Is there anything wrong with me?
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I am a straight guy, 100% straight, i am attracted only to women.
Whenever i see hot babes in the shopping mall, town, school campus, public places...i am attracted to her beauty n sexiness, n of course i check them out, just like most hot blooded guys my age. I check out their slim n long legs since many hot babes in Singapore like to wear short minishorts or miniskirt. N their nice arms n shoulders in their sleeveless tank top.
But then at the same time, i envy them. I envy their sexiness, beauty, figure... N i often wish that i could be like them....that i was one of them.
But wait a minute! I'm a guy.... that doesn't sound right i suppose? But somehow i just can't help it... I wanna be a hot babe, n i desire to dress up skimpily like them...in those short minishorts, spaghetti tank tops, n pretty slipper shoes or high heels. N put on makeup n have nice soft silky hair. N i wish i was pretty like them, had a slim hour glass figure, nice sexy long legs.
I always think how nice it would be if i was a girl...i could dress up in all sorts of nice n sexy clothes...put on makeup n beautify myself. How i wish i was born a girl instead.
N now i have strong urges to go n purchase some female clothings to wear. But then i tell myself i am a guy, it doesn't sound right
I can't stop these urges though...Am i weird? Any of u guys have similar thoughts like me? Am i even normal?
please help me out....sort out my feelings n identity. I am really confused now...i think i need help.
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ha ha ha, sound like you gonna turn ah qua soon
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you are normal. i am like you. a woman trapped in a man body
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Erm. As long as you don't start to like people of the same gender as you. Have fantasies of them. It's still quite ok.
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Originally posted by sataysticks:
I am a straight guy, 100% straight, i am attracted only to women.
Whenever i see hot babes in the shopping mall, town, school campus, public places...i am attracted to her beauty n sexiness, n of course i check them out, just like most hot blooded guys my age. I check out their slim n long legs since many hot babes in Singapore like to wear short minishorts or miniskirt. N their nice arms n shoulders in their sleeveless tank top.
But then at the same time, i envy them. I envy their sexiness, beauty, figure... N i often wish that i could be like them....that i was one of them.
But wait a minute! I'm a guy.... that doesn't sound right i suppose? But somehow i just can't help it... I wanna be a hot babe, n i desire to dress up skimpily like them...in those short minishorts, spaghetti tank tops, n pretty slipper shoes or high heels. N put on makeup n have nice soft silky hair. N i wish i was pretty like them, had a slim hour glass figure, nice sexy long legs.
I always think how nice it would be if i was a girl...i could dress up in all sorts of nice n sexy clothes...put on makeup n beautify myself. How i wish i was born a girl instead.
N now i have strong urges to go n purchase some female clothings to wear. But then i tell myself i am a guy, it doesn't sound right
I can't stop these urges though...Am i weird? Any of u guys have similar thoughts like me? Am i even normal?
please help me out....sort out my feelings n identity. I am really confused now...i think i need help.
how old are you? might be puberty
unlike wat bryanw says, i don't think you are a woman trapped in a man's body. the fact that you still envy gals' hot figure shows that u are just like a normal guy who lusts after gals, which is perfectly normal. woman trapped in man's body only lust after men.
i think u are 1 of those guys when yr sexdrive start becoming super super active, and u are probably driven 'crazy' by curiosity over what sex is and how the female private parts look like.
at the end of the day, you are so driven by this urge and curiosity that you want to be a sexy woman because you want to see and feel what is exactly underneath those mini skirts, bras and panties. (and not because you really want to be a woman)
my solution for you is to mix around with more girls, or even get a gf if possible, helps u kill those unhealthy urges
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reply to candiz's post:
i m errr 18.
ya i normally dun mix around with girls...coz i m an introvert n shy. n i dun reallly have much friends.
i dun have a gf. lol
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Originally posted by sataysticks:
reply to candiz's post:
i m errr 18.
ya i normally dun mix around with girls...coz i m an introvert n shy. n i dun reallly have much friends.
i dun have a gf. lol
that explains it. u need to mix around with more gals! are u studying or working now?
i'm not asking u to get a gf, but at least start mingling with more gals. i know it's easier said than done, but start dressing up, look presentable. we gals are not that hard to approach. i'm sure u have at least some gal colleagues or classmates. start mingling with them!
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soon la.. .soon you are becoming an ah gua.. man... what is wrong with you.. why fantasize that you want to me like the chio bus... wah kaozx... that isnt normal.. you bio them like their sexiness its okay... i like them its okay but u dont be like them... what in the blue hell is wrong with you?
