Guess this is just a part of your Life...? Just feel fortunate that you're stuck with loneliness instead of REAL TROUBLES....Originally posted by Seventh_Signs:Any one have such encounter that u feel all the sudden u are lonely?
i have a few attacks recently cause alot of my friend went to ns. i feel so contactless, sort of missing my buddies, icq is has become lonely. no more online games no more online chat, no more dicussing of 'web design'... i turn my pc i start at screen... i end up going out alone... hp never ring so much anymore...
well i know lah can call those' girls friends' of mine.. but i dont feel good like will disturb them .. and most of them have started work already while i am still waiting for ns... been keeping my self busy ..with work with self learning... with excerising... making myself tired so i dont think so much but still...
many told me i need a gf... but where am i going to find... maybe i dont fall in love so easy... wonder why.. maybe scare of rejection .. maybe scare of this finding one this time will hurt the girl... maybe the girl haven't appear...
can anyone tell me how to get rid of this pain?
i hate growing up ..so much responsibile and now i look like i am acting like a kid posting such stupid topic... hoping people will read it...
It's absolutely normal, it's a stage of growing up since now you are no longer studying and don't hang out with as many people as in school, but once you are in army, you get to know more friends and trust me, you won't even have the time to feel lonely, you be tire out physically and mentally. I'm not trying to scare you, but you will definitely know more buddies in army and it's perfectly ok not to have gf at this stage of your life. I saw many friends of mine who break up just because they neglect their gf due to the hectic life in army...Originally posted by Seventh_Signs:Any one have such encounter that u feel all the sudden u are lonely?
i have a few attacks recently cause alot of my friend went to ns. i feel so contactless, sort of missing my buddies, icq is has become lonely. no more online games no more online chat, no more dicussing of 'web design'... i turn my pc i start at screen... i end up going out alone... hp never ring so much anymore...
well i know lah can call those' girls friends' of mine.. but i dont feel good like will disturb them .. and most of them have started work already while i am still waiting for ns... been keeping my self busy ..with work with self learning... with excerising... making myself tired so i dont think so much but still...
many told me i need a gf... but where am i going to find... maybe i dont fall in love so easy... wonder why.. maybe scare of rejection .. maybe scare of this finding one this time will hurt the girl... maybe the girl haven't appear...
can anyone tell me how to get rid of this pain?
i hate growing up ..so much responsibile and now i look like i am acting like a kid posting such stupid topic... hoping people will read it...
How are ya doing boy...?Originally posted by mikegk_76:It's absolutely normal, it's a stage of growing up since now you are no longer studying and don't hang out with as many people as in school, but once you are in army, you get to know more friends and trust me, you won't even have the time to feel lonely, you be tire out physically and mentally. I'm not trying to scare you, but you will definitely know more buddies in army and it's perfectly ok not to have gf at this stage of your life. I saw many friends of mine who break up just because they neglect their gf due to the hectic life in army...
By your 'hypothesis', most people would not live up to the age of 21.... And hence the day of their 'freedom'....?Originally posted by Thailand_Hero:so i guess thats your call to kill yourself...
Watch your BASICS and ELEMENTARY my friend.... Some words said are much more poisonous than food taken...?Originally posted by Thailand_Hero:elementary my dear watson....elementary

Hmm... I think the feeling he's mentioning is not exactly a panic attack.... Though usually such a 'panic attack' can leads to harsh consequences if not well-controlled like you've mentioned...Originally posted by Ah_Nic:Its more like a panic attack which throws you into a state of disorientation, not knowing wats going on. When it happens, i suggest you to think of more positive stuff, it may be hard, but its worth a try. Like maybe telling yourself things that u have done well in or indulge in tots of happy stuff. Remember, its all in your mind and you can control it.
I know it's not so serious for you lah... I'm just taking an example... Hehheh...Originally posted by Seventh_Signs:it is also not that serious lah .. just feel that suddenly we walking different path.. they are out this week and we had a wonderful time yesterday .. hahaha.. hey man my bro become more manly.. cannt wait to get into ns asap...![]()