feel like nothing more to enjoy in life
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Hi everyone
i read many stories of yours in this website
may be I'm the only vietnamese here post the topic on SG forums
well i've been in singapore for 2years already
2years-with 2 lovers passed by me
if u have met me in real life,may be u nv believe the reason why I always been left by 2 ex b4
they're all singaporean and the 1st ex also my 1st love in life-which made me suffer for almost 1 year for the 2month relationship with him
I just break up with my 2nd bf 1 month ago,9 month relationship,even on our 1st day anniversary...I went back vietnam for chinese new year about 10days,we also keep contact then 1st feb we break up...I smoke 1 package of cigarettes for everynite of missing him...well he's fat n cant say handsome...and even poor due to debt n family backcrupt,i nv ask for anything from him,what i do is ask him to study,I buy shoes,coats n etc that i can afford for him,even I'm just a foreginer come to singapore to study(I 21yrs old) I dun care how much the other guys like me or what my friends,family...say about him...once i love him,I do everything for him,only 1 thing that I can't accept:sex b4 marriage,my mom even 1 time cried in front of me,cos she says she knows we can't have a happy ending,I trust n love him 100%,now then i realize 1 thing that i can't accept by going to his facebook,he likes the other gal that uglier than me,we've been through everything,why he can do like that?why?why?why?
he cheated me many times by sms to girl already,but i for give all,he steal my 400 aud to spend i also ignore,now he ask for 300 from me after breaking up?
why the one i love n trust most can do this to me?
feel like nothing to depend on to continue living in this world
i just suicide for drinking 30 sleeping pills same time
but luckily still can survive
any suggesstion for me so i can have a way to enjoy my life from u
i really want to get back to life happily
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I think u just desperate for love. Give yr true love to the special guy and not any guy! U are still young. Do u have vietnamese friend in sg? Ask them to acc u to pass thru this depressing time.
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Originally posted by CannyOng:
I think u just desperate for love.
Give yr true love to the special guy and not any guy!
U are still young. Do u have vietnamese friend in sg? Ask them to acc u to pass thru this depressing time.
those guys don't deserve you, don't waste your tears over them.
anyway you don't always need a guy to survive, be strong gal
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do something you enjoy doing. like cooking or dancing or sewing.
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30 cannot, i suggest 50
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got me can lea (: !
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be single
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Life is not just about getting to be with that special someone... but to give care and concern for those in need and those who really deserved it... so, stop screwing around with the wrong guys...
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hey,it's not the end of the world! look at yourself, pretty, young and self sufficient. Look around you , the world is so big . Everyday, many good things are happening. Do something for yourself. Smile!
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Originally posted by Pooh pe xinh:
Hi everyone
i read many stories of yours in this website
may be I'm the only vietnamese here post the topic on SG forums
well i've been in singapore for 2years already
2years-with 2 lovers passed by me
if u have met me in real life,may be u nv believe the reason why I always been left by 2 ex b4
they're all singaporean and the 1st ex also my 1st love in life-which made me suffer for almost 1 year for the 2month relationship with him
I just break up with my 2nd bf 1 month ago,9 month relationship,even on our 1st day anniversary...I went back vietnam for chinese new year about 10days,we also keep contact then 1st feb we break up...I smoke 1 package of cigarettes for everynite of missing him...well he's fat n cant say handsome...and even poor due to debt n family backcrupt,i nv ask for anything from him,what i do is ask him to study,I buy shoes,coats n etc that i can afford for him,even I'm just a foreginer come to singapore to study(I 21yrs old) I dun care how much the other guys like me or what my friends,family...say about him...once i love him,I do everything for him,only 1 thing that I can't accept:sex b4 marriage,my mom even 1 time cried in front of me,cos she says she knows we can't have a happy ending,I trust n love him 100%,now then i realize 1 thing that i can't accept by going to his facebook,he likes the other gal that uglier than me,we've been through everything,why he can do like that?why?why?why?
he cheated me many times by sms to girl already,but i for give all,he steal my 400 aud to spend i also ignore,now he ask for 300 from me after breaking up?
why the one i love n trust most can do this to me?
feel like nothing to depend on to continue living in this world
i just suicide for drinking 30 sleeping pills same time
but luckily still can survive
any suggesstion for me so i can have a way to enjoy my life from u
i really want to get back to life happily
its usual for men to have lust
since he cant control, then u really have to let go
hope you find someone better
as for the meantime, be single
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got one more vietnamese here
tony vinh -
barista . she never even show her pic o.O . how u know .
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1. Be aware that life is never a bed of roses. There will ALWAYS be bad times and good times. What you are going through is only the bad times. It may hurt, it is painful, and is real. But take comfort that what you had gone through, many billions of people had gone through as well throughout the course of human history. You are not alone or the only one in this world suffering this pain. Many million others share the same pain as you.
The only difference between you and them is that they are attempting to survive it, to rise above such pains, as others had successfully done. But sadly, you choose the easy way out, with pills to destroy your own precious life. Your pain is real, but when you are done or even worse, dead, have you ever thought of the pain of those who TRULY love you and and want you happy? These people are your family, your mother who carried you for nine months in her body, bearing the hardships as she prepared food and love for the family. Your father who worked hard, accepting scoldings and hurt in order to earn his money, so that he can afford things in life for you. Your brothers and sisters, if you have any. Your relatives and friends.
Have you thought of the pain you feel now being inflicted on them, these people who love you, whom you should care more about then rubbish people who didnt care about you?
You should be happy that they dump you now, and not later when the pain becomes more miserable if you are married and became a mother of your own.
Take heart that there are others in the world who is waiting for you and will love you. This is a reality, ask those happily married, and will be a reality, but only if you are determine to live and work hard to find that good man waiting for you, as he is working hard to find you too, through hit and misses just you will be doing.