backstabbed...
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y everytime i kanna backstabbed one
i help this guy escape major demerit, siam police arrest, n in the end what do i get? he go all out to backstab me n get everyone to hate me. den he keeps spreading rumors dat i m**turb*te in class. wah lan wats his damn problem? how to deal with such people? he also always no reason walk to me den make fun of my name. ok dat i wun mind, budden he keeps jeering n dat irritating laughter of his makes me want to kill him. i try to ignore him, but sometimes i reallie cannot resist throwing him down the stairs. den when everyone having fun n saboing me, he purposely spoil my fun by suddenly shouting out in class "hahahaha u fag*ot" or spewing some vulgarities. i mean, if my frens called me dat, i dun mind, but now i just bth this kind of people whu like to spoil de fun one
den got another s-o-b in my class, i help him so many times n hes like so damnass stingy. i gave him a book when he needed to copy notes. i lend him my notes when he didnt bring. den when i didnt bring my stuff, he dun want to share with me. den when i didnt do homework, he will jus shout in class "whoa xxx (my name) didn't do homework!" or "wah xxx how can you b so naughty?". i mean if he didnt do his homework, i wun sabo him one wat. den in the end i will kanna scolding frm teacher
y some pple liddat one? wtf's their problem? how to deal with them? sometimes i reallie want to beat them up good... -
just ignore them.... don't argue back, keep quiet, smile at them when they make fun of you...
soon they won't have thrill making fun of you liao...
act cool man!
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Ah, you are not the first one having such problems. Most people are like that. Remember only care for yourself, dun care for others. Nowadays people take advantage of those people who are kind. Those people who are really kind are very hard to find. If you find one, make sure you cherish the friendship.
My friend once told me " In singapore, due to high competiveness, people are backstabbing one another in order to achieve better than others." -
i hate backstabbers too.
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u have to know how to handle themOriginally posted by Sliderwkw:Ah, you are not the first one having such problems. Most people are like that. Remember only care for yourself, dun care for others. Nowadays people take advantage of those people who are kind. Those people who are really kind are very hard to find. If you find one, make sure you cherish the friendship.
My friend once told me " In singapore, due to high competiveness, people are backstabbing one another in order to achieve better than others."
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Wah, you have any secret advices for both of us?Originally posted by xelat1:u have to know how to handle them -
Backstabbers. They are the ones who aren't going to get any true friends. -
Endure and stab back harder next time
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u power sia...back-thruster...Originally posted by Spetznaz:i love stabbing gals pussy from da back
m i a back stabber??? 
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Originally posted by toothie:Endure and stab back harder next time And when is this thing going to end? When one party finally dies?
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erm.. this is call.. a tooth for a tooth?Originally posted by Parka: And when is this thing going to end? When one party finally dies? -
Originally posted by toothie:erm.. this is call.. a tooth for a tooth? Yesh. I know. Hahhaa. But sometimes it's very tiring to plan the backstab.
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erm... then let ppl backstab u more..Originally posted by Parka: Yesh. I know. Hahhaa. But sometimes it's very tiring to plan the backstab. -
Originally posted by toothie:erm... then let ppl backstab u more.. Hmmm......It's a dark world......
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torch-light 4 u?Originally posted by Parka: Hmmm......It's a dark world...... -
Originally posted by Parka: Hmmm......It's a dark world......
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Originally posted by sgboy2004:torch-light 4 u? I need a flame-thrower.
