should girl ask a boy out?
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hai.... dunno if i should ask this guy to be my stead, heard that he like me but that was in the past. he in ns liao but i will be going to saf in june's time also. though long time but we sms or icq at times. any advices?
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maybe u could initiate to contact him 1st? not possible all of the sudden u go jio him rite? he will be shocked~Originally posted by camel:hai.... dunno if i should ask this guy to be my stead, heard that he like me but that was in the past. he in ns liao but i will be going to saf in june's time also. though long time but we sms or icq at times. any advices? 
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test water first:
Test if he has gf liao first
ask innocent questions, like
a) so wat u do during weekend, go out wif gf?
b) where your gf working har?
c) wat u getting 4 your gf this valentine day?
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....................u really both sides very experienced!Originally posted by sgboy2004:test water first:
Test if he has gf liao first
ask innocent questions, like
a) so wat u do during weekend, go out wif gf?
b) where your gf working har?
c) wat u getting 4 your gf this valentine day?
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i am a gentleman 
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Originally posted by kaori:....................u really both sides very experienced!
Of course. -
Originally posted by sgboy2004:test water first:
Test if he has gf liao first
ask innocent questions, like
a) so wat u do during weekend, go out wif gf?
b) where your gf working har?
c) wat u getting 4 your gf this valentine day?
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i am a gentleman haha he no gf but he is shy type. i scared wait if he agree but we dunno what to talk when meet, then it may lead to breakoff eventually -
Prepare your topics beforehand???
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try to get to noe him beta first? i mean, beta as in..more dan normal frens......Originally posted by camel: haha he no gf but he is shy type. i scared wait if he agree but we dunno what to talk when meet, then it may lead to breakoff eventually -
i wish the girls i like is as initiative as u. sigh.
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skali he reject u...how?
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Originally posted by camel:
meaning?...
he in ns liao but i will be going to saf in june's time also.
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me tooOriginally posted by dumbdumb!:i wish the girls i like is as initiative as u. sigh. -
bettter to know than always dun know...so can move on with life mah...and bio next target...like mi...Originally posted by Master -_-:skali he reject u...how?
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i am a gentleman
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Go ahead n try lah... If u dun, u'll nv noe the outcome. U might regret 4 not trying at all.... if u scared pai say, try asking over d phone, at least not as embarrassing as face 2 face...
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sms also canOriginally posted by |m00nLighT*ShaDows|:Go ahead n try lah... If u dun, u'll nv noe the outcome. U might regret 4 not trying at all.... if u scared pai say, try asking over d phone, at least not as embarrassing as face 2 face... -
Originally posted by Xcert:meaning?...
hehehe cos i going to sign on and now waiting for contract -
we can consider good friends leh together with few of friends as well at times go out. but then i scared wait if he rejects me, then next time won't be having this kinda gathering, either he siam me or i siam him liaoz
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Oh....I see....for a moment I thought U ah-gua or something....paiseh larOriginally posted by camel:
hehehe cos i going to sign on and now waiting for contract
....anyway back to the topic...I dun see anything wrong with U making the first move...the fact that he is in NS and U are signing on is not likely to be an issue if U dun do anything funny while in uniform... -
Depend on wat sort of guy he is lor,Originally posted by camel:hai.... dunno if i should ask this guy to be my stead, heard that he like me but that was in the past. he in ns liao but i will be going to saf in june's time also. though long time but we sms or icq at times. any advices? 
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why not drop some hints to him and tell him that there's this levis type 1 jeans that you really like and would like someone to accompany you out to buy it..
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haha funnyOriginally posted by Xcert:Oh....I see....for a moment I thought U ah-gua or something....paiseh lar ....anyway back to the topic...I dun see anything wrong with U making the first move...the fact that he is in NS and U are signing on is not likely to be an issue if U dun do anything funny while in uniform... cos he is in armour while i'll be in navy. when i really go in, first few years i think i will be very busy and he himself can only book out on weekend also very jia lat. -
hehe he is ok type one. i would say a down to earth type but i just scared that if he quiet, i quiet then ...........Originally posted by Hitakogi:Depend on wat sort of guy he is lor, -
hmmm how to fix a down to earth type of guy?Originally posted by camel:hehe he is ok type one. i would say a down to earth type but i just scared that if he quiet, i quiet then ...........
u can't do everything .... basically ...u r a lady after all,
must have someface .. but that doesn't means u CAN"T ask a boy out,
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i am still thinking, as at times i wonder why must i make the first move. in fact i think he indirectly ask me but i rejected quicky as i'm pretty scared in relationship because of my friends' poor relationship, i'm scared that i may end up likedat too.Originally posted by Hitakogi:hmmm how to fix a down to earth type of guy?
u can't do everything .... basically ...u r a lady after all,
must have someface .. but that doesn't means u CAN"T ask a boy out, 
however in the other hand, i think that if i dun strike now, i may regret in future although both he and i dun have any relationship before. -
sex lor...Originally posted by camel:hehe he is ok type one. i would say a down to earth type but i just scared that if he quiet, i quiet then ...........
thats why couples have sex... cos they run out of things to say. its a good silence breaker, trust me.