that you are a fag.
Don't know why you always kept a collection of such disgusting pictures as if that's your hobby.
Do you need any real help? (This is a serious question) ![]()
Originally posted by parn:
Ya....I have to agree with you that you are a fag.Don't know why you always kept a collection of such disgusting pictures as if that's your hobby.
Do you need any real help? (This is a serious question)