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Originally posted by candiz:
that explains it. u need to mix around with more gals! are u studying or working now?
i'm not asking u to get a gf, but at least start mingling with more gals. i know it's easier said than done, but start dressing up, look presentable. we gals are not that hard to approach. i'm sure u have at least some gal colleagues or classmates. start mingling with them!
studying, in a poly course that has majority of girls. thats y i always got hot babes to admire everyday.... sometimes during boring lectures i stare at the girls sitting in front of me, n think of how nice n exciting it would be if i could wear whatever she's wearing n behave like a girl. -
Pussy envy!!
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Satay! i still rmb your previous post about guys wearing skimpy or sexy clothing=) now i noe why haha.
Hmm i think you are straight... as in you like girls, not guys. U are not a ah qua. My assumption is that u r too attached to girls.. till u tend to wanna be like them
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you're a lesbian stuck in a man's body.
Jokes aside, you're 18. You dont know what the hell you want, and the puberty hormones is making you think stuff you normally wont think. It might be just some "what if" thought. It will go away.
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from the 'guy' that came up with Why girls can dress skimpily n sexy but guys cant??
may i ask what course are you in poly? Nursing?
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lol. i like to see. i envy them too. but i don't wanna be them
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Originally posted by unclebutcher:
lol. i like to see. i envy them too. but i don’t wanna be them
agreed, their monthly thing will kill me.putting up make up is another.
protecting my modesty from chee ko peks ... ...
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hey hey
what do u like to wear?
me like lacy panties
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Originally posted by spike_jose:
from the 'guy' that came up with Why girls can dress skimpily n sexy but guys cant??
may i ask what course are you in poly? Nursing?
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Originally posted by sataysticks:
I am a straight guy, 100% straight, i am attracted only to women.
Whenever i see hot babes in the shopping mall, town, school campus, public places...i am attracted to her beauty n sexiness, n of course i check them out, just like most hot blooded guys my age. I check out their slim n long legs since many hot babes in Singapore like to wear short minishorts or miniskirt. N their nice arms n shoulders in their sleeveless tank top.
But then at the same time, i envy them. I envy their sexiness, beauty, figure... N i often wish that i could be like them....that i was one of them.
But wait a minute! I'm a guy.... that doesn't sound right i suppose? But somehow i just can't help it... I wanna be a hot babe, n i desire to dress up skimpily like them...in those short minishorts, spaghetti tank tops, n pretty slipper shoes or high heels. N put on makeup n have nice soft silky hair. N i wish i was pretty like them, had a slim hour glass figure, nice sexy long legs.
I always think how nice it would be if i was a girl...i could dress up in all sorts of nice n sexy clothes...put on makeup n beautify myself. How i wish i was born a girl instead.
N now i have strong urges to go n purchase some female clothings to wear. But then i tell myself i am a guy, it doesn't sound right
I can't stop these urges though...Am i weird? Any of u guys have similar thoughts like me? Am i even normal?
please help me out....sort out my feelings n identity. I am really confused now...i think i need help.
mix with tons and tons of chio bu.
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Originally posted by sataysticks:
Business
which poly? hmm i noe business school has alot of girls. they dress up very nicely and could be quite hot!maybe you can try mixing around with more guys?
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Originally posted by Babelfish:
which poly? hmm i noe business school has alot of girls. they dress up very nicely and could be quite hot!maybe you can try mixing around with more guys?
errr can i not say? lolerrr not many guys in my course. anyway i m always quite quiet n introverted.
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poor TS, i think ppl hardly notice or pay u any attention, esp the gals
rather than think yrself as a lady who attracts attention, why not think(and try to make yrself) as a sexy and hot hunk who every gal will want to hug n kiss?
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Originally posted by sataysticks:
errr can i not say? lolerrr not many guys in my course. anyway i m always quite quiet n introverted.
sure=) its your call.. you got any cca? -
Originally posted by candiz:
poor TS, i think ppl hardly notice or pay u any attention, esp the gals
rather than think yrself as a lady who attracts attention, why not think(and try to make yrself) as a sexy and hot hunk who every gal will want to hug n kiss?
ya thats right. ppl hardly notice me. i m not really handsome looking...i m just an ordinary average dude.
i dun think i can imagine myself as a hot hunk...coz i m not handsome, not muscular n i m quite slim...n i absolutely do not have the air of confidence n charm that a hot hunk babe-magnet has.
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Originally posted by Babelfish:
sure=) its your call.. you got any cca?
nope. no cca. i always go home straight after school, except if got project meeting. -
Originally posted by sataysticks:
nope. no cca. i always go home straight after school, except if got project meeting.i see=) hmm u wanna be friends? haha