Hi heres my story.
I used to be good friends with this girl during my school days. In fact so close that she liked me for one period of time. But at that time i guess i didnt have any feelings for her, so i just avoided the topic everytime she brought it up. She was just fun to hang around with and a friend like her is hard to come by these days. It seemed that being platonic friends was the best solution at that time.
But recently my best friend got to know her and they seem to click very well. She stopped calling me, messaging me or talking to me about her life anymore. I got so un-used to it that im beganing to feel that i actually want to be with her. Its like now i feel empty. I hope its not retribution. Its just that i lost something that i once had and it makes me feel terrible. Now i'm very sensitive to what she says to me and whenver i see them together its like me and her in the past. And if my best friend or her doesnt talk to me i have an impression they are having a fun time without me. Its so weird and i dont wanna end up making wrong decisions or have false impressions that i like her.
Any advice? =D
ahem, i guess ur situation is similar to other posts here..tat y u no rec any replies.... y dun u take a look at other pple's replies n apply to ur situation..if not we all aunties n uncles agonies will keep repeating the same old words...type until tired lah. quick go n see other replies dun indulge in ur own prob. May buddha fill u with enlightment light. :)
She had moved on, so you should too. Unless you want to confess your love to her but I doubt it does much but at least you try, Tell her then move on... like she did.
think it's ur ego..gals more appealing when there are more competitors..
nothing wrong with the gal moving on...since she already wasted so much time on someone who did not like her..it's time for her to find her happiness..
one sided love is a very painful thing..