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Time to employ unorthodox method - I hate backstabbers, I understand your plight. Let me enlightened. Firstly: Never put too much trust in friends - learn how to use enemyOriginally posted by SHODAN:y everytime i kanna backstabbed one
i help this guy escape major demerit, siam police arrest, n in the end what do i get? he go all out to backstab me n get everyone to hate me. den he keeps spreading rumors dat i m**turb*te in class. wah lan wats his damn problem? how to deal with such people? he also always no reason walk to me den make fun of my name. ok dat i wun mind, budden he keeps jeering n dat irritating laughter of his makes me want to kill him. i try to ignore him, but sometimes i reallie cannot resist throwing him down the stairs. den when everyone having fun n saboing me, he purposely spoil my fun by suddenly shouting out in class "hahahaha u fag*ot" or spewing some vulgarities. i mean, if my frens called me dat, i dun mind, but now i just bth this kind of people whu like to spoil de fun one
den got another s-o-b in my class, i help him so many times n hes like so damnass stingy. i gave him a book when he needed to copy notes. i lend him my notes when he didnt bring. den when i didnt bring my stuff, he dun want to share with me. den when i didnt do homework, he will jus shout in class "whoa xxx (my name) didn't do homework!" or "wah xxx how can you b so naughty?". i mean if he didnt do his homework, i wun sabo him one wat. den in the end i will kanna scolding frm teacher
y some pple liddat one? wtf's their problem? how to deal with them? sometimes i reallie want to beat them up good...
Be wary of friends, for they will betray you more quickly - for they are easily aroused by to envy. They also become spoiled or tyrannical. But a former enemy will be more loyal than a friend, because he has more to prove. In fact you have more to fear friends than enemies.
Then you have to re-create yourself.
Do not accept the roles society foist on you. Re-create yourself by creating a new identity, one the commands attention and never bores the audience. Be the master of your own image rather than letting others define for you. Incoperate dramatic device into public gesture and actions - your power will be enhanced and you will be seen larger than life.
Learn to keep people dependant on you.
To maintain independence, you must be needed and wanted. The more you are relied on, the more freedom you have. Make people depend on you for their happiness and prosperity and your have nothing to fear. Never teach them enough for their cannot do without you.
Once this is succeeded, make them come to you - use baits if neccessary.
When you force the other party to act, you are the one in control. Its always better to make your opponent come to you, abandoning his own plans in the process. Lure him with fabulous gains then attack - you hold the cards.
Finally to assist you to cripple them, use selective honesty and and generosity to disarm your victim.
One sincere and honest move will cover a thousand of dishonest ones. Open-hearted generosity bring down the guard of even the most suspicious people. Once selective honesty opens a hole in their armor - you can deceive and manipulate them at will. Followed by a timely gift - a trojan horse - will serve the same purpose here and they will be utterly destroyed.
1 Strategy in 36 Stratagem of War - Man Tian guo hai - make sure your doings in invisible to the society. Work underground and strike in the night - only attack when you know you will destroy them.
Cheers *Evil mode on* -
If you see nails on the floor, SIMPLY AVOID them.... If you choose to (or choose not to be careful) step on them, don't ask me why it hurts... I can explain the 'mechanism' of it to you... But it certainly won't prevent you from getting hurt again the next time round...?Originally posted by SHODAN:y everytime i kanna backstabbed one
i help this guy escape major demerit, siam police arrest, n in the end what do i get? he go all out to backstab me n get everyone to hate me. den he keeps spreading rumors dat i m**turb*te in class. wah lan wats his damn problem? how to deal with such people? he also always no reason walk to me den make fun of my name. ok dat i wun mind, budden he keeps jeering n dat irritating laughter of his makes me want to kill him. i try to ignore him, but sometimes i reallie cannot resist throwing him down the stairs. den when everyone having fun n saboing me, he purposely spoil my fun by suddenly shouting out in class "hahahaha u fag*ot" or spewing some vulgarities. i mean, if my frens called me dat, i dun mind, but now i just bth this kind of people whu like to spoil de fun one
den got another s-o-b in my class, i help him so many times n hes like so damnass stingy. i gave him a book when he needed to copy notes. i lend him my notes when he didnt bring. den when i didnt bring my stuff, he dun want to share with me. den when i didnt do homework, he will jus shout in class "whoa xxx (my name) didn't do homework!" or "wah xxx how can you b so naughty?". i mean if he didnt do his homework, i wun sabo him one wat. den in the end i will kanna scolding frm teacher
y some pple liddat one? wtf's their problem? how to deal with them? sometimes i reallie want to beat them up good...