whats wrong? help
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Hi everyone, this is my first real post here and sth i hope i can share with the caring people here.
Ive know this girl(lets call her A for ez ref) for abt a year now and like recently we started to get close we've been texting each other for quite abit the last 1 or 2 months, and on the vday week she asked me out on the wed at nite, so i went out to meet her and we actually chatted till 6am.
Well, lookin thruout the night this is wat i observed
we talked alot and got quite into pretty personal topics such as family
she didnt really shy away when there was any physical contact, eg when my hand brushed her's while we were walking
i asked her out on sat(vday) and she agreed.
she let me send her home
before letting me send her home, she took me to a spot where there is a good view of singapore where we chatted a litle more
well i sent her to her apartment, but didnt see her to her door.. however i text her and made sure she got home b4 i left.
the next day she text me w a good morning!
and.. tats all i heard frm her
i texted her at 4pm and 2am and still no replies
the following day i got worried and gave her a call at 12pm and 6pm and she didnt anwer, but she replied around 8pm, and her msg was pretty normal, as how she'd text me. afterwhich i nv heard frm her again till ard 6am on vday, she texted me that she had some problems and will not be able to meet me..
i replied asking if she was ok and if she needed somone to talk to, but no replies.
and.. nth has happneed till now. whats wrong?!
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playing hard to get lor... an usual girl tactics... push n pull effect...
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dont get too paranoid about her not replying u eh.. maybe nothing is wrong, just u being over-sensitive?
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Originally posted by 3dfxcard:
Hi everyone, this is my first real post here and sth i hope i can share with the caring people here.
Ive know this girl(lets call her A for ez ref) for abt a year now and like recently we started to get close we've been texting each other for quite abit the last 1 or 2 months, and on the vday week she asked me out on the wed at nite, so i went out to meet her and we actually chatted till 6am.
Well, lookin thruout the night this is wat i observed
we talked alot and got quite into pretty personal topics such as family
she didnt really shy away when there was any physical contact, eg when my hand brushed her's while we were walking
i asked her out on sat(vday) and she agreed.
she let me send her home
before letting me send her home, she took me to a spot where there is a good view of singapore where we chatted a litle more
well i sent her to her apartment, but didnt see her to her door.. however i text her and made sure she got home b4 i left.
the next day she text me w a good morning!
and.. tats all i heard frm her
i texted her at 4pm and 2am and still no replies
the following day i got worried and gave her a call at 12pm and 6pm and she didnt anwer, but she replied around 8pm, and her msg was pretty normal, as how she'd text me. afterwhich i nv heard frm her again till ard 6am on vday, she texted me that she had some problems and will not be able to meet me..
i replied asking if she was ok and if she needed somone to talk to, but no replies.
and.. nth has happneed till now. whats wrong?!
weird gal... believe u met her in sch? go check with her frens if she still alive... -
have you checked with your mobile carrier if it's a network issue...?
give her some time. maybe things happened too quickly and she's not ready?
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TS, your problem is that you've become too needy for her... which is kind of like a turn off to girls, even to guys... to people in general.
You are being "nice", but not being MAN enough to kiss her at the doorstep. That's what you should have done, I feel. From what you say, I guess you pretty much lost her interest in you. Don't be sad because there are so many girls around. A man should be more focused on career than just girls unless you're talking about your bed skills.
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playing hard to get lor... an usual girl tactics... push n pull effect...
I experience something similar. This time it was the guy. Even those sms like asking qns normally also never reply. I got tired and left him alone. Not sure if his still playing hard to get.
TS, may fishes out there. No need to worry so much on one.
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its tough to tell him not to worry la... will surely dwell everyday de... but hope u will slowly get to see the bigger picture lor... tink abt our world ard us... u see the gaza incident so cham...
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aiyah, maybe her bf found out?
or, she feels tat u're getting abit too 'interested' in her?
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let the time passes and see what she'll do. if she keeps ignoring you, forget it, she's not interested in you. but if she suddnly replies to your message, that's it, she's playing hard to get
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Nothing wrong except that you expect too much. You think she ought to be head over heels with you, as you are with her. When she is not, (she is just normal), you become paranoid.
Deflate that ego of yours a bit, and move on. You are not grown up yet, but please act grown up, there is no harm in that, and it is good for you.
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a very big thx to everyone who helped !
apparently she has some issues and have had them solved
except mancha, quit being a typical singaporean and dont give ur advice if u have nothing better to say den to shoot the fella off, i came here for help, not to be told im an egotistic un-grown up. and yes i do admit being sensitive. and liking someone just to move on becoz the opposite party doesnt show interest? what sort of person are u? maybe you shld be the own who needs to grow up and learn the secret art of "think before u shoot ur mouth off"
even if this love was unrequited, is it wrong to worry for someone albeit its been 2 days?
not grown up and tryin to "act" grown up is certainly not my type, i am me, i dont try to be someone im not.
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so now u got chance with her or not
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Originally posted by 3dfxcard:
a very big thx to everyone who helped !
apparently she has some issues and have had them solved
except mancha, quit being a typical singaporean and dont give ur advice if u have nothing better to say den to shoot the fella off, i came here for help, not to be told im an egotistic un-grown up. and yes i do admit being sensitive. and liking someone just to move on becoz the opposite party doesnt show interest? what sort of person are u? maybe you shld be the own who needs to grow up and learn the secret art of "think before u shoot ur mouth off"
even if this love was unrequited, is it wrong to worry for someone albeit its been 2 days?
not grown up and tryin to "act" grown up is certainly not my type, i am me, i dont try to be someone im not.
Good it turned out well. There was nothing to worry about. We told you so.
You come here for help, and you got it. You don't like it that's your prob. Remember its you thats sensitive.
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Originally posted by 3dfxcard:
Hi everyone, this is my first real post here and sth i hope i can share with the caring people here.
Ive know this girl(lets call her A for ez ref) for abt a year now and like recently we started to get close we've been texting each other for quite abit the last 1 or 2 months, and on the vday week she asked me out on the wed at nite, so i went out to meet her and we actually chatted till 6am.
Well, lookin thruout the night this is wat i observed
we talked alot and got quite into pretty personal topics such as family
she didnt really shy away when there was any physical contact, eg when my hand brushed her's while we were walking
i asked her out on sat(vday) and she agreed.
she let me send her home
before letting me send her home, she took me to a spot where there is a good view of singapore where we chatted a litle more
well i sent her to her apartment, but didnt see her to her door.. however i text her and made sure she got home b4 i left.
the next day she text me w a good morning!
and.. tats all i heard frm her
i texted her at 4pm and 2am and still no replies
the following day i got worried and gave her a call at 12pm and 6pm and she didnt anwer, but she replied around 8pm, and her msg was pretty normal, as how she'd text me. afterwhich i nv heard frm her again till ard 6am on vday, she texted me that she had some problems and will not be able to meet me..
i replied asking if she was ok and if she needed somone to talk to, but no replies.
and.. nth has happneed till now. whats wrong?!
Seems like you could use this song really soon....
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我知�故事�會太曲折
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I know this story is pretty straightforward
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I will find someone
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To accompany me along the life without her
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Settle down, good career and everything
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Since she's made the choice she thinks is right
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I can only give her my blessings
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I can't love the person that I really want to
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shui hai neng yao wo zhen me ne
What else can I do?
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The person I love is not my lover
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Every inch in her heart has been taken by the other person
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She's really happy and this happiness is cruel
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Makes me love and hate how can her love be that deep
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The person I love has a lover
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The look in their eyes tells it all, it's impossible for me
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Everytime I hear them use 'we'
就��見愛情 永�的嘲笑�
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It's just like love, laughing at me, eternally